I thought this would be an interesting and perhaps educational topic, especially since we are all advocates of the written word. Anyone like to share any tips, sites, or experiences regarding internet dating?
Ask me on Sunday. i have a date on saturday night with a local girl I've met through adultfriendfinder. we both just want a no strings thing but as a regular fuck rather than a one-off. She looks nice and certainly writes some fabulous emails.....and wants me to give her her first ever facial frosting which is nice! My feelings generally toward that site.inthe uk the balance seems to be 21 guys for every woman so you have to work hard! I sent out about 25 emails, individually written ones, which is a lot of hours invested, and got back maybe 5 or 6 replies. Of those there have been only two that I was then still interested in pursuing (I had a couple of emails as well that were from women but not in reply to anything I had sent but nothing to interest me really) the girl I'm seeing on sat who is my age (330 and a 19 year old student who lives half an hour away. Hey if they both work out the time and efforts I've put in will be more than rewarded. I've been on there about a month now, but for the first two and a half weeks i felt like I was flogging a dead horse, just sending mails and getting fuck all back, and this despite putting up ics on my profile and filling every detail in and refining what I'd written etc.
just to add thoug that living in somewhere vast like New York the world is your oyster compared to where I live. After the 25 mails there was just no more profiles that interested or excited me nearby, you could keep banging out emails and sowing prospective seeds for months and months and still have hundreds of likely candidates to go for (of course you'll have more male competition as well to deal with).
Gem, I did a similar thing (adultfriendfinder.com) trying to set up some redhead lesbo love for the missus. She had told me some very steamy stories, with some prompting, about her interest in being with another woman and I, being the unselfish, devoted husband that I am....
Ulterior motives aside, I really just wanted her to live out her fantasy. And watch. Of course. Who, with a penis, wouldn't?
I got back some very nice results, from my perspective, but Mrs. 60 is very hard to impress, so it went nowhere. Either she wasn't attracted to them physically, or if she was, she didn't approve of their personality or IQ (or lack thereof, of either quality).
As it turned out, I exchanged messages with three or four very nice (and IMHO nice-looking) women over the course of a few months, and sent them pictures, and generally just tried to act as intermediary for a little extra-curricular carpet-munching.
The trick, if you'd call it that, was merely being honest and humorous and coming across as a healthy, happy, well-adjusted human being.
"Creepy" is not sexy. Neither is "desperate." Other than that...I got nothin'.
I mean, a pal has hit pure gold a few times -- but he has a big tit fetish, which means he will accomodate plus-size honeys -- HOT SEXY PLUMPERS OH YEAH!!!! .
I have had some interesting encounters via Nerve, but nothing really too sparky. Have met a few I wish had sparked. Have met a few I was happy to get away from.
At 46, though, I'm not pulling the MTV demographic. Until ... The craziest action I got was a 22-year-old Ukranian hottie angling for a US husband and a green card to go with her sugar daddy. I think she succeeded. Funny, I still get these saucy pics! I was hoping she'd visit before tying the knot, so I could play "international neighbor bitch" with her, hands across the water, and all that. You know: ORANGE POWER!
Alas! Didn't happen. BUt there are always girls online soliciting gang bang buddies, husbands seeking dudes to come ravage their blindfolded and bound wives, dominatrix/web designers without mercy, the usual ...
I find it can be a fun diversion.
Hmmm, maybe if my profile wasn't topped witha shot of me ravishing Julie Night at the 2004 ADT Party I'd get more action? Nahhhhhh!
Interesting experiences. I tried adultfriendfinder once and the only positive response was from a beast (no kidding). Then again, I joined for a month in Cincinnati -the most conservative city in the country.
I've done yahoo when I used to do a lot of travelling. I had one serious relationship and several girlfriends. A few quickies too.
At this point, I would rather meet someone serious-minded and its been tough in New York. Despite the joy I take in watching (ok, whacking off) porn I am actually a committed type of person who doesn't prefer casual dating.
At least the internet can help you meet someone you normally would not meet.
I tell you what for the guys who don't mind a more luxuriantly constructed woman there really is 'gold in them there hills'. Reading the profiles of the larger ladies and some of the emails I've had back if it's your thing you could get quite a bit of sex and these girls seem generally in their profiles to be up for more than their skinnier cousins (as a generalisation of course). Best profile I read was of a larger lady in southern england (too far from me anyway) who said she had had 'a bad experience of giving oral sex' some years ago and now wanted a younger man who would be happy to go round a couple of times a week and just allow her to practice her technique on him, she didn't expect or really want anything back in return, just that he was clean, well spoken and of average size
I've met so many people over the internet and then in person...2 of them happened to be ex girlfriends of mine, my best friend which I called now my little sister, and many others successfull encounters. The woman that I'm dating at this moment I met her thru the internet as well and all I gotta say is British Women rocks!!! :P
In the mid-90s, I had just begun to use a program called Painter and a Wacom tablet, and I was interested in learning 3D Studio (back when it was a DOS program, almost ten years ago, fucking A where does the time go). I had some big idea about making my own animated underground comic with tits and guns and explosions and a heavy metal soundtrack and topical humor and wisecracks, all by myself (fuck, I was naive about how long that was going to take).
I started a profile somewhere out there under the Cobalt60 name soliciting for models. "Can't pay much, but I'll give you a cut if I ever make anything using your likeness and it generates any revenue!"
Would you believe I never got one girl to model nude for me? And I wasn't even trying to fuck 'em.
Maybe saying "no sex" was where I made my mistake.
In summary, asking girls to stand still in the nude for you in fetish garb holding swords or assault rifles or both, while you take pictures, for free, doesn't seem to yield many results.
I've had friends do it and it can be disappointing, discouraging and insulting. That said she went through a lot of frogs before finding her prince (cliche). They seem to be really happy.
10 years in net time is a very long time cobalt -- nowadays every chick and her pussy it getting her gear off for the camera -- you were ahead of your time hon. Perhaps the comic thing would take off now. I like the girl colouring pictures at cocknpuss.com.
The internet dating thing can certainly work out, depends what you're looking for. I know three people personally who found the love of their life on the net. It's one vast meeting place come cyber bedroom ...
I used to do internet swingers board dating. I guess thats how i got into porn by 1st getting on the swingers boards and when i posted my pics i had like 200 emails the 1st day. We had great luck screening guys and girls for 3 somes. Don't know exacly if this applies to regular dating but it worked great for us.
