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| TigerDragon Member 108 Posts 11/00 |  Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 1:10AMWhat is everyones' thoughts on Inter-racial relationships? Tell me about your relationships? What hardships, sterotypes did you overcome? Are there races that you had not considered dating/marriage but did? Here are some Articles that I had come across:
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| Trunks Member 89 Posts 4/01 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 10:58AM I know a lot of people who have a problem with it. I think it's most healthy to not have a problem with it though. I think the heterogenity that results from everybody interacting and not being isolated or separated is better for everyone's growth, health, and so on. There's certainly a lot of implicit taboo put on it in my home town. It's frowned upon.  [Link] |
| Saki At-Large 2087 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 11:37AM For me, as an Asian who's family has been in the U.S. for several generations, it seems silly to me to be expected to limit my choices for life partner to people of the same ethnic background. I'm about as American as they come... - Saki [Link] |
| Lou Member UK 42 Posts 1/00 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 12:18PM [Link] |
| -lunacy- Senior Member 1081 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 1:29PM Thai Japanese Half white half black Black Hispanic White My family has always been rather prejudice, but I just don't understand it. It never factors in for me, I like the person for their intellect, humor, ethics and presence, I could care less about some pigment. Besides, it's not as if we're purebread stock anyway, lol, I don't even know 1/2 my heritage, and the other half is Heinz 57. Fortunatly the only experince I've had with prejudice from being in a n inter-racial relationship was from family and that was (for me) easy to ignore, but I know it really bothered my GF/BF that my family was incapable of seeing beyond skin tone, it was really sad. Lou- That's in interesting predicament eh? I dated a guy that was half black and half white and my parents had the same issue, but it's like, well..who then according to your logic is it "O.K" for him to date? duh!
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| Trunks Member 89 Posts 4/01 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 2:42PM Some people, I'm afraid, will never learn that humans all have the same basic needs and such. where they're from or what religion or what skin color doesn't change basic human conditions. [Link] |
| Evil_Rip Senior Member Power overwhelming 1117 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 5:49PM Do you have an email address? I want to send you something. you can email me here evil_rip@2die4.com Evil_RIP Edited by - evil_rip on Apr 18 2001 [Link] |
| sonic Deactivated User 1178 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 6:20PM Must be focusing too much in the inside, which is why I find everybody the same. [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 8:25PM "Little White Chicks - Big Black Monster Dicks" so much? I may have gotten the name wrong, but you know what I mean. [Link] |
| sonic Deactivated User 1178 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Apr 18 2001 : 8:28PM Because the dicks are big and it seems to penetrate the chicks good. I'm sure many males dig the idea of a huge cock trying to fit in a small vagina..and it's worth the ticket for watching the expression on the porn star's face. LOL! Plus the chicks are beautiiiiiiful! Jake Steed got good taste when selecting his chicks. [Link] |
| diver Member Tenn. 39 Posts 1/01 | Posted - Apr 19 2001 : 5:35AM Now I believe is it not the color of the skin inasmuch the culture. Other races seem to have their own beliefs and traditions that more or less clash with others. This poses more problems than mixed colors. I do believe we are born equal but as we grow we grow differently according to our environment. Some races demand their share and some work for it. [Link] |
| Janitor Retired Porno movies, sexy videos, xxx. Adult DVD Talk at your service. 6409 Posts 11/99 | Posted - Apr 19 2001 : 12:14PM oh yeah - i also dated a guy growing up who was chinese. no hardships. no one really cares who ya date until you get into the marriage range. i'm sure my family would prefer i was marrying a nice, jewish boy, but they've learned to settle for the nice half (heck they're just happy that i'm getting married :) [Link] |
| Evil_Rip Senior Member Power overwhelming 1117 Posts 12/99 | Posted - Apr 20 2001 : 2:29AM Sarasvati's Temple [Link] |
| Diesel Member 516 Posts 3/00 | Posted - Apr 20 2001 : 4:28AM The real hardships, in my view, came from my concern over how my (ex-)girlfriends would endure the looks or comments from being one-half of an interracial couple. Since I grew up in the States as a minority, a racial slur here and there or an insensitive comment really never bothered me anymore; you get used to people being assholes (whether they mean to or not). However, it was a "burden" which the women were not used to and they had to deal with a prejudice that was brand new to them. So without trying to sound too "protective" I must say that in a white female/non-white male relationship, it is the woman who may suddenly have to learn to adjust to a new and different social situation in which she may be chastised or frowned upon. Without sounding too clinical about it, I believe that you have to admire anyone who can assume and deal with those problems in the name of love.
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bono-ONE  All-Star Member SAMCRO 8570 Posts 8/00 | Posted - Apr 20 2001 : 10:56AM [Link] |
| Lou Member UK 42 Posts 1/00 | Posted - Apr 20 2001 : 12:47PM Yeah we got some leaflets through the door from a far right party... wanted people to return to there "ancestoral (sp?) homelands". I'm like, OK, my mum's Irish, dad's from West Indies, born in England.... hmmm, dilemmma. Diver is right about it being more of a culture thing though... if you've ever tried to go out with a girl from a Muslim background, it's very, very hard to keep it running smoothly. Anyway, like Warren Beatty said in Bulworth, we're all gonna keep fucking each other until we're the same colour anyway [Link] |
| Magnet12 Member 488 Posts 1/01 | Posted - Apr 21 2001 : 4:54PM I have dated a variety of females:
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| PrinceO Member 82 Posts 4/01 | Posted - Apr 29 2001 : 1:27PM [Link] |
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