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leglover1000
Member

177 Posts
3/07
Posted - Apr 1 2007 : 1:09AM
I watched some femdom movies where men are being humiliated. Can we say these movies are the equivalent to Max Hardcore movies? Do these movies promote a man hating/contempt attitude, or should we not take it so seriously? I ask that because I notice many men and women are offended by max hardcore films. Personally, I would not buy a max hardcore movie and I am really not into the super rough sex in many gonzo movies.
BIGmike
B-I-G-m-i-k-e

2335 Posts
3/01
Posted - Apr 1 2007 : 10:11AM
Usually in BDSM, femdom, or whatever, it's a control thing, giving up control to someone else. It's a form of acting. I'm sure some of the women may have issues with men, and some men may have their own issues, but I think the majority is mainly acting out a desire to be dominated or to be dominant. Nothing really that shadey, at least for those who grasp the concept.


Max Hardcore is in a league of his own, though I think he did scenes (way tamer than his own movies) for a bondage site.

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elgringoviejo58
Senior Member

1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Apr 1 2007 : 10:42AM
The fundamental difference is that women who act in FemDomMan videos are attractive, while Paul Little is not. My favorite FemDomMan series is MenInPain because I enjoy F/M strapon action, and I sense that it is all in good fun. In fact, at the end they usually have a little interview scene to show the audience that everyone is ok. Max Hardcore videos do not convey the same "all in good fun" theme to me. I don't blame Mr. Little, as I think he is just giving his audience what they want to see.
henry.black
Deactivated User

cyberspace
73 Posts
6/06
Posted - Apr 1 2007 : 11:56AM
Personally I find Femdom movies just as misogynistic.
F/M strapon movies are a celebration of phallicism.
It just reinforces the dominant role men have during sex.
john thomas
Deactivated User

1168 Posts
6/06
Posted - Apr 1 2007 : 9:11PM
That's an interesting perspective. I'd not thought of it like that before.
I can see how that could be true of some (maybe even much) femdom porn but I don't think you can tar everything with the same brush. The sort of strap-on movies I dislike are precisely the ones focused on domination, humiliation, and sissyfication. The sort of strap-on movies I prefer are ones like the Strap Attack series that are far more about playing games with sexual roles than just reversing them (which could, as you suggest, equate to reinforcing those roles) and which are less about domination as such and more about the man and woman finding a mutual pleasure in the act. In those sort of movies the strap-on is less a phallus substitute than simply a tool through which the couple play their games and bring each other pleasure.
 
Le Duc de Blangis
Member

Ecce Lex
396 Posts
9/06
Posted - Apr 2 2007 : 4:26AM
yes.
but all the clichés of dominant males in femdom movies (women with strapon sodomizing men with dirty talk "you're my little piece of shit whore" ect...) sounds satiristic to me.
they have fun imitating "powerful" men.
Dither
Persona non grata

I love America
650 Posts
8/05
Posted - Apr 2 2007 : 7:47AM
I'm sure among some it does, just like the "bitch-slapping" of Max Hardcore satisfies some deep, dark corner of many men's fantasy world. But honestly, as long as people can separate this fantasy world from real life, I don't think that should be taken too seriously. All people have some dark sides, to deny them is of little use. Most normal, sane people know how to keep them in check.

If what is made is illegal and abusive, I think one should go after the producer, not the cusumers.

elgringoviejo58
Senior Member

1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Apr 2 2007 : 8:46AM
I agree with The Duc du Blanglis that videos like MenInPain are satirical. I don't see much satirical about porn that abuses women, like Paul Little, Meatholes, and the ilk. Their customers don't want satire, they want to see women get abused.



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