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| more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12 |  Posted - Mar 19 2013 : 2:36PMMy wife's friend suggested I was submissive based on my public persona (reserved, considerate, non-threatening). But in the bedroom I take a more dominant role. Which situation determines whether I'm sub or dom? Is everyone naturally one or the other?  [Link] |
| scorpiusdeus Member Nice thing about tattoos, I'm spending much less on porn now. 225 Posts 9/11 | Posted - Mar 19 2013 : 6:24PM I don't think being quiet and reserved in public makes you a sub. For all I know you may turn your wife into your personal cum receptacle when you two are alone. My girlfriend is pretty outgoing in public, but in bed she likes me to take charge. She likes to be told what to do and she loves it when I make her beg for cock. You'd never know it to look at her in public. She's actually quite a little ball breaker out of the bedroom.  [Link] |
| more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12 | Posted - Mar 19 2013 : 7:19PM Honestly I don't see the appeal of being dominant outside of a sexual context. I'm not knocking it, I just don't understand the appeal. [Link] |
| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 19 2013 : 9:28PM If you said to me that D/s was just role play, I might shrug it off or even agree with certain points about the statement. I'm not into D/s, it's not my kink. But try telling that to a Master and slave who've been living D/s 24/7 for the last 20 years. You will definately get a different reaction. [Link] |
| more_cowbell Member 162 Posts 2/12 | Posted - Mar 20 2013 : 9:49AM Or is it always a conscious decision or habit to act one way or the other. Edited by - more_cowbell on 3/20/2013 9:38:12 PM [Link] |
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| SexShopGrl Member F is for Forty and Fabulous! 940 Posts 5/11 | Posted - Mar 20 2013 : 9:13PM Sexually, you just never know until you really talk it out or get into bed with someone. I had one Dom that swore sideways I was a submissive based on my personal nature. Boy was he wrong. [Link] |
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