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| SQUIDMONKEY Ass Lord 446 Posts 8/02 |  Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 6:45AMA lady who has been totally into sex and has an immensely high sex drive. You always hear of these types who would put members of the male sex, to shame, but I have never met one. Yeah, I have met girls with relatively high sex drives, but non that demand sex 24 - 7, or those who really initiate sex games or high levels of experimentation. Where the hell do these girls hang out??? Would anyone on ADT classify themselves as having monstrous sexual apetites??? And if so, I want to hear your story!! SQUID [Link] |
| tricia_devereaux Evil Angel DVD Patience is a virtue, but who wants to be virtuous? 4283 Posts 4/00 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 6:57AM Not every time, but when I do, watch out... [Link] |
| Rumplestilt Skin Deactivated User 931 Posts 7/02 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 9:41AM Me neither, m8, where are all these chicks who want sex 24/7? @Tricia... Regards, Rump. [Link] |
| SQUIDMONKEY Ass Lord 446 Posts 8/02 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 10:03AM Tricia, wow!! that has shocked me as well!!! To be honest, I'm not sure on my views on all this face slapping and choking and stuff. On screen i don't really like it, though I'm yet to be with a lady who liked this type of act. SQUID [Link] |
| Pornmaster Mike Senior Member 32DDD 1462 Posts 8/02 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 10:46AM .........and stuff face sitting rules! - Pornmaster Mike [Link] |
| MLyons Senior Member 1617 Posts 8/02 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 11:17AM Re: Face Sitting, Choking, Slapping etc. In my experience the subtleties make all the difference when it comes to this--at least on screen. I've never participated in such things myself. I guess I'm interested in keeping that stuff in the fantasy world. Mike L. [Link] |
| SQUIDMONKEY Ass Lord 446 Posts 8/02 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 11:46AM Yeah I agree with all that you have said. It is all in the fantasy world, but if the reality came knocking on my door, I'm sure that I would be willing to give it a try, though I think I would hold back on the choking side of things. Too dodgy in my opinion!! By the way, just printed off your extensive review of The Fashionistas for me to read on the train on the way home!! I'll let you know what I think!! SQUID [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 11:49AM In my late teens and early 20's, at my most sexually active with the most partners, there were sizeable elements of competitiveness, insecurity and ego mixed in there - who knows what part of it was physical drive! I outstripped most of the guys. In my thirties, the sex was very satisfying, but fairly mundane, and only a few times a week. In my forties, my sex drive is strong, the insecurity is pretty much gone, but a small part is still due to scorekeeping or something like that. It seems that 24/7, if I put my consciousness anywhere near my genitals, yep, kind of a warm buzzy openness and availability to anything. A long kiss with a touch to my lower back, and I have round heels or am ready to drag him off. I try to keep it down to once a day because he's 45 too and we both get sore if we don't. I don't think insatiable would be a good thing - I like to be satisfied, and my husband likes to see me satisfied! Anyway, I don't know what it is, but I hope it stays, and if it starts to fade I'm going to shell out for whatever snake-oil they're selling. Keep in mind that if someone is so demanding of you as to be insatiable, you may come to feel that you are not satisfying him or her. In my own experience, it's nice to be with a partner who is open and playful and available, but easy to satisfy. At least in the long run.
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| Rumplestilt Skin Deactivated User 931 Posts 7/02 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 4:54PM If the babe was up for it, I'd go for an all-night sex feast, but choking and gagging isn't my thang. Butt, each to their own. [Link] |
| Heaven Member 363 Posts 12/01 | Posted - Nov 13 2002 : 10:35PM [Link] |
| SQUIDMONKEY Ass Lord 446 Posts 8/02 | Posted - Nov 14 2002 : 6:08AM I was really shocked at this, and I was saying stuff like I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with someone who wouldn't want sex on a regular basis. I consider myself to have a high sex drive, and ideally would like to have sex at least twice a day on weekdays and more at weekends. I'm 28 now, and my libido is showing no signs of decreasing, whilst my mates all seem to be droppiing by the way side. All in all, I would love to meet someone who they considered to be highly sexed and see if I canm match their pace!! SQUID [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Nov 14 2002 : 11:00AM A wild weekend with an 'insatiable' partner - great! But...to continue for months or years in this mode is not likely. A boyfriend and I once checked into a hotel for 24 hours and had sex five times, but my guess is that he couldn't have followed it up with five the next day, and five the next. He was 19, but he looked pretty tired! Sorry to be realistic, but even male sexual dynamos aren't particularly common, and some of their youthful zest is also about things other than hormones. In a stable relationship, men also tend to feel that they have less to prove, and become more comfortable and relaxed. Demands of work and children figure in as well. It works really well to be matched to a partner with a flexible sex drive - where anything from once a day to once a week or whatever, can work. Because for both people, their drive and their situations change. If you're about monogamy, and she's insatiable, and you're in the hospital or something, you gotta wonder who's minding the store for you. Insatiable means that you can't satisfy her. And also, I don't want to say the word that nobody around here wants to hear, but the penis can be a shy animal. There may be an adaptive reason why women are more receptive rather than initiating. I have always been an initiator, until my forties, and now it's more an invitation, a raised eyebrow, not a crotch-grab. Sometimes it's better to let Mr. Penis choose when he's feeling particularly bone-like. Depending on the guy, even young men may not like to be called-upon to perform, and may prefer to be invited. [Link] |
| MLyons Senior Member 1617 Posts 8/02 | Posted - Nov 14 2002 : 11:18AM My wife and I average about once or twice a week. It may not seem like much, but it's what we have the stamina for, and it doesn't involve any pressure from either side. We were of course much more active when we first started our relationship, but it's normal for the sex drive to diminish a bit as the relatioship develops. As lindi says, flexibility is the key, and be careful what you wish for in terms of insatiable women--you may get it. It's true that eventually, it's very likely that you will find it harder to perform on cue. It may sound like that's impossible now, but it's true nonetheless. Anyway, maybe this isn't the kind of response you were looking for, and I don't think either lindi or I intend to dinegrate your for your sexual drive. :) By all means, test your "testosterone levels" if you wish, but in the long run like lindi says, flexibility is the key and the beauty of a long term relationship lies much more in laughter, companionship and commitment than it does in mutual sex drive. Mike L. [Link] |
| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | Posted - Nov 14 2002 : 11:58AM but that had more to do with our attraction for each other, or chemistry, whatever it is. It eventually cools down, though, no matter what. [Link] |
| SQUIDMONKEY Ass Lord 446 Posts 8/02 | Posted - Nov 15 2002 : 6:01AM I'm not disagreeing with any of your statements, though i wasn't implying that I wanted to be in a permanent relationship with someone who wanted continuous sex 24/7. As I said, I would just like to test my stamina levels and testosterone levels not long term but definately short term. Having been in long term relationships before,( one of 3 years and another of 2), I know that sex isn't always on the menu every day, but it certainly ranked up there as one of the main H'or Deurves of the week!! SQUID [Link] |
| lindi Senior Member 12345 3205 Posts 9/02 | Posted - Dec 28 2003 : 3:14PM
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| GaySatyr Senior Member Half dirty ol' man; half horny ol' goat! 1684 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Dec 28 2003 : 3:30PM [Link] |
| Kitty-kat Member 50 Posts 10/03 | Posted - Dec 29 2003 : 1:01AM [Link] |
| slightly_deviant Member 40 Posts 12/03 | Posted - Dec 30 2003 : 2:55AM Sorry, I'm new here, and I really need to lurk a little longer before I speak up, but I just had to respond to this one. I've had a good number of partners through the years, including a few women who were exactly what you claim you've never met. Now, I'm about as horny as they come, but the type of woman your describing will take all of the fun out of sex for you, and make it seem like a chore. By definition, an insatiable woman can't be satisfied, no matter what. As men, being unable to satisfy your partner is not exactly a big boost for the ego. Clearly, nothing good can come from this situation. And, as was mentioned before, one weekend of non-stop sex is great. But when it starts to go on year after year, 3 or 4 times a day, every day? Hey, a guy has to sleep sooner or later. And do you really want to lose all of your friends because your girl can't go without some lovin' for 6 hours while you hang out at the bar and have some "guy time"? This is one of those fantasies that sounds great when you're in the middle of a dry spell, but turns out to be a living hell if you're unfortunate enough to be faced with the reality. [Link] |
| RobHammer Independent Producer San Jose, CA 444 Posts 4/03 | Posted - Dec 30 2003 : 3:52PM Most of the women (not girls) that I have been with were one orgasm women. Very occasionally my wife has had two in a row. Sometimes she really likes going on afterwards, and other times she just gets sore. When I was in my twenties, one orgasm just didn't do it. I was usually good for two with no loss of erection or refractory period, and sometimes three. We've had all night sessions, and several times in a day, but it's not something you can keep up forever without a break. Even into my late forties, one or two masturbation sessions a day plus sex with my wife is no problem, though she's not interested in sex every day. More than half the time I'm still hard after orgasm and could go again. If I don't it takes a while to cool down. [Link] |
| BigFerret creampie scientist Searching for blonde and red bush 1985 Posts 10/02 | Posted - Dec 30 2003 : 4:42PM [Link] |
| slightly_deviant Member 40 Posts 12/03 | Posted - Dec 31 2003 : 4:35AM I lived with one girl for several years that wanted it so much, I started signing up for out of state training classes at work just to get a break. LOL [Link] |
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