than I am. I feel so creepy :( Does the MILF category exist to make people like me try to not feel so bad? Not to take away from the attractiveness of them, but I just looked up that Stoya was born in 1986. I was in 5th grade then, making me quite a geezer....The 18 and 19 year olds were born when I was a junior in high school. I feel so creepy! Fortunately I look kind of young for my age, but does this bother anyone else?
Not old enough here for this to be a problem (mid 20s), but why would it be creepy to be attracted to youth? Face it, nature hard-wired you this way. It's not like you're a pedo (I hope).
No, but My friends in life are younger than I am, so when their girlfriends hang out with me, and I even touch their shoulder, they on occasion complain.. So I figure some 22 year old chick doesn't want me spanking it to her either. Then on the other hand, some of those 22 year olds would come onto me....
I'd suggest dating age-appropriately then. Or wait for those 22 year olds to make a move on you. There's somewhat of a difference between watching young girls in porn and trying to score with them in person. I'm not saying you're a creep, but I can see how it creeps some of the girls out.
No, trust me, I don't try. My friend and I and some young chick when to a bar in his massive SUV that has no hard top, and it's really high off the ground, and she's 4'10, so I basically stuck my arms out for her to get into to take her to the ground, which she did, and then she complained about it.
Dude, you're what, 33, 34? You think that's really old?? The 19 year old chicks you feel guilty wacking off to are getting banged by the likes of Steve Holmes and Jake Malone who are around 50!
I think the MILF category exists because some people (hi there) prefer women over girls. I've always been attracted to women around my own age or a little older. And since I like women on the curvy side, and more soft-bodied than hard-bodied, women who are in their late 20s, 30s, even 40s often fit that criteria better than college girls.
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Posted - Jan 24 2010 : 5:28PM
I tend to prefer so-called MILFs not only because they're more age appropriate but because, growing up as a boy in the early 70's, most of the movie-stars I fantasized about were in their 30's. So sexy to me is Raquel Welch or Ursula Andress, not some 18 year-old, unsophisticated waif.
Quit thinking so much. It's to your evolutionary advantange to be attracted to 18 year old girls. Quit letting societal and religious shame overcome your natural tendencies. It goes against natural law.
Hm, did I miss something here, about us each possessing a brain, and thus the capacity to develop our own tastes and opinions? My goodness, why the hostility toward the perspective of another? I think age is just a number. As a 22-year-old, I will readily admit that I have fantasized about sleeping with older men, perhaps in their 40s or so, maybe even older. I fantasized last night about screwing my balding, divorced colleague in the faculty of communications. It really turned me on to think that he'd be fantasizing about me and surprised when I showed him that I wanted him too, straddling him and pressing my breasts in his face...ahem...I'm getting carried away. But that doesn't necessarily mean that old guys are 'my type,' nor that I'd be cool with every older guy hitting on me. Most of the time I don't like guys coming on to me; let them come on to you is a good policy. If we want it, we'll go get it. It really just depends on the individual case. Perhaps the young girl was just creeped out because you're her boyfriend's friend.
I'm with Bi-Girl on this one. Age is just another number. When it comes to relationships, however, there are factors associated with a big age difference that can prove to be a detriment. Myself, I just don't have anything in common with most people my age, simply because I have very different life experiences than they do. I find myself getting along alot more with people who are half my age. It doesn't mean I'm emotionally regressed or a pedophile or anything. It's just the way things are. I find myself attracted to girls much younger than me, not because of the young, fresh, nubile crap, but just because I have much more in common with them. I'm not scared of the 10,000 punches you throw one time, I'm scared of the one punch you throw 10,000 times
Here's the deal though. They know you're spanking it to them. Well, not you specifically but they know old farts are going to be beating off to them when they sign on to do porn. They don't care. Why do you?
The best thing about 18 year old girls... no matter how old I get, they stay 18. I don't care if I'm old enough to be their father... I won't care when I'm old enough to be their grandfather...
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Posted - Jan 27 2010 : 2:00AM
Just saw a documentary on Brother Theodore. Dude survived Dachau, lived to be 94 and dated numerous girls throughout his life. So perhaps there's hope for you.
18 year old girls are nature's candy. There's not much to get excited about on this spinning ball of mud hurtling towards the sun we call earth, so don't deny yourself one of the few pleasures available.
Maybe that too. But the genre is immensely popular, so both younger and older people watch it. I had a major thing for older girls when I was in my teens (and still do).
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Posted - Jan 28 2010 : 3:16AM
When I was a child, I was apparently attracted to teen-aged girls.... When I was a teen, I was VERY attracted to teen-aged girls. I'm damn near 40, and I'm VERY attracted to teen-aged girls... even into their 20's When I'm rotting in the ground, I'll be attracted to teen-aged girls! maybe I'll even be into a 30 year old.
I prefer women to girls cause of several reasons. They're softer, much more experienced and really know what they wish to get in bed. ---------------------------- streaming porn kills true feelings Edited by - LeeRoy on 2/1/2010 4:14:28 AM
A spirited 46 that feels like a mellow 32, but with an onset of grey, that likely dispels any claim short of 36 and a half, quickly losing faith in the long held belief, of an aging gene that supposedly kicks in, making women in their 40's more appealing. As for younger women, I've yet to feel odd around them, I suspect because I don't feel old. I will however admit to an interest of porn involving 18 to twentysomthings, or young tarts with old farts. Always have and always will. Somthing about the pathetic nature of it, and while it may not make for an appealing day at the office, for the assigned, aspiring femme fatale, the effort is indeed appreciated, and here's hoping they see THEIR aging gene, kick-in premature.
The Ghost of Cal Jammer had it right. Think about a tropical plant. When it reaches maturity, it produces a flower to attract attention so it can reproduce. It announces to the world "come look at how healthy and fertile I am". Now that flower can stay for a while and then wither away slowly. But the plant doesn't die, it keeps on growing. But that brief magical period of time when the flower is in bloom is a very important part of the plants life but not the whole of its life. Just a part. I would say that the 18 (the law says so) to the mid twenties of the life of a woman are the "flower" period of her life. She is most flexible physically so as to bare children, and hormonally able to cope w/ being pregnant. So do women sexually die @ 29? No, just the opposite. They tend to see sex for there pleasure and not just to reproduce. Just like the old saying, Nature makes babies cute so that their parents don't kill them or eat them. We didnt make this shit up. So help celebrate the 20 year's beauty time of her life. (damn this reads pretty creepy but I dont know any other way to say it) Edited by - WARRENWEST67 on 1/28/2010 8:55:16 AM
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Posted - Jan 28 2010 : 9:14AM
YOU'RE a geezer! When I was in 5th grade, Ike was in his first term and Howdy Doody was still on the air. Listen son, young girls are beautiful and soft and alluring and love the life that stretches out in front of them. You think people stop, or should stop, being attracted to those things as they age? Don't be silly! If by some miracle of benevolent fate I had the chance to enjoy the charms of a consenting 19 year old beauty, make no mistake that I wouldn't do it if it killed me on the spot. An 18 year old is an adult, same as you are. If she likes you and wants to be intimate, why in hell should that 'creep you out? Off topic, I have seen your other posts, of course, lamenting that you are somehow uniquely unattractive, a pariah to women and so forth. You've even asked about getting castrated! If you're not simply bullshitting to gloat over how many people are foolish enough to take you seriously (which would, itself, bespeak your emotional disturbance) your attitude about yourself is a very serious, dangerous, and needless one. Before you go off and blow your brains out or something, at least try to change your life first. From LONG experience I can tell you that things like professional counseling and medication can help you make changes that will make life a lot more pleasant than perhaps you think it can be. Even without that, simply deciding that, one day at a time, you are going to pretend that you ARE attractive, that you CAN get laid or whatever, could reveal to you the absolute FACT that you and your own opinion of yourself is the only thing that is keeping you from enjoying this lousy world a hell of a lot more than you ever knew you could. For Chrissake, boy, I am a deformed cerebral palsiac that walks like a drunken stork and winces at myself in the mirror, and I've had a fairly good sex life. I've been married to a beautiful girl, who admittedly should know better by this time, for coming up on 40 years. Snap out of it, man! Even Shrek got some pussy. Thank God for it, but women -- good beautiful women -- don't put much stock in looks or physique or penis size or stuff like that. They DO care about charm and devotion and self assurance and humor and someone to have fun with. Stop dwelling on yourself and your own failures and stop obsessing about getting laid and start obsessing about getting INVOLVED and being friendly and pleasant and interested in what girls say and attentive to their needs and the sex will take care of itself, I assure you.
I too have always preferred women in their late 20's and 30s than my own age. As I approach that age bracket I find my preference hasn't changed at all, so eventually I love the younger women too. In the real world the younger chicks tend to be better looking but in porn I prefer the MILFs. You get bigger tits and a nice mix of curvy or hardbodies and I kinda think women get prettier as they get older well up to a point. Edited by - Anadin on 1/28/2010 10:48:24 AM
There is a lot of truth to the term - "Timing is everything". The planets align for older / younger sex just as they do for people of the same or similar ages. As a person who enjoys fantasy as much as reality, I can say that I never hesitate. When opportunity knocks, I always answer the door! Loosely
Actually the MILF category exist because the industry forgets the fact more than just 18 and 19 year olds are hot. That's what bothers me. A shame that it has to be a niche, just to find porn with older women. I'm young myself, but I find that a lot of older women (30s, 40s, 50s) to be just as hot as the young and brainless. I don't often see older women in porn, but I enjoy getting off to them when I do.
Whatever the reason the MILF category exists, I am grateful. I am 59 years old, and though I can (and do) appreciate sexy young ladies, I adore grown up women. They appeal to me both in maturity and in looks - - beauty is not a function of age.
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Posted - Apr 11 2010 : 7:23PM
I personally love seeing young 18 year old girls getting demolished. I am however a creepy old fart. I have bedded quite a few 18/19 year old beauties from night clubs.
I don't think it exists for that reason at all. Hell, in 1986 I had already graduated high school. I think the Milf category is here because as we get older some of us don't find the 18 year old girl idea as sexy anymore. I mean, I really wouldn't have sex with an 18 year old girl at my age. LOL. An attractive Milf, sure I would. Milf's in generaly look sexier to me as I have gotten older. Just my thoughts though. Like one of the posters stated, I am already older than the Milf stars as well. Edited by - john5527 on 4/17/2010 5:32:10 PM
MILF is and will be great when performers keep themselves up. I mean, take India Summer. She is *tight* with natural boobs. Perfect!
Too often older performers give up their bodies and say, OK, I'm bigger, but I'll buy some bolt-ons. Jenna Haze is not a MILF, but she is getting older an better. Why? She stays skinny and fit with no surgery, etc.. T
I'm really not into teens only one in 10 porn chicks under 21 do it for me I liked Kiki Vidis, and I like Tori Black but I didn't like Jenna Haze or Teagan Presley until they got older
I just find teens annoying I mean sure, your average hot girl is going to be annoying(watch porn star interviews enough and you'll realize this), but women can be less annoying than little girls.. .. sometimes
Edited by - cm37564 on 5/8/2010 8:36:10 AM
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Posted - Apr 20 2014 : 5:31AM
Funny old thread... I'm just glad the case isn't the direct opposite... Grandmas all over the place would not be my whiskey.
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