par_a_phil_i_a [par-uh-fil-ee-uh]–noun Psychiatry. a type of mental disorder characterized by a preference for or obsession with unusual sexual practices, as sadomasochism, or exhibitionism. Also called sexual deviation.
Paraphilia is considered to float outside the societal norm. When I wrote my “mission statement” I was stating that I want conflict and perversion. Society views porn as abnormal, so let’s keep it that way!!! I don’t want steak and potato porn, (who does?) I want more than just three positions and a pop-shot. We should not underestimate what the buying public wants, just because we are comfortable with making the usual doesn’t mean we have to---we can not become the “norm”. Many cinematic films (and I mean cinematic not blockbuster hits) have made people feel uncomfortable or unsure---I believe it is our responsibility as pornographers to do the same thing. The first rule to remember: There are no rules. We must constantly reinvent the rules…and then break them. As I gain more creative opportunities, (collaboration; directing) I will take my chances to create fresh and provoking pornography. People tend to ask me: what are you doing tonight, or what are you doing this weekend? Has anyone heard of the legendary Walter Payton??? He is one of the few NFL players who trained non-stop; on and off-season…his lifestyle was absent of late-night parties and various social distractions. His business was football; my business is pornography. Listen, I take my job seriously, I don’t have time for extended fun!!! Don’t get me wrong, I like my fun and I love to fuck, I am Sasha Grey: The Fuck Junkie! That’s the key reason why I am here. I am stating this not only for the men to understand that some of us “porn-chicks” are serious and do have goals; but also for the women. There is lack of confidence in our business, and many women are misguided. There is a better way to empower the female name than falling prey to high school drama. Your age does not make you a woman; just because some of us are 18, 19, and 20 doesn’t validate ignorant behaviour. If you are one of those “girls” who chose to get in this business I strongly would recommend a reality check. Us young women have taken a defined opportunity, but yet there are individuals who have chosen not to accept the responsibilities that are attached to it. A wise woman once told me, “You don’t retire from porn, and there is no pension”. Please remember this, and plan for the future, save your money! Focus on the sex---not the sex, drugs, & rock&roll expectation of a porn star. I am hoping there will be more of a sister-hood, a union as such… it’s time we wise-up.
Keep on trolling. What a bullshit! Im fucking unstoppable now ... 717 Posts 3/06
Posted - Sep 5 2006 : 7:42PM
Exhibitionism is unusual?
Meh.
But I would keep in mind that many porn devotees are just fine with, and in many cases prefer, porn that doesn't cater to the extremes. I'll take a hot 1 on 1 scene with the basics that has real chemistry over a chick on xanax getting reamed in both holes and drinking semen out of her butthole anyday. I don't begrudge anyone that watches such porn, to each their own. But I think there has been a serious nasty streak growing in porn in the past few years. Misogyny seems to be endemic.
But good luck being the Walter Payton of pornography. He was my favorite halfback growing up. :D
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john thomas Deactivated User
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Posted - Sep 5 2006 : 7:56PM
I'm can't imagine what "training non-stop" for porn might involve. Still, I'd love to be Sasha's sparring partner and find out. I could take the bruises.
I've got a bad case of Sashaphilia, and this might be the only cure.
Sasha already got me by the nutsack then she goes and mentions the greatest football player ever my idol Walter Payton. I think my cock is going to explode .
Where in the hell is my grilled cheese? 575 Posts 3/05
Posted - Sep 6 2006 : 8:17AM
Well, I admire your vigor for your line of work, but I still don't think you are allowed to show the proclivities I'd like to corrupt you with on video.
I'm glad you mentioned that. I did not include this topic in my thread. Legality is a big issue; many of my fantasies cannot be sold in the us. So although it limits the piss, vomit, and so on... I still believe we can incorporate innovative sexuality into our pornography. Anyways, that's what European distribution is for...the good stuff!!!
FuckJunkie
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pinc_noiz Deactivated User
758 Posts 6/05
Posted - Sep 8 2006 : 4:35AM
Being European, this is excellent news. Any info yet on the kind of 'innovative sexuality', and by which network it's going to be distributed? As one perv to an other ...?
Where in the hell is my grilled cheese? 575 Posts 3/05
Posted - Sep 8 2006 : 9:11AM
No! Those Eurotrash must suffer like we do! I'm sure as hell not going to spend $90 on an import!
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pinc_noiz Deactivated User
758 Posts 6/05
Posted - Sep 8 2006 : 11:04AM
It's generally accepted talent gets paid more for doing vaginal than for bj sex, more for anal than vaginal, more for triple anal than solo dildo , .... Don't see a problem in that.
A movie / DVD containing lots of high-paying 'acts' will cost you more. Production costs is what it's called. Don't see a problem in that.
Cost is irrelevant when the product is to my likings. The more unique and fitting for my, the more irrelevant the cost.
I haven't even seen a Sasha Grey scene yet, but she's already become my favorite porn artist ever. An intellectual, sexually adventurous, very confident 18 year old who is also one of the most beautiful women I've probably ever seen. I don't even know if I could take watching the videos... it might be too much to handle. Apparently a really existing version of the porn star I've long imagined in my mind. And still almost 5 months until the Awakening release... (sigh...)
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ArinsystmaticX Deactivated User
1968 Posts 12/05
Posted - Sep 8 2006 : 4:50PM
Are you sure you're only 18? You are more mature then the most of the 25-26yr olds who've been involved with the industry for years. I am turning into a Sasha Grey fan, not just for your nastiness in scenes, but also your desire to break rules or push boundaries...which I've ALWAYS appreciated, and supported. Now about things you can't really do legally in USA porn, well there's always the option of a personal website and doing extra nasty shit there...like most of the younger girls do now days. About your desire to help build some kinda sisterhood or union of pornstars in porn, well I doubt that'd ever happen because girls are bound to get jealous of eachother as some get a lot more attention from the directors and fans then others, and the fact of the matter is...that MOST of those 18--19yr olds who get into the industry are only after money. Money is what attracts them, not unlimited supply of cock or pussy or ass....but dreams of driving a brand spankin new BMW and living in a big house. After reading your thoughts though, I feel like learning more about you now so I'll be joining your myspace world as well...hoping u let me in . It's refreshing to see a young girl in the business so passionate about FUCKING and setting new rules. I like it.
TRicker and trickier these days, unless you have a million bills in the bank for a good lawyer and bail. There's a lot of crackdown in the land of the free. Puritans and perverts, that's our America!
There's a universe of sexuality porn doesn't explore ... and sometimes I wonder if it can , given the self-imposed limits of the imagination the supposedly limitless porn industry adheres to in its dogged drive to diminish human experience rather than expand it and enlighten the blueballed Everystroker and the panty-soaking Everystrokette. The enemy is porn itself. Death to porn! Long live the new flesh!
A beautiful, intelligent woman into Godard, Joy Division, and pushing the boundries of sex? I may just need to rethink my theory on this whole "God" thing.
Skronker is dead on. Though in a culture in which pornography is so ghettoized and constantly maligned, I wonder within this context if it can fully attain any broader sense of its aesthetically and intellectually challenging possibilities and expanding its portrayal of sexuality beyond so many repetitive roles and scenarios. I mean, there are very good directors and performers which do try new things and also make very good work of the "tried and true" scenarios... but on the whole, there is a lack of experimentation. But again, I'm thinking at least in the U.S. that has a lot to do with the limitations of the way people in general perceive and respond to pornographic work here. Would a great surrealist erotic xxx film, with truly hardcore sex, get the attention it would deserve in critical academic and cinematic circles in this society? I doubt it. But yeah, I think it goes both ways... and in some sense, similar things could be said about the music industry and most definitely the mainstream film industry as far as that goes.
This is one of the main reasons why I favour European cinema versus American. Musically speaking you have to go underground to find the politically challenging material. The more anti-bush the less it will be heard. Most great material fits into a niche market and 2o years down the line will be considered progressive. Such examples: Joy Division, Holland (current musician; check him out) Black Sabbath.