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Sexykins
New Member


4 Posts
12/07
Posted - Dec 19 2007 : 7:06PM
What's the best way to last longer, either via a product or a technique? My diabetes have left me a bit quick even with them under control.
lindi
Senior Member

12345
3205 Posts
9/02
Posted - Dec 19 2007 : 8:15PM
There are a couple of threads linked to on the Sex Talk FAQ. I bumped one of them, already. Hopefully they will have something helpful.
This is a LIVE thread, so people, jump in and add your two bits.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Dec 20 2007 : 12:53AM
Simple. Have more sex. Assuming you're male. Once you come, achieving another climax within a few hours should take significantly longer. Of course, it's also significantly less enjoyable.
Look up edging. It seems that it was easier for me to do when I was younger. I used to be able to "edge" for quite a while but it requires a significant amount of self control. And it helps if your body cooperates. These days, it seems like if I try edging, I can lose my erection and/or sensitivity if I don't climax when I get close.
conquistador
Deactivated User

Hellhamster.
2947 Posts
10/03
Posted - Dec 20 2007 : 1:14AM
I want to mention communication as well. You should talk to your partner about your anxieties.
Sometimes these things are readily understood and explained. I was on a medicine that pretty much made me "Mr. Squirt-Happy". I couldn't control it but I could get erections back very quickly so it all worked out, but I had to tell my girlfriend about it because I wanted her to realize I was still into her, just having some issues. But I am just saying that depending on your situation sometimes talking about it can put you at ease so the problem doesn't happen in the same way or an embarrassing way.
stinkfist
Senior Member

Subterfuge......
7401 Posts
4/07
Posted - Dec 20 2007 : 1:30AM
Having a more experienced lover might help,being able to talk to a partner about your likes sexually might help,delaying things when you feel your getting to the point of cumming etc,Practice makes perfect.
 
Sexykins
New Member

4 Posts
12/07
Posted - Dec 21 2007 : 4:01PM
I'll look up the edging thing, and we communicate very well about sex. This has only been an issue since my diabetes went out of control and now that it's back under control this seems to be an issue. Also I had a vasectomy which I don't know if it caused an issue too.
studioline
Member

303 Posts
8/07
Posted - Jan 3 2008 : 10:07PM
People don't only use ED medicines just to get an erection. Viagra and others can in some cases keep the wood going even after the first ejaculation and sometimes even after the second ejaculation.
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Edited by - studioline on 1/6/2008 4:44:35 PM
Kensington Chapp
Senior Citizen

Mine is the biggest.
610 Posts
7/07
Posted - Jan 4 2008 : 6:11PM
I have discovered a technique recently, still in the beta phase though;
When you're about to come, just quit stroking and let it all fly out.
If you get the timing right, you can blow your load without full orgasm, also without losing much sexual appetite, and wood remains intact.
Feel free to try it out.
Another technique I've practised to the point of being able to withold until infinity is by focusing on something else entirely.
Counting imaginary sheep sucks, because it's boring.
You need to be wide awake, thinking at the speed of light and talking out loud in your head about something more urgent and serious than shagging.
Like hairy man arse in your face.
However, this technique is very energy consuming and doesn't allow one to really enjoy sex, as you're keeping yourself mentally away from the great pussy wrapped around your cock.

I really shouldn't be here

Cryogenix
Member

84 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jan 6 2008 : 7:52PM
In a nutshell: think about her, not you.
I've found I tend to lose control when I think too much about my sensations and what my cock is doing and where it is. Instead, I focus more on how much she's enjoying getting fucked and how great it is to be able to pleasure her. It's not always easy since her erotic groans and exclamations really turn me on, but a balance is able to be achieved where you distance yourself from over-stimulation while still remaining hard and enjoying the act. Sometimes looking at her and smirking with pride or delight is all it takes to tame the impending surge.
Regarding Kensington Chapp's above-post: Something I've experimented with through masturbation is to disconnect from the sensation my cock is feeling when about to explode by resisting the urge to contract with the ejaculation. If I let the cum ooze out without contracting, my dick will stay hard. When I finally do orgasm (or contract), it'll be a dry ejaculation. I started toying with this after one of my girlfriends said tasting cum on the back of her tongue made her even more horny. So, I began to practice having multiple periods of cum ooze out onto her tongue, a dildo, my finger or whatever, to get her more excited and in the zone to let herself go. I can usually release about four small portions of cum per session, and stil remain rock hard to fuck her.
Edited by - Cryogenix on 1/6/2008 8:24:51 PM



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