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Mason
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 12:43AM
So sorry to have taken so long to respond to some very valid questions. I've been shooting and editing for too many days, and neglected to finish my quest pollster duties. So here goes . . .

DO MY MOVIES HAVE A NEGATIVE AFFECT ON SOCIETY?


Driving home one night last week after reading some of the posts made me stop and think. “Am I really doing the right thing here? Am I somehow contributing to something negative for women and society in general?” Several posts wracked my conscience. “Mason is irresponsible.” “She likes to abuse women.” I really began to question if what I was doing was harming society. I thought long and hard and this is my conclusion.

I’m not a statistician, but I can tell you about some real world experiences. I was with a man who was a porn addict if there ever was one. He enjoyed the more “Extreme” titles and enjoyed watching girls be spit on and degraded. He was the sweetest, kindest man I’ve ever met. Treated me like a queen. I dated another man who abhorred porn, and criticized me for wanting to be involved in the industry. One night he sent me to the hospital after a severe beating. I can’t tell you what environmental factors lead to his behavior, but it was my fault and NOTHING ELSE that made me stay with him. You never know what will set people off, and rough porn seems to be a convenient place to point fingers.

Even my mother, who has never seen a porn video in her life, said to me after viewing Dirty Trixxx, “wow, those girls really enjoyed themselves.”

Of the many people that have emailed me in regards to Dirty Trixxx the common response is that they “get” what I’m trying to convey. Here are a few examples . . .

"Most of the people in the [ADT ]discussion have not seen Dirty Trixxx. Many of them have seen the Rough Sex videos, or Max Hardcore's stuff, Extreme Associates' silliness of late, or any number of the rougher German clips out there. Many of them haven't seen anything of the kind and are relying on good or bad personal experiences, or their imaginations in order to envision what you mean by that question. The fact is that all of those scenerios [in Dirty Trixxx] are at the same time similiar in character , while being worlds apart in detail and execution."

" . . . I really LIKED Dirty Trixxx. I got the sense that the women in the movie were not only consensual [sic], but for the most part were enjoying themselves."

"Everyone clearly seemed to be having fun. Its probably not news to you that the intense "playing out" (ie: nasty little slut, etc.) is an expression of the inner life of sex and is not at all bad for us."

"The movie was filled with domination...and verbal humiliation without venturing too far into physical abuse— I hope you can continue along this path, and find attractive men and women who really do enjoy sex of the more rough and dominant variety. I love the women in my life--my wife, my friends, my family--and the difference between fantasy and reality is something I absolutely understand."

Yes, the porn I like to produce is rough, and at times very degrading. But it is performed by women who visibly enjoy what they are doing (there are at least 7 female orgasms in Dirty Trixxx), and the women encourage the rough stuff. How often do you see women getting off in any porn video? This is consensual folks, and anyone who would interpret it otherwise and hurt somebody, had issues long before they saw my video. Most viewers spell it out clearly and distinguish my videos from the others that simply degrade for shock value. They get it. I have faith in humanity.

There are far less obvious cultural influences that devalue women. Women are devalued in this country and have been years before there was porn. Women are disposable. We earn far less. We are politically underrepresented. We get left to raise the kids. I don’t think anyone can disagree. But it’s this type of devaluation that hurts women and is so often overlooked.

I have learned a lot from gonzo porn. Gonzo porn is very forgiving. It allows those women who don’t fit into the stereotypical physical and sexual ideals. Seeing other girls get off on rough sex validated my own desires. So I come from a perspective of seeing this type of porn as positive. But even beyond the philosophical aspects, again, it’s simply entertainment. A fantasy. An escape from the day to day sexual grind. And I don’t feel that this is a naïve interpretation. Because, on a frequent basis I encounter people who get where I’m coming from. And it’s from the people, get this, who actually have seen my movies! The very people this forum is so hell bent on protecting society from. Will everyone who sees my movies interpret them so benignly? Of course not. But do I think that they negatively affect the culture as a whole? No.

I am bound by strong convictions. I deliberated long and hard (over two years), took several feminist classes before I entered the industry. Those same convictions bind me to the movies I make. I still maintain that I produce this type of porn to show that women can and should be treated in whatever manner they see fit. Yet, I don’t believe that all art should be preserved at any and all societal costs. I am very concerned with the interpretation of my movies, and I would not produce anything that I felt would cause harm. In my most recent movie I have added pre-scene interviews with the girls who perform in the rougher stuff. They explain that they are simply acting out a fantasy in a controlled environment, and encourage others to think twice before attempting such things at home. As much as I feel that this discredits the intelligence of the porn viewers, I wanted there to be no misunderstandings.

I thank you for allowing me to participate in the forum. I am even more thankful for the many thoughtful responses from both sides of the issue. I apologize for not addressing the forum’s questions sooner. If you have any more questions to ask me, I will respond in a more timely fashion. Again, thank you very much for all of the responses to my poll question. MASON

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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 1:04AM
Thanks for the response Mason. I as of yet haven't seen one of your movies but I will make it a point to do so soon, probably the Dirty Trixx one since it features Katie Morgan whom I have recently discovered. Hope to see you post more often.
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 6:24AM
I was starting to feel bad for inviting you to join the forum, Mason. I know you said you don't mind a little heated debate, or something along those lines, well, that's what you got...

When I watched Mason's Dirty Trixxx, I was expecting to find beatings, or something that would make me not want to watch it. (I have stated a few times that I am not a fan of rough sex, I'll watch it, most I won't like, but I do like some.) Your DVD was among the rough sex type DVDs that I can say I truly enjoyed. But... In my opinion, the DVD wasn't that rough. Sure there were moments of roughness, all in all it was mildly rough. The roughest scene being Michelle's scene...

Though I know that Michelle Raven's scene was consensual, as you said so, I still can't get over how she "likes" to be treated. But hey different strokes for different folks.


It's nice to see a long answer that addresses most every concern. I have seen both of your DVDs Mason, both are good, with some scenes being great to very hot. Dirty Trixx wasn't as rough as Max Hardcore, and yet people on this board love him, praise him, while I don't.


Hope to see you post more often.

Same here.

---BIGmike, over & out!---

Edited by - bigmike on Aug 29 2002

aybesea
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 9:43AM
Hi gang, sorry I was on vacation when this heated debate was taking place - it looked like a fun one!

Anyway, here is my libertarian 2 cents:

Mason: If these are consensual acts, who has the right to judge if they are right or wrong? It is nobody's business! Each of the actresses can decide for herself whether she chooses to participate!

To those who object to these types of flix: Your vote counts! Just don't buy these movies - and don't watch them.

There you have it. We are all participants on a board that celebrates a topic that many "mainstreamers" object to on a daily basis. What right do any of us have to judge the morality (or rightness, or degardading nature of, or...) of what consensual adults choose to produce in a free society!

Whew - glad I got that off my chest

Go ahead - I'm ready for flames now

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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 11:17AM
Mason,

Thanks for your thought out response. Most of the responses in the poll were answering the general question about the portrayal of degradation and rough sex. I, like many posters, have not seen your movies. While I think it's worthwhile to take the responses to heart, at the same time most are not directed at you personally or your movies.

I have seen some really gross stuff. I question how people can produce it with a good conscience. I definitely do not think the government should interfere. But I do think everyone, me included, should think about how their work affects its audience. Believe me, I think about the effects of adt all the time.

Absolutely there are more pervasive elements of our culture that degrade women. Women's magazines drive me up a wall. Apparantly, all we should care about is our weight and pleasing our men.

But I do think porn has a powerful influence even if that influence is only felt by a minority.

 
Goldmember
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 11:57AM
I would like to second every word of StephDunn's post!

"What right do any of us have to judge the morality (or rightness, or degardading nature of, or...) of what consensual adults choose to produce in a free society!"

Everybody has the right to their opinion in a free society, and morality is judged all the time. We certainly have the right when asked the question in a poll about the portrayal of degradation and rough sex. lol

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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 1:25PM
If someone has a copy they'd like to send me I'll voulnteer to watch one of Morgan's DVD's and do a review for the forum.


aybesea
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 1:30PM
Ahhhh.... GM, but there is a subtle difference here. I agree that everyone has a right to their opinion. I would be the first to shout that from the rooftops! But everyone does NOT have a right to judgement. That is best left to higher powers (and I'm an aetheist so that means NOBODY!)

Just thought that I saw way too many judgemental remarks in the 2 threads.

dumblonde
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 2:02PM
quote abysea:
"Mason: If these are consensual acts, who has the right to judge if they are right or wrong? It is nobody's business! Each of the actresses can decide for herself whether she chooses to participate!"

"What right do any of us have to judge the morality (or rightness, or degardading nature of, or...) of what consensual adults choose to produce in a free society! "

No flames I just think you're missing the point of the question that was ASKED OF US. You apparently thought that questions asked of Mason were no one's business, or there were too many judgements? That's what opinions ARE.

We not only have the right, but in some cases, the obligation to question these things, so please don't make it sound like the Salem Witch Trials. I can assure you that Mason is not a victim here.

aybesea
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 4:06PM
OK - Perhaps I was just being too sensitive. I've got a real problem with judgement and censorship. The hackles are lowered. Thanks for setting me straight DB.
Cyberchicken
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 8:18PM
What is the title of the original message thread, because I'm confused )

Cyberchicken

Mason
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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 8:24PM
BIGmike wrote:
I was starting to feel bad for inviting you to join the forum, Mason.

StephDunn wrote:
While I think it's worthwhile to take the responses to heart, at the same time most are not directed at you personally or your movies.

dubmblonde wrote:
. . . don't make it sound like the Salem Witch Trials. I can assure you that Mason is not a victim here.

Dumblonde is right. I am not a victim and I'm trying to figure out how so many of you interpreted my statements as feeling victimized, ganged up on. I am so delited by the passionate responses my question provoked. I would love to continue with the discussion if anyone is game. I can take the heat, and I'm surprised that my words were interpreted otherwise.

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Posted - Aug 29 2002 : 11:45PM
Cyberchicken,

Here is the original thread, it now runs 6 pages. click here.


DenverDon

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Posted - Aug 30 2002 : 12:27AM
Well i'll be getting Lady Fellatio on dvd soon so expect an unbiased review Mason, unless you want to bribe me as I really don't have any shame


Edited by - GattMan on Aug 30 2002

Cyberchicken
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Posted - Aug 30 2002 : 12:50AM
Wow, looks like I missed a great debate. In any case, I prefer my porn to be as nasty as possible, anal, swallowing, dp, etc, but a few months ago I started noticing a new trend in porn where the guy will put his hand around the girls neck, and seemingly stop her breathing. Now that shit pisses me off for a number of reasons.

1. It's a very dangerous kink, and people have died from it. Didn't a famous porn star die under similar circumstances? Why give people bad ideas, and yes, porn is in someways very educational, so why depict something as dangerous as Asphyxiation?

2. Why give ammunition to the pro censorship crowd?

3. We've all heard the term "jaded porn fan", because to a certain extent, that's true. The industry has to push the limit in order to satisfy porn fans who are bored with regular fucking. Sex in porn has become more nasty and even more rough, and I'm starting to worry where this might lead. The idea of someone getting off on rough sex, and then getting bored with it. I mean where does he go from there? Let's put it this way, I would not want to live next door to someone who gets off on women getting choked.

Let's face facts though. In the US, controvery sells, and I'm sure there are people in your business who would love to be the Eminem of porn.

I like my porn nasty, no doubt about it, and I like to think of Bukkake/DP/Gang Bangs as a form of sexual olympics, but choking goes beyond kinky, or nasty, and I'd love to see it banned from porn tomorrow.

Cyberchicken

Edited by - Cyberchicken on Aug 30 2002

 
Michael Saint
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Posted - Aug 30 2002 : 9:26PM
So cyberchicken you want to ban choking. How about gay sex and then anal (it is after all illegal in most states).

There are a lot of things that I don't much care for in porn today that were unheard of when I first started watching so many years ago but what scares me most is our apparent willingness to censor ourselves in the name of expediance.

There is a reason our fore fathers wrote the constitution the way they did. They realized no one man could decide for all what should and should not be seen heard or said. I don't know about any of you but I certainly know I am not wise enough for that role.

If we don't like something we can choose not to watch it. If you feel strongly enough about it then write the company but we all know the mighty dollar is what will decide if Mason's movies keep getting made. And I hate to say it but that is the way it should be. As long as no one is hurt making them, everyone is a consenting adult and people want to buy/rent her movies then by the values this country is founded on she has every right to make them.

Even under the worst possible scenerio Mason's movies are still no worse (and I am not saying they are even in the same ball park) then the man who preaches hate and violence to a bunch of kids at a white supremist rally. While I may find that man's actions reprehensible and against everything I believe I will not move to silence him if all he does is talk. That is his right and I for one swore an oath to defend that right at all costs.

Cyberchicken
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Posted - Aug 31 2002 : 1:21AM
Well the choking in some of these movies isn't even faked, it's real. You see the girls face change color from lack of air, so yeah I draw the line at anything that involves strangulation. I've never seen anything in a porn movie that was actually dangerous to the girls involved except choking, so to me it's seperate from everything else, but hey it's just my opinion.

Cyberchicken

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Posted - Aug 31 2002 : 1:47AM
damn, I just have to be flippant and add the thought of choking a chicken disturbs me as well
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Posted - Aug 31 2002 : 1:52AM
Mason, you just keep making movies the way you see fit - there will always be an audience willing to pay to see them and nothing will ever change that!
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Posted - Aug 31 2002 : 4:51PM
Well I finally got to see Dirty Trixx and thought it wasn't half bad. Some nice swallowing and anal action. Wish the scene with Katie had concluded with her taking either a facial or swallowing instead of the pop on the ear of corn in her mouth,lol. It still was a good scene and as for the whole dvd the performers seemed to enjoy themselves and that is what counts. I could have also done without the spitting in the one scene but again both performers were into it so I could tolerate it. I would also echo the sentiments for Mason to keep making the movies she wants to make. Even if I don't like the spitting or the slapping I was able to find other aspects of the dvd which I did enjoy and I think I could do so in the future with any other Mason dvds I watch.
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Posted - Aug 31 2002 : 5:01PM
I don´t know what you guys are talking about. For all I understood, Mason is a director and her movies have very rough sex.

That´s negative to society?

Nope.

What´s negative to society is some organizations that condone censorship and refuse to accept the fact that, in 99% of the cases, a fucking movie is only a fucking movie, DAMMIT!!!

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I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. My skin is black upon me, and my bones are burned with heat.

Mason
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Posted - Sep 1 2002 : 2:44PM
***choking***

I was curious about “choking” when speculations in the mainstream press were made in regards to the death of a singer in a famous band. I tried it, didn’t like it one bit (made me nauseous, and never did it again). If something bad had happened to me, my curiosity would be solely to blame. Yes? No?

You guys have a point though, and just recently I cut out a choking sequence because it was way over the top (although done to a woman who loved it!). In fact I may just eliminate the practice from all future productions. However, I still maintain that a little throat play is harmless, whereby the “choking” is simulated but no one is or appears to black out.

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Posted - Sep 1 2002 : 3:39PM
In fact I may just eliminate the practice from all future productions.

Well, I'm NOT one for censorship, and you shouldn't betray your vision... and you've pointed out already that all the performers had fun while doing these scenes. So if they enjoy it and want to do it, then don't go and eliminate it, betraying your vision, just to be more acceptable.


---BIGmike, over & out!---

Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 1 2002 : 3:57PM
No. Just limit the practice. Only allow trained performers to do that kind of thing on camera. In fact, I know lots of people who are kinda experts on the fetish of choking.
Parker Schurman
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 2:01PM
In response to the ongoing debate about rough porn influencing people's actual behavior i.e. you watch rough porn, you beat your girlfriend or rape a stranger.

Fact: German S/M porn is and has always been far more violent than anything you'll ever see produced in America.

Fact: The number of reported incidents of violent sexual crime in Germany is far lower per capita than in America.

Fact: The number of reported incidents for spousal abuse is far lower per capita than in America.

My point is obvious. If there was a correlation between what people watch and how they actually treat each other, it would show up in the numbers.

It doesn't . . . because there isn't.

 
Axel Braun
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 3:12PM
Porn is a fantasy. People want to see what they can't have. And freedom of expression is one of the many valuable rights that make this country so great. Parker is right, the influence of extreme pornography on criminal behavior doesn't exist. With all due exceptions, of course. You will always find a nutcase who watches Rambo and opens fire on a bunch of innocent people...should we lock up Sly Stallone? (well, maybe...that would save us from a bunch of bad movies...).

My approach to depicting sexuality in movies is different, but it doesn't mean that I have to condemn directors who choose to follow a different path. There is a niche for everybody, and, as long as freedom of choice is respected, I don't see anything wrong with it.

Some people are in this business for the money, some for passion, some just because they are true perverts. And as long as they sell tapes, every one of them is doing it for the right reason.

Nice forum. To find people that are able to talk about porn in an interesting and stimulating way is not easy. Good Job!

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Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 3:57PM
First of all, I would like to welcome filmmaker Axel Braun, who has all the talent of his father Lasse Braun, to this forum.

Secondly, movie violence CAN influence real-life violence. But that´s an exception , not a rule. Blaming movies for violence and rape is stupid. Natural Born Cyko´s don´t need lessons to do their dirty deeds.

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I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. My skin is black upon me, and my bones are burned with heat.

dumblonde
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 4:30PM
Welcome to ADT, Parker and Axel. I have to take issue with the comparison to Germany.

quote Parker Schurman:

"Fact: The number of reported incidents of violent sexual crime in Germany is far lower per capita than in America."

"Fact: The number of reported incidents for spousal abuse is far lower per capita than in America."


There's too many culteral differences, including reporting behavior, to make a good cross cultural comparison, but there are a few major ones.

1) German law excludes offenses within marriage in both cases of rape and sexual assault.

2) OVER reporting of sexual violent crime is more prevalent in U.S. statistics. There are more institutions, such as rape hotlines or rape crisis centers, in the U.S. than Germany, that actively engage in the cultural construction of sexual violence.

Most people agree that the main reason for the disparity however, is this:

3) Merger of sexual-erotic and coercive-deviant categories in U.S. culture indicates the lack of a distinct borderline between sentiments of sexuality and violence

So, I wish it were true that "it's just a fantasy", but unfortunately in this country anyway, there's too many who can't make the separation.

Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 5:11PM
America has two huge problems.

First, if DOES produce and/or release a large number of movies, games, comics etc. that do nothing more than glorify/glamourize violence. Pow, bang and that´s all, folks!

Movie violence causes real life violence? It can but, as I said before, that´s rare. Psychos do what they do because they´re exactly that: psychos. They can claim everything. They can claim the colored rainbow from a shiny CD inspired ´em to go on a murder spree. The can claim the devil, or at least a talking dog, made ´em do it. They´re NUTS!

But you, americans, always run in search of something to blame. You blame the media, blame video games, blame extreme music. Basically, you blame everything except poor parenting, a complete lack of discipline practices, and a social set-up that encourages the alienation and persecution of any student who is different, smart, or in any way quirky and deviant from the rigid status quo.

While you went on and on about violence video games and movies, you completely fail to address the obvious roots of the problem because it required you to point the finger squarely at yourselves. That's something you've never been very good at doing.

I would not sit here and try to tell anyone that violent entertainment does not trigger violent behavior in certain people. It's obvious that it does, just as The Holy Bible has triggered extreme violence in masses of people throughout the centuries. The question you should be asking is not why we have these violent movies or video games. The question is simply why are people today so monumentally stupid that they can't grasp something as basic as the difference between real and make-believe?

I grew up watching screwy movies, stuff far more twisted and violent than today´s kids ever saw. Horror, kung-fu, crime, by the age of twelve I'd seen more shockingly violent fare than most people do their entire lives. I listened to heavy metal and angry punk rock. And you know what? Not once did I ever entertain the thought of walking into a classroom and offing the kids who fucked with me in school. Not once did I ever think it was okay to piledrive my younger sister or try to fly by jumping out of a tree. Not once did I ever think anything I saw in a movie wa anything other than just what it was: an image in a movie. Not real life. Not how you are supposed to behave.

I'm not particularly smart, but I'm also not a complete idiot. Even a simpleton should be able to comprehend the simple concept of what you see in a movie not being an example of what you do in real life. So what is it then, what is it we're doing differently, that is causing kids and adults both to behave like brainless twits who cannot conceive of the fact that you should not drop a flying elbow off the couch onto a two year old child?

A big part of the problem is what I think of as new-age parenting. You live in a society that is so terrified of punishing a kid for being a rotten, spoiled asshole than we've ended up with a whole population of rotten, spoiled assholes. Parents who attempt to discipline their children are chastised and live in constant fear of some bleeding heart guidance counselor from school turning them in for child abuse.

Likewise, teachers are shackled, forced to operate with bound hands and attempt to instruct children who have basically been allowed to run wild and develop not the faintest sense of responsibility or consideration for others. To make matters worse, teachers who dare to flunk a student who deserves to be flunked are punished either for making the child feel bad about themselves or for making the school lose face by having failing students. As a result, you have a population that is now not only meaner and completely devoid of any sense of responsibility regarding their own actions, you also have a population that is just plain dumb as toast.

Unable to understand that their actions have consequences, and too stupid to realize that what they see in movies and video games is not real, you end up with students who lack any sort of coping skills, who freak out and can't think of anything to do other than respond with violence and screaming. And as adults, rather than analyze our failure as elders, you simply blame the movies, even though countless other people saw the same movie and didn't interpret it as an okay to gun down classmates or co-workers.

In this environment, it's no wonder people would be gun-shy about a film like, say, the japanese gorefest "Battle Royale", a movie about recent middle school graduates who are rounded up and transported to a remote island where they are forced to hunt one another down for the amusement of adults. The film pulls no punches in depicting the brutality of adults toward children as well as from one child to another.

Well, this movie requires an audience to understand the difference between reality and fantasy. It requires the audience to think about why the violence on screen is occuring, to analyze the actions of the people on screen, to think about why they have been driven to do what they are doing. It also requires a basic understanding of satire and social commentary. None of these are things the average American youth has been taught how to do by either parents or school.

In fact, kids today are taught, by MTV and movies, that holding a gun sideways looks cool, and that´s all.

Sad indeed.

(BTW, holding a gun sideways just makes it harded to aim and easier for the pistol to jam after a few rounds. So, these kids aren´t even learning how to SHOOT properly!)

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I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. My skin is black upon me, and my bones are burned with heat.

Edited by - Planet Sex on Sep 3 2002

DenverDon
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 5:23PM
Planet,
You have several cogent points in your reply posting.
Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 5:39PM
Yeah. And to think it all started with a topic about choking chickens!
Michael Saint
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 6:33PM
Wow we are getting popular all of a sudden

"3) Merger of sexual-erotic and coercive-deviant categories in U.S. culture indicates the lack of a distinct borderline between sentiments of sexuality and violence"

Actually DB I think there are plenty in this country who can make the distinction we have just gotten so wishy washy in our legal system that we let people get away with too much crap using lame excuses. i.e. the pack mentality, the twinkee defense, etc.

If you rape or aduse a woman in any way I don't give a flying f*ck how you were raised what you were doing before hand what she was wearing or what she said to you it is your fault.

The same goes for the kids who walk into schools with guns. It is not the guys fault for having guns in his house for you to break in and steal it is not the kids fault for picking on you. It is your own plain and simple and I don't care if you are 10 or 40 you still knew it was wrong when you did it.

We can blame this on a lot of things but in the end we are all to blame because we have lost our sense of personal responsibility.

It is the cigarette companies fault for selling them.
It is the bars fault for letting him drink.
It is the laws fault for making it easy for them to get a gun.
It is porns fault for showing people have "devient" sex.
It is the medias fault for being to violent.

The list can go on and on. It has gotten to the point that I am not willing to admit to even a casual connection between things because too many people will try to use that as an excuse.

My god we even took to word of a convicted serial killer that "porn made me do it". How pathetic have we become.

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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 7:11PM
"It has gotten to the point that I am not willing to admit to even a casual connection between things because too many people will try to use that as an excuse." lee_carver

Your right "we have lost our sense of personal responsibility". I think that peolpe in gerneral need to step up and start taking more responsability for their own action, especially in the American culture. However just because you are responsible for your own behaviour, that does not relieve others their share of responabilty, however minor or small it might be.

"It is the cigarette companies fault for selling them?"

Are the cigarette companies acting in a manner, you would consider responsible?

Planet Sex
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6/01
Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 7:29PM
The PC-lization of America is reaching ridiculous heights. Remember that list of songs some wacky group deemed "unsuitable" for playing on the radios? Including James Taylor´s "Fire and Rain"?

But the thing that bugs me the most is the digital erasing of the WTC from every Hollywood movie or TV series. I know some people can have bad memories by seeing the Twin Towers in some movie or TV show, but since when ERASING HISTORY helps??? Using the same logic, then you should also demolish the Pearl Harbor port and put a beach there, or level the Alamo and build a theme park instead.

DenverDon
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7/02
Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 7:34PM
Planet:
Agreed!

What was, was .

What is, is .

Shouldn't be erased.

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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 8:23PM
Of course a person is responsible for their actions. But does that make it ok to be a part of a marketing team that devises ways to get kids hooked on smoking? Does that make it ok to serve someone beer who's one step away from a stomach pump? Just a couple examples. Point is, that we live in a society. Our actions influence others. We all have to think about how our work affects society.

Even if there is no proof that movies influence actions, does that mean that movie producers should not think about the influence their work has on the viewers?


Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 8:34PM
Steph has a point, but let´s rationalize on some points.

You see, you go to a rental store and you find movies clearly marked as "horror", "x-rated" and so on, roit?

Well, when I rent a movie called "Chainsaw Massacre at the Shaolin Convent of the Lesbian Biker Nuns From Hell", it´s because I WANT to see a chainsaw, a massacre, a shaolin convent, some lesbian biker nuns and a bonafide Hell. And when I rent "Disney´s Happy World of Smiling Cuddly Singing Fluffy Jolly Creatures", I´m not expecting to see eye-gouging or asian homeless kids butt-fucked with spiky avocados.

So, when you cut the gore out of a gore movie, that´s as objectionable, wrong and stupid as inserting subliminar porn imagens in THE RESCUERS. Each horse one stance, etc.

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dumblonde
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 8:35PM
quote lee:
"Actually DB I think there are plenty in this country who can make the distinction we have just gotten so wishy washy in our legal system that we let people get away with too much crap using lame excuses. i.e. the pack mentality, the twinkee defense, etc."

I agree 100%. Nothing in what I stated had anything to do with trying to blame anyone else, it's just that I've heard these comparisons to Germany before, and they don't wash.

Apparently Germans (perhaps most Europeans) are better able to make the distinction. I don't know the reason Americans are not as adept, but those are the facts. Given that, is it really a good idea to blur the sexual/violence line even MORE? I don't think so. I mean come on, we're not about 'artistic vision', it's jack-off material for Christssakes.

Edited by - dumblonde on Sep 3 2002

Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 8:37PM
There IS proof that movies influence actions... in SOME PEOPLE.

But the way some people see it, it´s like a movie actually has the power to brainwash entire audiences and leave ´em walking on the streets like zombies, chanting "Im-Ho-Tep" or something like that...

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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 9:06PM
You either consider your sexual partner a person or an object. If you're having sex with a person then you're going to be considerate of their feelings and stop doing something when they find it uncomfortable. If you're having sex with an object then you don't give a f*ck in the first place and watching a "choke" movie isn't going to make you any worse than you were to start with.

Also, Mason made the comment that women were "left to raise the kids." That's a completely screwed up view of society. There is NOTHING more important than raising the kids. I could give you a rant worthy of Endo, but I think (hope)I'd be preaching to the choir here.

Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 9:11PM
I agree, but I would also add that raising the kids is something that should be shared between mother AND father. Of course, maybe one of ´em can be more absent due to work schedule and stuff, but both parents must contribute to the children´s formation.
Mason
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 9:15PM
Also, Mason made the comment that women were "left to raise the kids." That's a completely screwed up view of society.

Can you elaborate on that a bit. I'm not following you at all.

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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 9:15PM
Absolutely P Sex. It's just a question of whether, by their actions, they are contributing for good or ill.
Planet Sex
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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 9:21PM
Maybe Hardware misunderstood your comment as you saying that raising the kids is a burden, not a privilege, that was left for women to take care of.

Me, I´ve read your comment as you saying that society thinks the only role for a woman is to raise the kids, and that they´re unable to do anything else.

Or maybe I´m utterly fucking wrong.

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Edited by - Planet Sex on Sep 3 2002

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Posted - Sep 3 2002 : 9:29PM
Do I think that cigarette companies market their product in a way that will sell the most. Yes. Do I think the joe camel cartoon was specifically made to market to children? maybe.

But if we are raising our children to be influenced by such things then we need to examine how we raise our kids not change what they are exposed to.

Limiting contact does not make a person stronger in their convictions or morals it merely makes them have a false sense of security.

Are cigarette companies honest? They are in their goals and that is to sell cigarettes. If you know that and understand then the rest is just noise.

Steph said

"But does that make it ok to be a part of a marketing team that devises ways to get kids hooked on smoking? Does that make it ok to serve someone beer who's one step away from a stomach pump?"

So where do we draw the line. An ad campaign by it's very nature will reach everyone if it is successful so does that mean we have to outlaw advertising smoking because it is bad for you? Lots of thing are medically proven to be bad for us but we don't blame the people who make them for our use of them.

So you stop the guy on his 10th beer and he still kills someone. Next time it is the 7th same thing happens and so on and so on. When do you stop and say that the bartenders responsibility has ended? When he doesn't serve anything to anyone out of fear?

That is my problem with the whole "connection" argument. It is a very slippery slope we are on and the only place to go from here is down.

As far as the children are concerned parents these days seem even more willing to blame their children's behavior on outside influences instead of taking a hard look at their child and themselves first.




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