From Talk Sex With Sue Johanson "Males have an "A SPOT". It involves stimulating the prostate gland via the rectum. This is done by manual stimulation or gentle use of a dildo or vibrator. The operative word here is "gentle" - the prostate is very sensitive and any rough stuff can be very painful, possibly dangerous. Any way you choose to do it, here are the basics:
Put a condom over your index and middle finger; lubricate them well; touch around the rectum till it is relaxed enough to allow easy insertion of one then two fingers. About 2 inches up the rectum you will feel another sphincter, (ring of muscles). It may take a minute or so for these muscles to relax, then, when your fingers can go up about 3-4 inches, you gently stroke and you will feel his prostate. If is firmer than surrounding organs - feels about the size of a walnut and is very sensitive. Then you crook these two fingers towards his abdomen and gently stroke.
Communication is important here. He needs to tell you if it feels good or if it is uncomfortable, even painful. At the same time, you may be performing manual or oral stimulation on his penis and genitals. In all probability, this will result in a very satisfying ejaculation and orgasm."
I have no idea why Scipio moved this topic - the first sentence in the text asks about whether this fetish is practiced in porn - hmmmm, sounds to me like a topic for The Porn Pool. Whatever - I guess when I graduate to being a mod, I'll be complaining about having to monitor every damn new post...
Anyway, I've never seen prostate massage in any porn flick. I'd be willing to bet that if you search long and hard enough, you'll find specialty movies - Fetish, Domination/Submission (D/S), amateur - that deal with this. It would be interesting to see this technique performed by an experienced domme in the context of "milking" a slave. As I understand it, if the prostate is massaged correctly and there is no simultaneous stimulation of the cock, semen will flow from the prostate without any orgasm (i.e., the muscular contractions and resultant propulsion of the sperm). I have spoken to a few dommes who fantasize about having a "cum farm" with multiple guys hooked up to milking devices that extract as much cum as possible without any orgasms - sort of the ultimate in tease.
It's not in the mainstream porn releases...I've spotted a few occasions where a girl has a finger snuck up there during oral with her partner but it was only because of sloppy camera work. It's not obvious and I do not believe you are going to see any lines with titles like "MILK ME LIKE A COW" or "OPEN UP AND SAY MOOO" coming from say any of the US studios anytime soon. ;-)
What you are looking for are going to be in the genre of home movies shot by dominas.
The only studio releases will be from Europe where F2M fisting and milking scenes are found in many of their hard fetish movies. They are out there - you just have to look.
I think you might have gotten the wrong impression from the previous responses to this question, Aztec. While it is true that female doms do use prostrate massage as part of a extended program of orgasm denial (which is a whole sub-genre of SM/BD which you can find plenty of info on if you do a web search), prostrate massage is also a quite normal sexual technique used by women on their male lovers to greatly enhance genital stimulation and orgasm. I believe there have been a couple of threads on this topic in the sex portion of the message forum under tags like "anal stimulation for men," etc.
As far as seeing this done in porn, the answer is seldom to never. Tom Byron is the only male performer I remember who enjoyed this trick, but he never admitted to it (see for example his scene with Alisha Klass in Behind the Sphinc Door , or Taking It to the Limit 1 ); I have seen it done a few other times in videos, but no attention is ever called to it.
Why? Well, I think straight guys who watch porn (the departed Arthur here on ADT notwithstanding) tend to be very squeamish about anything other than a girl's tongue in the vicinity of the male performer's ass--to the extent that they want to see the male's ass at all. Guys who like anything actually INSIDE their ass, even a girl's finger, smacks of homosexuality to them (and lots of men who watch straight porn are rabidly homophobic--even the ones who clamor for bigger and bigger dicks in every scene. But this is a long-standing and somewhat amusing sidebar to this topic, so let's not get offtrack here). In any event, the phobia about anal penetration of the male performers with anything in a straight porn video is enough to keep most producers away--it leads to cries of "What's next? Strap-ons?" And so forth. For all of the fetish areas that porn covers these days, and for all of the chant of "there's something for everyone" that you can hear both on ADT and elsewhere about the product, the truth is that in many ways commercial mainstream adult video covers an quite narrow frame of sexual behavior and pleasure. And of course it is female viewers who are most aware of this, and usually ask the most questions about it.
Thank you Lazerus That's the information I was seeking. Being female, I was curious (forgetting 99.9% of porn fans are male and most would rather the male talent be invisible, except for their cock).
This is something my girlfriend is learning how to do rather well, and I do it every single time I masturbate. It doesn't necessarily have to entail penetration of the ass, either. It can be done externally although the method described in the beginning of this thread is the most pleasurable.
I would even say that it is such an important part of my sex life, and I am so used to it, that orgasms would only seem "regular" now without it.
I always bring myself to the brink of orgasm while doing this(usually externally, but sometimes internally) during masturbation, and then stop. I do this for hours sometimes, and the resultant orgasm is amazing. I have recently even gotten to the point with this technique that I can sometimes have two orgasms, one right after the other, about 5-10 seconds apart. I'm trying to improve this, obviously.
And as I mentioned, my girlfriend is learning to incorporate this technique into our lovemaking.
I don't understand really how homophobic thoughts could stop a man from enjoying this, or seeing it. My fantasies all involve women, and it is still a valuable technique.
In fact, it doesn't even have to involve penetration into the anus. It can be something as simple as my girlfriend reaching behind her during cowgirl and giving the base of my balls and my perineum a strong massage.
I know this thread is about seeing this done in porn , but I thought a bit of background on my opinion might help.
I understand not wanting to see male ass in porn, as I don't either. But, it doesn't have to be a close-up genital focus.
In one movie I saw Manny Ferrara spoon fucking Serena South, and she bent her foot back and massaged his perineum and balls with her toes. I also have a foot fetish so you can imagine it sent me right over the edge.
It's not gay, it's taking advantage of your anatomy for better sex.
I have never really seen this done in a porn video as described by the starter of this thread, ie internally. The closest I've some to seeing it is a scene with Alexis Malone in one of the Service Animals. She fucks a guy with a strap-on. I think that is a bit more than is called for.
Aztec, in my limited experience of gay hardcore, I have not seen it--but you might post this question on the gay hardcore forum here on ADT, where more knowledgeable fans can respond to it.
My own experience of prostrate stimulation is similar to valjean's, except that I was introduced to it by a girlfriend in college. At the end of a long sweaty lovemaking session, she was in the process of finishing me in her mouth, when she stopped and asked me if I would be willing to try something different. I agreed (like I had a choice at that point), and she proceeded to do more or less what is described above (except she used a thin plastic glove on her hand, similar to what you'd get in a hair dye kit). She very slowly masturbated me while playing with my prostrate with her fingers, using her thumb against my perineum. It was an incredibly intense experience; and like valjean, I felt what seemed to be two distinct orgasms following one on another in less than a minute (as well as making a huge mess all over her bed).
We continued to experiment with the technique after that, mostly her learning different ways to slow me down, since the prostrate massage was very intense, particularly since she liked to do it at the end of a long fuck, when I had already been holding back my orgasm for an hour or more. She eventually persuaded me to let her tie me up while she massaged my prostrate and played with me--which led to some of the longest, most agonizing, yet wonderful afternoons of my life.
