Solos (the right ones) are more realistic and intimate as far as the person having to be turned on and at ease about being the center of attention.

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i'm into Family, Friends, Food & Fuckin.

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Whole body masturbation. He doesn't have to stick anything up his ass (though it's usually a plus if he does). But it's good if he acknowledges his body is more than a dick. I like men who rub their chests, caress their thighs, and nibble on their biceps. This is important to me because I most often watch as an identifier (as opposed to an appreciator)--I am that man on the screen having that experience. So it really helps if he enjoys his body as completely as I enjoy mine.

Smiles. If he smiles playfully or seductively at the camera, that invites me into his world. Plus, I smile a lot myself when I masturbate, so I like to see it echoed on the screen.

Position changes. In most cases, I'm bored by performers who stand, sit, or lie in the same position for the entire scene.

Mature, athletic physiques. No offense to younger men or twink fans. But I turn 35 in a few weeks, and I'm just not excited by men who are 15 years younger than me. The 30-55 age bracket is cool with me. I want them to love their bodies enough to exercise, though. I like sufficient muscle definition that I can actually watch the muscles flex as the performers self-pleasure.

Attractive settings. Beautiful nature scenery is best. Classy, artistic indoor locations are second best. Discs where every scene takes place in the same hotel room (or bathroom) are unacceptable. I hate that. I understand about tight budgets, but to me, that just shows a real lack of care and imagination.

Live sound at the orgasm. Yup. Gotta hear the grunts of pleasure, even if they're subtle. Expressive climaxes (intense facial expressions, full body trembles) are nice when they happen. Incidentally, I don't necessarily need to see an orgasm to enjoy the scene (assuming if it's extremely sensual and/or interesting in other respects). But it certainly doesn't hurt to include a healthy, hearty ejaculation. And maybe some afterplay massage and cum eating, too, heh heh.

No sexual orientation clues required. Generally speaking, it's irrelevant to me. But let's say (for the sake of argument) there are two scenes identical in every way except that one contains elements of "straightness" and the other contains elements of "gayness." Which one would arouse me more? The gay one. Why? I don't know. That's just how my erotic response is currently wired.

No special penis features required. They're all good. Little ones, big ones, medium ones, cut, uncut, curved, uncurved, light-skinned, dark-skinned. But you know, we all have our little fetishes. Mine is the labioscrotal seam. That's the mark that can often be seen running subtly along the median line of the scrotum, between the base of the penis and the perineum. It's the place where the labioscrotal folds fuse in a male fetus around the age of eight or nine weeks (and don't fuse in a female fetus). It probably sounds like I'm joking, but I'm really not. I love that little feature. A male friend of mine doesn't like the term "labioscrotal," though, so I've suggested we call it a "warrior weld" instead.

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It's interesting that you should mention your fondness for the labioscrotal seam ( a term I'd never even heard of before - to my shame ) , just the other day I was talking to a girl friend of mine about unusual body parts that turn us on . Her top one , or so she said , was the inside of the knee . "It gets all tender and soft in there" , was her explanation . For myself it's either a woman's clavicle (sp?) or the dual dimples over her buttocks . Man , I can run my fingers gently over either of those areas and feel my whole body start to hum ! Still , we all have our little quirks now don't we .

Thanks again for providing such a full answer , this isn't the sort of thing which comes up as a topic in everyday conversation - for me at any rate - and it's very interesting to learn about . Who knows maybe my girlfriend secretly enjoys watching men masturbate , I might see what her reaction is the next time Master-Lee comes out to play . So , full body touching could be a good thing ...

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See, you learn a lot by whacking. Good luck with your private show. Hope your girlfriend enjoys; I know I would!

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