during sex the other day, my girlfried said something that disturbed/shocked/scared/confused me.... :) she said (direct quote): "I'm not a man, so I'll never know exactly what it feels like to get a blowjob, but I imagine a man can blow better than a woman.... because a man knows what exactly it feels like..." (she said this while giving me a blowjob. She went on to say that the same is probably true for man performing oral sex on a woman.... a woman can probably do it better because she has the same "equpiment".......... :) my girlfriend has never been with another woman.... I have never been with another man. (THANK GOD!)
I don't know about that. First, preferences will vary, and second, if she's paying attention then she should be able to tell what works by your reaction. Granted, I've never had a man give me oral sex, but I've had some to-die-for blow jobs from women. Finally, what happens in your brain during sex is what matters, so who you are having it with has a big impact on your reaction.
This is really a great question. I wonder all the time myself. As far as your situation, I have to ask: Did this conversation get you more aroused? It sounds like it freaked you out a little, but I get the impression you probably still reached climax. What effect did the conversation ultimately have on the experience in the moment? Also, I wonder, if it's possible that your girlfriend was getting at something by bringing it up. Does she want to have a girl go down on her? Does she want to see a man go down on you? As for my wife and I, we frequently fantasize about bringing a third person (of either sex) into the bedroom. Ultimately it's this subject (sorta') that I think has me more comfortable with the idea of a mfm threesome rather than a fmf threesome. Not because I want a blowjob from a dude. Because whatever actions or endowments that another man may bring into the bedroom can be simulated. I can never duplicate a woman's touch or familiarity with the hardware.
Prolly true. I had an extremely brief encounter with a transgendered lass not too long ago and though we didn't get very far along into it, I was very impressed. (S)he definitely knew the equipment. Edited by - MrTibbs on 12/25/2010 5:48:44 AM
I found this interesting Ted-I feel the exact opposite. I have a cock (and a nice one)-no woman can duplicate that. I accept that I'll get beat out on oral due to equipment expertise, but most women prefer a good, deep fucking... so I feel no threat from a female. A man on the other hand-has the same equipment, so if he did something fancy I didn't or she liked his cock better or something-that's much more threatening to me. I'm on even standing with the man-so that's a real threat. Just thought I'd mention this as we're currently toying around with the FFM threesome. Haven't done anything yet, but we're talking to someone and it could happen in the next couple months. Also-frankly the MMF I think bothers me more about how I'll feel (turned off) than the threat. I still see more of a threat there than a 3rd girl, but I am not concerned about performance with 2 or even 10 women. But some other naked dude near me might kill it and screw up my arousal... lol
I think "Phoneballs" has unaddressed issues. I have been with a number of women before I came out of the closet. I have received some very impressive head from these ladies's but have to say they were no match for the men I have been with since. I am a very enthusiastic cocksucker myself and have been with men before where I was their first gay bj. Many of them said I was the best they ever had. I would say same-sex knows best.
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trout bum Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 26 2012 : 5:30PM
^I'll just take your word for it. I think my dick would go soft if I were to look down and saw a face with whiskers on it sucking me off. Edited by - trout bum on 6/28/2012 10:45:06 PM
Hello Troutbum, this is meant to give you a laugh, "Then don't look down."
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trout bum Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 29 2012 : 1:52PM
^ I'll still take a pass!
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freddiemorrison Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 29 2012 : 4:22PM
If she's blowing on it, she's doing it wrong.
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Everybody likes different things done to them. If I were blindfolded and had no idea, and a guy was blowing me the way I like to be blow, then he would be better than a female doing it. Same woman-on-woman. You should use her example to try and introduce a bisexual woman into your bed. Use the excuse of her eating out your GF to test the theory. Be careful, though. She may turn the tables on you.
I remember reading this article years ago where Vice did a blind test ;). Interesting results, but all in all, I bet it depends on who owns the mouth of course! http://www.vice.com/read/gays-v12n1 -m
you were scared by a simple comment? wow homophobic much? lol every gay guy in the world says men give better bjs than women cause they know what they like they are wrong because every guy likes it differently...so they might know how to give an awesome bj how they like receiving but might not be how i like it or how another man likes it. to get it how you want it you are going to have to talk to your partner about.. whether they are male or female. so, sorry gay men, but you are talking a load of shit