Mental Illness / Porn / Pornstars / Porn Stars (page 2)

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morbidthoughts All-Star Member Big cats scare me but... 3629 Posts 1/03	Posted - Jul 3 2012 : 6:45PM RandomPrecision wrote: Ladies and gentlemen...welcome to the roundabout way of persecuting the porn business and it's clientele. If you can't do it in a courtroom with an obscenity charge, find yourself a quack with a psychology degree and have him declare the participants to be lunatics who are incapable of making decisions. Click to expand Defensive much? Just remember that your dick doesn't have a conscience so don't think too much about girl when you're pulling it. [Link]
Kezza Member Female porn lover 334 Posts 6/12	Posted - Jul 4 2012 : 1:47AM fevrinnn wrote: Here's one for you to muse on Kezza. Adult FYI blog I find it highly amusing when porn performers attempt to dispel rumors about the industry in press releases only to perpetuate them with Jerry Springer behavior in national publications. Like GQ, which just did a piece on performer James Deen titled “The Well Hung Boy Next Door”. It’s bikini babe Kate Upton who’s selling the issue by being on the cover, with the Deen article buried on page 102 ff. Which is to say if you hadn’t been alerted to the fact that Deen was in GQ at all, the mag certainly doesn’t go out of its way to promote it. No quibble at all with Deen who handles himself admirably with impeccable, mature comments. It’s Allie James who should be given a Curly Howard slap to the side of the head. On the set of Losing Kayden, a Robbie Dee movie for Digital Playground, the set up is that Steve Holmes is a crime boss. Deen is a nervous, edgy, gambling addict with very destructive tendencies; and James is asked by the GQ writer, Wells Tower, what her part is in all this. “I’ll be crawling around under a table sucking cock,” she replies I wonder what James’ retort would have been had Forbes been doing the asking. In any event, the statement that should have the Shelley Lubbens of the world fiddling with their rosary beads is when James volunteers the fact that, at age 9, she’d have sex with her brothers’ friends in exchange for marijuana. “And you were cool with it?” Deen asks her. “Oh, yeah!” says James. “As long as you were cool with it,” Deen says. One might sense the dripping sarcasm. A picture of James sucking Steve Holmes’ dick is later emailed to her mother. [That had to have been some household.] “Yeah, obviously she’s damaged,” Deen, displaying some rational thought, tells the GQ writer. "I’m like getting pimped out when you were 9 so your brothers could smoke weed?” Deen continues. “That’s not healthy [besides being criminal]. “She’s like Rick Santorum’s wet dream, the poster child for how people in porn are damaged. But for every person like her, there’s someone like, I’d like to say me. I had a great childhood. "My parents and I get along. I just like sex, and I like porn, and I think it’s fun. I’m always terrified that someday I’m going to come to the realization that I’ve got some deep, dark secret, some terrifying horrible experience where I’m going to be like, ‘I’m actually not normal. I’m a crazy person!’ But it just doesn’t seem to be the case.” Click to expand Click to expand Thanks fevrinnn. [Link]
TheMilkman Member Clam Digger Is My Friend.. 94 Posts 10/08	Posted - Jul 4 2012 : 3:42PM more_cowbell wrote: But most women do nasty shit in the bedroom. Are they crazy? Edited by - more_cowbell on 5/27/2012 6:17:17 PM Click to expand Disagee here. MOST women do NOT do nasty shit in the bedroom. If they did, it is likely that porn would not be so popular, because the fantasy would be reality for a majority of people. My wife is crazy in the bedroom, but she's told me that the majority of women she knows would faint before they did a lot of what she will do. In fact she thinks that the vast majority of women are prudes. One of the attractions of porn is that you get to see something that's not likely to happen to you in your everyday life. We used to spend a lot of time with various swing groups, and you would be surprised how many women in those groups are only interested in "feet up-feet down" sex. [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jul 4 2012 : 4:31PM ^ And how many of the guys are straight up straight, no homo. Or is this a stereotype that simply isn't true? [Link]

TheMilkman Member Clam Digger Is My Friend.. 94 Posts 10/08	Posted - Jul 4 2012 : 5:11PM Gore Gore Girl wrote: ^ And how many of the guys are straight up straight, no homo. Or is this a stereotype that simply isn't true? Click to expand I assume you're asking about the swing groups. For the most part the guys we ran into are (at least outwardly)terrified that their dick might mistakenly touch another guy's dick. Everybody wants their women to be BI, but the vast, vast majority of guys we came across are absolutely frightened to death of any sort of BI guy, much less a gay guy. But then again, you're not likely to run into a fully-gay man at a couples swing party. [Link]
Xenomorph Deactivated User I Heart My iPad 38 Posts 7/12	Posted - Jul 4 2012 : 5:20PM Suffering from it myself, this would seem to be apart of someone's life regardless of profession. Seems as though it's an easy target to those with an agenda. Porn isn't {imo} the trigger, people go to their comfort zones where they feel safe. Again, like in every other job. The ratio may, MAY, be highr in porn but it isn't because of the industry. [Link]
mharris127 Senior Member 1844 Posts 8/09	Posted - Jul 4 2012 : 10:07PM Xenomorph wrote: Suffering from it myself, this would seem to be apart of someone's life regardless of profession. Seems as though it's an easy target to those with an agenda. Porn isn't {imo} the trigger, people go to their comfort zones where they feel safe. Again, like in every other job. The ratio may, MAY, be highr in porn but it isn't because of the industry. Click to expand I have to agree Xenomorph. There are mentally ill people in any profession, in most cases today they are the people you would suspect the least. Being mentally ill myself (controlled with medication) I have had several instances where I have told someone (for whatever reason) and the person has said in shock that he/she didn't know. Not all mentally ill people make asses of themselves on YouTube and make Photoshop cartoons mocking who they think want to kill/rape/pillage them (I will honor a request made by Steph [one of the owners of ADT] to me a long time ago and not give the name of the person I am referring here). [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jul 5 2012 : 9:09AM TheMilkman wrote: Gore Gore Girl wrote: ^ And how many of the guys are straight up straight, no homo. Or is this a stereotype that simply isn't true? Click to expand I assume you're asking about the swing groups. For the most part the guys we ran into are (at least outwardly)terrified that their dick might mistakenly touch another guy's dick. Everybody wants their women to be BI, but the vast, vast majority of guys we came across are absolutely frightened to death of any sort of BI guy, much less a gay guy. But then again, you're not likely to run into a fully-gay man at a couples swing party. Click to expand Yeah, that's what I was referring to. Thanks for the info. It's like women are expected to have "no limits" (which usually means something fairly specific), while the same is not expected (nor encouraged I suppose) in straight men. [Link]
BYOB_Kenobi Senior Member “Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards.” - Kierkegaard 2684 Posts 8/09	Posted - Jul 5 2012 : 6:42PM Gore Gore Girl wrote: ^ Thanks for this article. However, I have to wonder how many similar studies have been done for, say, flight attendants, stand up comedians, doctors, and lawyers. It seems that such studies are conducted with preconceived notions, and the results simply build upon these preconceived notions. That doesn't mean that adult film performers do not suffer from childhood abuse, depression, substance abuse, etc.; but it does mean that we ignore the fact that people in other professions deal with these same problems. In addition, I wonder why the study isolates females and does not specify sexual orientation and/or genre. Click to expand I agree completely. There are millions upon millions who have psychological disorders/diseases and substance abuse, so only comparing meaningful is comparing between professions. Even then, I"m guessing the average age of porn performer is very low compared to average age of MD/doctor. Therefore, porn performers lower age has to be a factor (i.e., how many younger 18-25 are still experimenting or using substances vs. 30-45?). Also, I would caution comparisons too. MDs/doctors have some highest rates of suicides (large positive correlation between suicide and depression), substance abuse, alcoholism, divorce rates compared to other professional cohorts. [Link]
Opium Deactivated User 300 Posts 3/12	Posted - Jul 6 2012 : 1:05AM KatjaKassin wrote: I personally have to say I like my job for various reasons but I don't do it out of sexual motivations. Sexual gratification is not why I am a porn star. Click to expand so what were your motivations for getting into porn then katja? and i don't mean to sound rude when i say this but you seemed sexually gratified when you were being fucked by a huge cock in the ass : ) i remember watching katja back in the early 2000's, she was probably one of my first "anal porn chicks" that i watched, lol. KatjaKassin wrote: There are probably porn stars who appreciate their job for the sexual variety, there are those who like the relatively high payment for unskilled work, others might value the attention it gives them. Maybe some had traumatic experience that drives them to engage in similar activities. Click to expand what about female pornstars who entered the business primarily for the sex and secondarily for the money, are you saying that they don't exist? Edited by - Opium on 7/6/2012 1:07:49 AM [Link]
Katvena Member Rocco & Nacho are the KINGS OF HARDCORE and yes I am a Red Blooded WOMAN 402 Posts 8/12	Posted - Sep 2 2012 : 12:55AM Some people think that Kristina Rose has got mental issues. Take a look on what people are saying about her on this thread Kristina Rose - Pornstar Superhero. [Link]
Float_my_boat All-Star Member 1311 Posts 6/09	Posted - Sep 3 2012 : 5:00AM ^ ^ Please no....that thread got mercifully locked. I've been kind of following it and it was bad. I thought some of the posters had the mental issues. Not Kristina. They sounded like once infatuated fanboys whom she either had done something they didn't like or approve of or perhaps ignored a twitter or some such and now just ranted. Kind of pathetic on their part. Kristina has always been known as having a pretty spunky attitude and that was part and parcel of her style. [Link]
Katvena Member Rocco & Nacho are the KINGS OF HARDCORE and yes I am a Red Blooded WOMAN 402 Posts 8/12	Posted - Sep 3 2012 : 5:38AM Yes they did turn that thread into LETS BASH KRISTINA ROSE THREAD, but don't worry, I have made A New Kristina Rose - Appreciation Thread. [Link]
Dan Senior Member 2056 Posts 6/07	Posted - Sep 3 2012 : 10:35AM KatjaKassin wrote: .... The other topic that was mentioned here is do pornstars like what they do. I personally have to say I like my job for various reasons but I don't do it out of sexual motivations. Sexual gratification is not why I am a porn star.... Click to expand I find it a little surprising that sexual gratification isn't even a minor reason why you like your job. You make it sound as if you get no sexual gratification at all in your porn scenes. Because sexual gratification is a pleasant feeling that would be at least a minor reason for you liking your job, if it was there at all. The logical implication of what you've just said has crushed all of my sex fantasies that I've had about your scenes. This total absence of sexual gratification I find so surprising, because sexual gratification is what porn scenes are all about for porn fans. And you've certainly tried your best to make it look like you were sexually gratified in your porn scenes that I've seen. Is it really all acting and pretending and no pleasure at all for you? [Link]

Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Sep 3 2012 : 12:07PM Katvena wrote: Some people think that Kristina Rose has got mental issues. Click to expand Didn't you know? Throughout history, women who do not behave according to feminine stereotypes/do not placate male egos have mental problems. [Link]
Katvena Member Rocco & Nacho are the KINGS OF HARDCORE and yes I am a Red Blooded WOMAN 402 Posts 8/12	Posted - Sep 3 2012 : 1:19PM Gore Gore Girl All I can say to that is I think the MEN got the mental problems. Just look at the some of posts in threads in this forum that there are STILL men with mental problems. The men thinks if a porn star is getting paid there should do what ever the want then to do, even the porn star don't enjoy it and if the porn star say no to the fans, the fans bash her. Now that is just fucking sad. [Link]
Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09	Posted - Sep 3 2012 : 1:29PM ^ Agreed. [Link]
Katvena Member Rocco & Nacho are the KINGS OF HARDCORE and yes I am a Red Blooded WOMAN 402 Posts 8/12	Posted - Sep 3 2012 : 1:35PM [Link]
joeblow123321 Member 319 Posts 11/09	Posted - Sep 4 2012 : 1:08AM KatjaKassin wrote: Since I study psychology and my ultimate goal is to become a clinical psychologist I want to throw in my two cents. First of all there is a reason why a clinician, a mental health professional, must study 10 or more years in order to be legally allowed to... Click to expand I recognize that this is totally a peripheral point, but God damn is it hot that Katja is so fuckin smart. I'm glad she's back and has come to terms with the industry and glad that she's elevating the level of discourse in our forums. [Link]
vanessadelriolover Member I woke up today and everything is still everything! 403 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jun 9 2013 : 6:13AM I have always wondered about the connection between porn and mental illness (for talent...not director producers) especially when you throw in the factor of drug use. Immediately I think about Sledgehammer (steroids) and Carmella Bing who just got popped for smoking meth. Yet, at least 2 stars I have had the good fortune to interact with seem perfectly centered and happy with their life station of occasional work or retirement. those who have retired have seemingly gone on to productive lives with families etc. But at the same time, I see some wasting away (like drug smoking wasting away), exhibiting signs of being extremely paranoid (illuminati fantasies and doomsday "prepper" tendencies guns and all...). Like everything else I guess "it depends." Katja made some solid points above! [Link]
killbillvol69 All-Star Member ^Lucy Pinder 18635 Posts 4/08	Posted - Jun 9 2013 : 11:49AM ^ Sledgehammer did not do steroids - this came up when he passed away. He did suffer from some mental illness issues though. [Link]
vanessadelriolover Member I woke up today and everything is still everything! 403 Posts 1/09	Posted - Jun 9 2013 : 11:37PM killbillvol69 wrote: ^ Sledgehammer did not do steroids - this came up when he passed away. He did suffer from some mental illness issues though. Click to expand i am mistaken, i thought i had read somewhere that he had both in play when the police murdered him. as a society we need to have much more understanding about how mental illness is no different than any other debilitating condition and treat it as such. up here in PDX there are sooooooo many cases of PPD killing mentally ill and often homeless men. [Link]
Panoramata Senior Member 15932 Posts 11/06	Posted - Apr 18 2020 : 1:47PM Sad to include Kosame Dash here . I think if it weren´t for her mental issues , she could have become a big star . ( Last post - 7 ys ago ) Edited by - Panoramata on 4/18/2020 1:48:15 PM [Link]