I still think it's one of the most stupid and degrading term out there. Not to mention these whole MILF genre doesn't make any sense. I mean I see girls of 25 already being labelled as a MILF. So what does MILF mean? Older women or women who have childeren or both?
I first heard about it in the movie American Pie(1999)I think they have to be around 40 to make a difference between the other porn chicks. But there is pressure to make a girl look good and the easiest way is to take a younger one.
Many things are labelled in porn, although they aren't what they should be.
My understanding of MILF is that age doesn't matter. What matters is whether or not she has children. I would be curious if mothers who have received this comment find it degrading as well. I mean, I would think they would be flattered, as what it boils down to is that I find a woman (who happens to have kids) sexually attractive. For example, Janine & Vicky Vette are total MILFs to me.
The age matters... or at least it did. MILFs were always women in their middle thirties or older who, realistically, would/could have children of an age old enough to be sexually aware (and whose children had friends of a similar age who found their moms hot and jerked-off over them :)
Kay Parker was, and always will be, the perfect MILF. She was about 37 when she started making porn!
MILF has much more to do with hot older woman than the biological fact of having had a child. It staggers the senses to consider all the 18-year-old "MILFs" in porn or stripping because they had a kid at 16 or 17 and needed to provide for them.
I can't explain why but I've been laughing at you answer to the question for about an hour. I have no idea what your voice sounds like but if its anything like my cousin with his sarcasim... just hilarious. whata wise guy. In the good sense. very funny man, very funny.
I always thought the term was for women of an age you'd expect they would be a mother, hence, in their 30s or 40s, but not necessarily a mother. I'd rather consider Laura Harring a MILF than Britney Spears, even though Spears has the whelp.
(seriously, who'd want to fuck Britney now, after Cletus has been with her?)