Just because it isn't something you want to see, doesn't make it crap. There are a lot of guys out there who want to see something more extreme than "two guys touching".

Anyway, to answer the question at hand, all the big gay studios are doing safe sex vids only now, which pretty much rules out cum-swapping, oral cumshots, bareback, and a2m.

It shouldn't be difficult to find some videos with rimming, though. Most should have some amount (unless you are watching Euro flicks). They even make all rimming movies (Butt Munch, Butt Munch 2, Ass Lick Alley, etc...)

Gangbangs are still kind of rare. There are a few, but I don't think they get quite as intense as they do in straight porn. The latest I think is Lumberjack Gang Bang.

Probably the most extreme (but still safe sex) movie I've seen is Fallen Angel 4. Fisting, whipping, and all sorts of degredation go on in this movie. Of course, you'll need to get the uncensored version, which is quite expensive, and only available direct from Titan or TLAVideo.

For non-safe sex, you'll have to head on over to the fringe of gay porn, and check out some of the smaller companies. If you want just oral cumshots, you could check out the Cum Suckers compilations from San Fransisco Fetish Factory. It's pretty much just all oral cumshots, with very little build up. Be warned, though, that these guys are amatuers, and aren't going to be as good looking as the guys in mainstream porn.

Other companies that have more extreme bareback porn (which may or may not include cum-swapping):
Dick Wadd
Treasure Island Media
Hot Desert Knights

The only company of these last 3 I've seen videos from is Hot Desert Knights, and I haven't been very impressed with their quality at all.

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