Ok so I know there is some porn where the guy is shy or nerd etc. It's usually humilation and degradation though, some crazy latex or whatever etc. Or when it's actually going good, the guy eventually takes over right when the sex starts and all of a sudden turns into some sex god that can make the pussy cum in like 10 seconds and randomily gains 100% confidence after seeing girl's tits. It's very unrealistic and just ruins those scenes in my opinion.

I just think there should be more scenes where the girls dominate a shy guy completely, and like actually do the work. They can be possessive and aggressive even, because it all fits. Again, scenes that have this type of domination usually include excessive amount of degradation, humilation etc. Like damn, we get it that most sluts would never fuck a shy guy but it's porn, it's just entertainment, it's fantasy. There's no need to just keep calling him a bich and loser every 5 seconds. For example the background dancers in bangbus series would completely ruin such a scene with their bla bla.

Now what's a shy guy. We know a real shy guy. A real shy guy can't even look you in the eye and having sex would literally scare them. So making him take over and do all the work is just.. it doesn't work to me. And probably most people that like this particular fantasy would agree with me.

This type of content is so unpopular in mainstream porn that when searching for it the results just immediately suggest "shy girl" or something else. Which is crazy to me because if you take a look at what's most popular on audio erotica for example, you can see a lot of shy guy POV scenarios. And if you think about who the majority of porn watchers probably are.. you do the math. I mean femdom truly sells the most. And it's not the humilating/degrading type.

The perfect scene to me would be for example a sister's hot friend seducing the shy guy, but to a point it's almost non consensual. He eventually consents, but like.. doesn't make it easy for the obvious reasons - embarassment, lack of confidence, bad past experiences, trauma.. I don't know, there's a lot of things that make a shy guy very reluctant at first. Non-con would honestly be even hotter but I know most sites wouldn't do it for various reasons, even when everybody knows it's just fantasy.

But I don't know, maybe I'm the only one with this fantasy for real. I would love to hear if anyone else wanted to see more of this type of shy guy content in porn. And maybe some perspectives on why you think that kind of content isn't popular in the mainstream porn.

I have my own theories. For one, the producers aren't into it & don't think it would sell, two the stars are really cringed out by shy guys and can't possibly make a convincing scene to save their life because it just doesn't turn them on even a little bit, or three as long as they make money from repetitive content they don't care to try anything new.

Edited by - someduda on Apr 12 2025