Sounds like a once in a while thing. Too soon to worry about it.
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| Joel Member  331 Posts 5/05 |  Posted - Oct 12 2009 : 11:11PMI was having sex today with a new girl, truly hot(a firm 9+ ), I was showering just before and trying to *enlarge* myself and was really struggling... just thought "fuck it" - and went in for sex. She was eager to blow me, but I started eating her out instead because my dick was still not hard... basically throughout the sex I am not sure my dick was ever properly 100% rock solid. I didn't much like the blow job (where is Anette Shwarz when you need her? :P), but loved the riding and still had problems. We had sex for little over an hour. And if that wasn't bad enough, I couldn't even cum at the end of it. I have never had ANY shit like this before. Nothing even close to this. Regarding porn... when watching it I can get rock hard in seconds, can go for hours or cum in 10 secs on demand (100% control) and also in my *average* frequency of past relationships I have never had any such problems. What is the likely cause of this... or suggestions of what could be wrong? Is this in anyway linked to porn do u think? I am sure some one will say Viagra... but I am a young man... 20s, how depressing is that? PS. I always used to joke about becoming a porn star with my past girlfriends and mates, and saw Katja Kassin writing an article on how it's really difficult to be a male porn star cos you have to get hard on demand and such. I was thinking "wtf BULLSHIT"... cos this is like, usually... so NOT a problem. I guess she was right! Edited by - joel on Oct 12 2009 [Link] |
HeyNow  Oblivious Gold Star Hey! 5965 Posts 1/03 | Posted - Oct 13 2009 : 12:19AM Sounds like a once in a while thing. Too soon to worry about it. [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Oct 13 2009 : 2:18AM [Link] |
| Hardware All-Star Member Your other left 14595 Posts 3/02 | Posted - Oct 13 2009 : 6:49AM You say she was eager to blow you, but were you eager for her to do so? It sounds like you were self-conscious about your erection, which is a sure way to foul up the works. Also, an hour is a pretty long time. Considering the norm for penetrative sex is under ten minutes, that's asking a lot from your body. Again, it sounds like you were not in the moment. Or, you may simply have overtaxed your body. Have you been ill, or done an unusual amount of physical exercise? Stressed out at work? Any of the above can affect your response.Sure, because you are controlling 'both ends', as it were. There's no way you're getting that from a partner; you have to give and take. So, it is really a matter of what your brain considers normal. That's not to say the brain can't manage the correct response in both situations, but you have to stay in practice. [Link] |
| TedtheBellhop Member 767 Posts 6/09 | Posted - Oct 13 2009 : 11:17AM Also, I've had instances where I had difficulty with that because I was intimidated by the female being "out of my league," or very experienced. [Link] |
| stinkfist Senior Member Subterfuge...... 7401 Posts 4/07 | Posted - Oct 15 2009 : 7:48PM it's easy to feel nervous and anxious to please someone and in this case you were aware that you were not getting as hard as you hoped for and with that preying on your mind made matters worse.[Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Oct 20 2009 : 4:49AM You say she's "hot" but most people mean physical attraction when they say that. I find that I need to be into someone's personality and behavior as much as their looks. What's her personality like? Do you really get into her as a person? Is there anything about her that you find a bit irritating? I've found things like that can really kick my ass when I'm trying to have sex with a partner. [Link] |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Oct 20 2009 : 6:37AM [Link] |
| Ivory Sex Object by Proxy "We all want our time in Hell." 647 Posts 8/04 | Posted - Oct 21 2009 : 11:30PM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Oct 22 2009 : 7:38AM [Link] |
| BlackSix All-Star Member pornography wasn't sex but fantasies of an impossibly hospitable world 12377 Posts 9/07 | Posted - Oct 22 2009 : 11:44PM [Link] |
| Joel Member 331 Posts 5/05 | Posted - Oct 24 2009 : 5:16AM Also, if I didn't say she was a 9, people would reply that maybe the girl I was with was sexually unappealing in some way. [Link] |
| Ivory Sex Object by Proxy "We all want our time in Hell." 647 Posts 8/04 | Posted - Oct 25 2009 : 10:52PM [Link] |
| realtip Deactivated User 2301 Posts 6/04 | Posted - Oct 26 2009 : 2:15AM [Link] |
| bissy Senior Member Nikki Sexx is superhot !!!! 7066 Posts 12/09 | Posted - Dec 18 2009 : 10:38PM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Dec 19 2009 : 6:42AM [Link] |
| gorr4247 Member 18 Posts 12/09 | Posted - Dec 20 2009 : 2:43PM Anyone seen 'Melty Man' episode of Coupling - probably only applies to people in the UK. Its fairly old show now but absolutely hilarious! (related to this topic!) [Link] |
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