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| charmanestar Member 14 Posts 2/10 |  Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 5:01AMBut she's 12. My parents don't have internet at home hence why she's not just going online to get it. I told her i'd think about it. But really I have no idea what to do. [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 5:22AM [Link] |
| charmanestar Member 14 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 5:24AM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 7:55AM [Link] |
| charmanestar Member 14 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 8:39AM being arrested and all that is not a possibility. [Link] |
| Lethena Member 45 Posts 5/09 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 9:28AM I do not think it can hurt anybody, even I knew the difference of pornsex and sex at that time. [Link] |
| charmanestar Member 14 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 1:10PM [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 1:16PM [Link] |
| charmanestar Member 14 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 1:38PM [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 1:56PM [Link] |
| charmanestar Member 14 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 1:56PM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 3:58PM People in your life WILL find out that your 12 year old sister got porn from you... How will you feel about that when it happens? Letting her decide for herself, doesn't mean you have to PROVIDE it for her.... As for treating her like an adult, she's 12... She's NOT an adult.... My 0.02 is that you tell her no. (not that my 0.02 is even worth that much) [Link] |
Gore Gore Girl  Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 4:22PM I agree that your family will probably find out it was you - would you find this embarrassing? If so, why? The answer to that question will probably resolve this issue. If you do end up doing this, think really, really carefully about *which* films you lend her. Edit: I just realised you might be a dude - does this change the situation somewhat? I dunno... Edited by - Gore Gore Girl on 3/3/2010 4:23:54 PM [Link] |
| bi_girl Member 157 Posts 11/09 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 4:59PM EDIT Oops I didn't see she was straight before. Edited by - bi_girl on 3/3/2010 10:04:31 PM [Link] |
| Clay Member 216 Posts 8/00 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 7:52PM [Link] |
| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 9:34PM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Mar 3 2010 : 11:36PM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 4:16AM [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 6:55AM I don't see how there can be a clear-cut answer when we knew very little about you (the OP) and even less about your sister. What type of person is she? How mature? What is her mental state like? What do you feel would be appropriate for her to watch? Do you think she could contextualise what she's viewing? Do you think it might shape her views on sexuality adversely at her age? How close are you with her and can you talk about these kinds of things? How was the subject of her borrowing your DVDs brought up? Could she have malicious intentions? What kind of person are you? Are you responsible? Are you just trolling and is this thread a complete joke? This goes on and on and on. I like the point raised about if it were a little brother, it highlights how most of the responses in this thread feed of the word 'sister' rather than '12'. [Link] |
| Savoy All-Star Member Sucker for Sinners 1844 Posts 12/06 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 10:53AM She should have to sneak and steal like the rest of us had to at 12. [Link] |
| Moony Member 143 Posts 8/08 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 11:04AM [Link] |
| Joey Starr Senior Member Still wanking after all these years. 8082 Posts 10/00 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 12:48PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 4:58PM [Link] |
| NewRomancer Deactivated User under THEIR avatar 738 Posts 7/08 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 5:25PM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 5:36PM Edited by - bobcat on 3/4/2010 5:38:55 PM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 5:42PM [Link] |
| redhead Member Not so redhead these days... 718 Posts 1/08 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 6:18PM [Link] |
| WardqueenJanine Member 914 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 6:21PM [Link] |
| bi_girl Member 157 Posts 11/09 | Posted - Mar 4 2010 : 9:04PM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 5 2010 : 7:45AM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 5 2010 : 10:15AM When I was 16 I gave my brother who was 13, my stash of porn mags. He hadn't seen any before or had a gf! They were very soft, nude girls and stories, but I could tell they blew is mind. I wish I'd let him be, I felt bad about it, like I should have left him to find out about girls and sex for himself. [Link] |
| Clam Digger Deactivated User Many a man fails as an original thinker simply because his memory is too good. 2268 Posts 1/05 | Posted - Mar 5 2010 : 10:50AM Edited by - Clam Digger on 3/5/2010 10:54:55 AM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 5 2010 : 11:27AM On the other side of things... my older sister (5 years my senior) gave me my first mags, and I saw some of my dad's (in his bathroom) and I turned out okay... right? [Link] |
| ronin3 Member 82 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Mar 6 2010 : 1:43AM Everything from webcam shows to phone pics are being used against these girls as young as 9. A few even committing suicide. You'll be a great brother to help her into this type of misery. She'll be blowing every guy that threatens to tell in no time. Porn is not real sex. It's intent is fantasy. If you really want to help then tell her the truth as best as you can describe it. Peer to peer is usually best Or as others have recommended let her parents get the first crack at it. Did you happen to see the 16 year old who almost ended up as a sex offender for bringing a Playboy to school ??????? You can google these stories if you don't believe them . Harmless as you think it might be the results will still be on your hands. Porn is entertainment. Sex and sexual relationships are person to person and not person to paper images or plastic dvds. [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Mar 6 2010 : 5:15AM [Link] |
| jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Mar 6 2010 : 12:58PM But really I have no idea what to do. Don't do it. [Link] |
| jayo All-Star Member 2117 Posts 7/04 | Posted - Mar 6 2010 : 12:59PM [Link] |
| Roggie71 Member Porn - There are worse vices! 49 Posts 10/07 | Posted - Mar 6 2010 : 1:29PM Right is right and wrong is wrong. I'm sure you know the difference otherwise, you would have given her the porn and not bother asking us!! 12 year olds don't have the maturity or developped brain to properly digest porn for what it is. 18 is 18 for a reason. I know some 18 year olds have the maturity of a 16, and some 16's are mature like 20. But 12? Roggie the Addict - Long Live Porno [Link] |
| charmanestar Member 14 Posts 2/10 | Posted - Mar 10 2010 : 6:48AM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 10 2010 : 7:08PM BUT, I would point out that your "18 is 18" argument isn't rock solid. 16 is okay in some states. And in other cultures (Borneo is one example I believe), 12 is "a-okay". Further, in our own culture historically (or at least those of us of European decent, or from India, China, and many other places) 12 was the common age to marry and begin sexual relations. So the issue at bar is "It is culturally 'wrong'." and certainly an issue of a legal nature also. My point is "right" and "wrong" are subjective. You don't define them, neither does our culture. They are subjective, so what is "right" today is "wrong" tomorrow, and what is right for you might be wrong for your neighbor, both on your street and/or across the ocean, etc. I think most of the world believes sex with a 12 year old is wrong, and porn OF a 12 year old is wrong. But a 12 year old viewing porn is another issue that would probably be more spread out as far as people's views on it. Personally (in case you care) I'm against it, but I won't let my 4 year old watch sponge bob square pants... I also think "Bratz" dolls are evil... But that is all MY perspective, and I don't believe in dictating, or legislating my morality onto others, nor should you. [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 10 2010 : 7:57PM [Link] |
| Asmodeus Lord of Lust az-mo-day-us 6338 Posts 10/01 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 5:26AM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 10:24AM [Link] |
| Gore Gore Girl Doctor of the Erotic Arts 7238 Posts 1/09 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 11:38AM [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 11:58AM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 1:13PM [Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 1:19PM Or is it always the other guy that made a mistake bobcat? I'm about as straight up as it gets, I play no games in how I present myself. And I did have a life before marriage regardless of your need to wrap all 3 time periods into today. I definitely USED to be a "player" and I'm pretty sure anyone with good reading skills could see it was a past tense aspect of the discussion. And I thought you went through my "rambling posts", I've mentioned my wife, etc. many, MANY times- so explain where the inconsistency is or this so-called "game" is? You should back that up if you're going to make the allegation-unless you have no sense of honor. So I look forward to your evidence of this unfounded claim. If you look for something not to like in a person bobcat, you'll definitely find it. I don't really care what your beef with me is, all that matters is that it is YOUR beef. [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 1:44PM You never quantified your stance on this, before! I'd agree that for an 18 year old it is, but when you get to mid-twenties it should no longer be. Buddy, some advice, go see a quack and get prescribed some chill-pills, you fuckin' well need them, either that or some 20 year old pussy, the latter always works wounders for me, I'm feeling very chilled today  ![Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 3:03PM So far in the posts of your's that I HAVE read, I've found out the following; you like to cum in a girls food and watch her eat it-without her knowing, you view sex as a competition, the idea being to fuck as many women as possible, make women cum as many times as possible, have a threesome and prove your a better "lover" then the other guy and do this by making the girl make noise he can't! Then today in this thread I find out you claim to be a mature married man with a wife and child.........., WOW........something is wrong....somewhere....and you claim to be "playing it straight" ....un-fucking-believable.....you are my all-time favourite poster to laugh at...thanks![Link] |
| seedfeeder Member My balls are full, who's hungry? 716 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 3:20PM I've been clear and consistent, again you have a selective listening disorder. Sex IS a competition, but the nature of that competition changes when one gets married in a loyal manner. As I said before, "everything in life is a competition"... perhaps what you are missing is, generally one should compete with oneself... read the posts a few more times maybe it will sink into your thick skull. Now to address your additional rhetoric: First, I've seen no where that I ever claimed to be mature. Again you reveal that you need to make things up to make even a semblance of a point. And I didn't deny being competitive, anywhere, in any way shape or form. I have simply said that in my youth (and into my 20s, I was indeed a player, and now, as a married man, I am not) none of these statements validates what you are trying to claim I said, so let me reiterate since it appears English is not your first language: 1/ I was a player, now I am not. 2/ I have ALWAYS viewed sex as a competition, even as a married man. 3/ No where have I contradicted myself, nor have you shown otherwise. And as far as my sexual tastes, distastes, habits, etc... No again I assert it's none of your business and not a concern of mine if you have questions, statements, thoughts, opinions about it. I could really care less and my only thought is that you must lead a very boring life to take such a strong interest in mine, a stranger to you. Lastly, so you indicate with the "cat got your tongue" remark that I should be sitting here, waiting and waiting for your response and if I don't respond right away, I must have nothing to say... Again, you sound like you live in bobcat land. Did it ever occur to you that I might have a job, to feed that wife and child(ren)? I do, I'm not on here all day, some of my job is in the office, some is in the field, I'll be leaving again in about 30 minutes for another appointment, but I should be back within a couple hours... is that okay bobcat? Also, you are behaving like a troll and nothing fancier. Trolls have anger issues. I am the wrong target for your rants as ultimately you will indeed look like a fool, as I think you already do. I'm not going to speculate on what you need, but I don't see that attacking strangers will help you in the long run with your anger problem. [Link] |
| Bobcat Senior Member 1490 Posts 2/08 | Posted - Mar 11 2010 : 3:41PM I don't view life as a competition anyway...what's the point...who am I competing against, why should I worry what the next guy does, how much money he earns, what car he drives, how big his house....there's always going to be someone with more...........if you worry about this all your life, all you'll do is screw up your brain and become paranoid.....ummmmmmmmmm, lets see, who's like that [Link] |
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