Hi nightowl. You mention that your sexlife has gotten worse after she had a baby. Could it be that she is unhappy with the changes her body went through? Gained weight and has issues with it? Even if you told her a million times that you don't mind and that she is beautiful - that does not mean that she believes you or that she feels the same. And what about you? Did you change appeareance, personal hygiene and/or the way you treat her in and out of bed? After all, maybe she is just reacting to something that makes her feel uneasy. Edited by - MissJanet on 4/17/2008 1:31:58 PM
Good questions, Miss Janet. I'm not satisfied with my own appearance, and I feel like an ass when I try to dress sexy. Giving the wife lingerie may indeed make her feel even worse about herself.
she's put on the tiniest amount of weight since she had the baby... and yeah, i know loads of women will say there's nothing like a tiny amount. i don't think i've started treating her any differently or stopped complimenting her etc though
Have you tried Ecstasy? (just kidding)A lot of times a women has not ever had the sexual door opened by a hot initial positive experience early on as a teen or in college.Sometimes women are raised to think that sex is a chore and only "whores" like sex.What ever the case may be, part could be mental and part could be physical.Maybe she needs some medication that balances her hormonally, or in some cases throws her hormonal balance off a bit to give her a hungrier sexual appetite.Sex is as important as food or air.I feel your pain.I got married very young and was miserable in a virtually sexless marriage for 4 years.He had blood pressure issues that he refused to deal with ,so no cock for me.Maybe like 8 minutes of missionary with a half limp cock once or twice a month.Take away the sex ,the intimacy creeps away.
Posted - Apr 17 2008 : 10:43AM