Was there a written contract? Without a written contract, you likely won't be able to even pursue it. The cops will tell you it's a civil matter, which it is. If you try to get an attorney to take your case, the attorney will probably tell you without an executed contract (signed by both your wife and the producers), there's no way you'll get any settlement. Sounds like those assholes really took advantage of her. That's really a shame that there are evil people like that in the world. I would recommend that you both drop this whole matter and move forward from this unfortunate incident. Don't try to contact those people any more. If they are willing to do such a shitty thing to a pregnant woman, they are sociopaths, and that also makes them dangerous.
Unfortunately, if your wife doesn't have a copy of anything she signed, it's as helpful as having no contract at all. At this point, they have no reason to give you any money because there's nothing that you can do to them that they are worried about. Even if you were the vigilante type, do you even know how to find them? And even if you know where to find them, please don't for even a minute think that there's anything you could do to get your payment if you showed up at their doorstep. These people took advantage of a pregnant woman. They are immoral. They certainly won't be moved by sympathy, and unless you have an army of thugs at your command, they won't be moved by threats. You don't really have any legal remedies available to you. And if you tried to get justice outside the law, you'd probably end up injured or dead. Put this ugly mess behind you. Have your wife get tested for STDs then both of you should try to forget it ever happened. Your child needs a healthy and happy mom and dad, so move past it as quickly as you can.
Old trick...they "hired her to do a porn shoot and simply ganged her, either for their own pleasure or for hire (their profit) and sent her home. Unfortunately she never consulted with anyone before the act to get advice as to what she should do contractually to assure her payment. I'm really afraid you going to have to write this off as a learning experience.
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Idlewild66 Deactivated User
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Posted - Jan 31 2014 : 9:50PM
What WardQueen said.. Ya know, having read a bunch of interviews of these girls, I think most would be surprised that most of these girls first experiences with "porn" sounds a lot like your wifes. Most girls jump in without a agent, and lets be real, there are a lot of "predators" out there. Anyway, if I where you I would inform my chain of command - also, as long as I was in the service, my wife could not do porn. Would cause to many problems for you at work. Air Force veteran here... Edited by - Idlewild66 on 2/12/2014 7:46:18 PM
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Posted - Feb 1 2014 : 2:28AM
Psychopaths. Stay away from those guys, and be more careful. Your wife could have just disappeared and you'd never have known if she was dead or alive.
I was almost punching to the monitor while I was reading this... Dude Listen; She is not your damn Girlfriend She is your wife and you say you love your kid (you don't even have sex to protect it) Could someone tell me How a man on a earth could let her pregnant wife to be fucked by others and agreed to be recorded and spread all over the internet and that is watched by people forever???? You even started discussion about "2 boys or gangbang?" omfg you are really disqusting! I do really started to hate you, I don't want to type more else Im gonna start insulting you badly. Edited by - Arjix20 on 2/2/2014 12:40:18 AM
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 4 2014 : 12:19AM
People do crazy things when facing financial problems. From the way you describe all of this, it looks like a fraud so a group of men can bareback gangbang someone. There is one hole in your story though; you seem to be not sure if they used condoms or not. I do not think I could find a woman who would not know if there was a condom or not. She should have been able to feel it. You also don't need to waste your time testing the underwear to see how many men dropped their semen. You already know it was multiple guys so this is just going to cause you more stress. I would guess there is no porn company, no scene to be released, and you will never ever get paid. I don't know the laws down there, but if there is no scene being released and no legit company, you may have a rape case involved here. But, that won't get you your money. And it will get very messy if you try to pursue things with the police. You may be best off to cut your losses, treat any STI's that may have been passed, and put this whole ordeal behind you. Many years from now you may find it a blessing that your wife didn't get into porn. Do you really want your child to know that his/her mom did porn while pregnant? It stays for you forever and ever. While I personally think it is fine for mothers to be in adult industry, I personally don't like them doing it while pregnant and it sends a strange message if your children find out. Don't ever consider adult industry again while she is pregnant and also while having issues with her mental health (this is a big one. Porn is a tough business and a woman needs to be strong and clear of mind or she will be taken advantage just like you have learned). For every porn star who has their career and family life in a great place, there are plenty of women like your wife who are not ready for the industry or not in the mental shape to avoid being seriously taken advantage of.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 4 2014 : 12:21AM
dupe.. sorry Edited by - earthwindfire on 2/4/2014 12:22:00 AM
Nice thing about tattoos, I'm spending much less on porn now. 225 Posts 9/11
Posted - Feb 11 2014 : 4:09PM
So you sent your wife, the mother of your unborn child, alone to Fl,she has mental issues and a sever speech impediment to get fucked in the ass and gang banged, and your biggest concern is you didn't get paid? Soldier, you are a fucking disgrace to the uniform. I really hope you are some slimy troll just jerking us around. I can't even fathom what kind of fucking worm of a man allows this.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 12 2014 : 7:42PM
The man's point was this was poor judgement on your part even if the company did pay you the money. You keep focusing on not getting paid as if everything she went through would have been ok if the paycheck was there. You really should focus on the whole idea from the start was bad for your pregnant wife with mental issues. You should have never considered this idea no matter how desperate you were. Using your wife's body to pay some bills is a bad reason to get into the adult industry (but very common for men to do to their SO's unfortunately. We have heard tons of stories over the years of doing porn just to support the need of their boyfriend/husband, etc and it usually ends badly for the girl). Edited by - earthwindfire on 2/12/2014 7:43:16 PM
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Idlewild66 Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 12 2014 : 7:51PM
I work at the VA, spent time in the Air Force and Army National Guard. Please refrain using the phrase, "a fucking disgrace to the uniform." I've SEEN some REAL disgrace; And even though this situation isn't kosher, this guy is FAAAAAAAAAAAAAR from being a disgrace. Want to talk about some JR Officers?
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MaddyLover Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 18 2014 : 11:39AM
Attention people & porn lovers..I guess this guy is quite making up all these stories I don't know why but believe me its all fantasy thing he's saying,let me break it to you He says that his wife aint sure if she was banged bareback or with condom but the truth is that a woman literally any woman can tell the difference even if she's blind folded & also the guys dump loads inside her which makes it more obvious that he's a lier cuz of the fact being any woman would know if the guy dumps inside her..also I think most of the porn company pays the check or cash on spot after the scene is done..nobody says like hey I will send you money later but right now you need to suck my BBC This guy whoever he's has really lost his mind & I bet he fantasies about that but can't make it happen Lord help such guys,damn what really has happened to humanity
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 19 2014 : 12:21AM
"companies" who are pretending to be porn businesses but are just guys looking to fuck girls don't "pay on the spot". They make bullshit excuses and try to bully the girl into doing the scene and getting paid later. In this story the girl was bullied and intimidated and taken advantage of. Yes, a girl knows when it is bareback. But in this story, this girl could be being so traumatized and she has mental health issues that it is possible she just was not aware of what the hell was happening to her and her mind blocked it out. I am not saying this guy is true or not and this could very much be a wind-up, but what he described with people desperate for money, guys pretending to be porn companies, bullying on payment, and an overwhelmed woman, can and does happen
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MaddyLover Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 19 2014 : 8:31AM
^Just be rational dude no matter how much traumatized a girl is but she knows if it's bareback & also it wasn't just one so mayb as he describes many of them also it all looks & seems to be so staged.....a woman picks her up at airport then she goes to some kinda dressing up stage & then they blind fold her & then they bang a preggo girl...it's all so dramatic dude & also the dude knows nothing about their company or anything.....you know what I know there are fake agent as well but don't you think it's quite like a movie story or something.....the whole thing is fishy man.....if your someone who can fall for this bullshit then I bet you can fall for anything....guys like you are the reason why these fake agents & companies really succeed what they desire.
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MaddyLover Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 20 2014 : 8:18AM
^You know what I'd rather die or go homeless then seeing my wife with some other guys.....I get it we all are different & mayb you guys are into swinging stuff but comon you sent her as a poor preggo.....you gonna burn somewhere dude that's for sure & fake agents are still alive just cuz of some stupid guys like you.....if you were a man you would have done somethin to not happen.....I hate to say this but I guess it's good that she got gangbanged cuz if everything would have gone smooth then you might have begun to use her for more money as we all know a man's need is never satisfied.....although still I think your bluffing but if you aint then sorry to inform you that,your the most stupid at the same time lame guy to even send your very preggo gf who wasn't mentally fit to such a thing.....let me tell you one more thing,girls are fragile & they would do anything to make her man happy.....it wasn't her idea it was just she saw you in trouble & she couldn't think of making any better money then doing what she did.....so that's where the definition of man comes in & they need to support her woman not depend on her Btw she was pregnant & got creampied by mayb say 100 guys of god knows of which color & age.....eeewww just the thought of it is kinda insane Pal what have you done.....just think abou it even if they paid her after that Gangbang would it be worth it & we all know that your posts sent a vibe of anger cuz she dint get paid not cuz of bareback Gangbang.....your someone who just wants cash no matter,I really pity your gf & your future son
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 23 2014 : 1:36PM
I don't see what I am falling for. I have said his story may be fake or may be real; scenarios like this do exist and you are blinded to think they don't. And are you some investigative reporter? Who cares if this is real or not, it brings up some discussion points worth talking about in relation to bad choices when financially desperate, and what to look for in a predator in the industry. Edited by - earthwindfire on 2/23/2014 1:38:46 PM
There are only two options here. 1)the original story is fake, or 2)both the original poster and his girlfriend are both dumb as fuck, clueless, gullible idiots. Take yer pick.
ok i deleated the post cause we dont need any more answers and are done with it. thanks the people who tried to help us. my wife isnt stupid by any means though as some wrote stuff here. she is slow maybe because she gets nervous and the anixty medicine she takes but that shouldnt matter because we had made a agrement over the phone and she signed there paperwork there so they should have done what they said they were gonna do and should have paid her the money we agreed on. if you hired somone to paint your house wouldnt you expect them to paint your house and do like they say? we were ripped off and they should have done what they said they were gonna do with her and then paid her like they said.
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 27 2014 : 11:52PM
You know what is amazing.. that you still are focused on not getting paid and somehow IF YOU GOT PAID EVERYTHING ABOUT THIS PROCESS WOULD HAVE BEEN ACCEPTABLE. What you encouraged your pregnant wife to do was an abhorrent situation. It is sad to see you haven't learned that and still think the problem is you didn't get paid. ANd don't say "She wanted to".. you are her husband and in the fucking military, you should have protected her and not fed her to the wolves like this. Even if they paid you, you allowed your pregnant wife to go away to strangers you have never met, without you by her side, to be fucked by multiple guys. Dude, are you seriously thinking the money makes it ok? You allowed your wife to go in to a horrible and dangerous situation; a gangbang while she was pregnant , alone, with you not around. Even if you got paid this was still a disgraceful thing to do, period. You will make a terrible father if you don't take responsibility for your own actions. You allowed your wife to go into a VERY dangerous situation and all you can think about is they didn't pay you. The fact you think this all would have been cool if they paid you is just nuts. Edited by - earthwindfire on 2/27/2014 11:55:50 PM Edited by - earthwindfire on 2/27/2014 11:57:12 PM
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earthwindfire Deactivated User
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Posted - Feb 27 2014 : 11:52PM
Duplicate post. Edited by - earthwindfire on 2/27/2014 11:53:29 PM
If there is any good that might come from this it could possibly the stark wake up that the OP could realize about the terrible impact that could have occurred to his wife and child. Maybe he'll shudder, and reflect upon the relative "positive" outcome. As a result, maybe he'll be a better parent, his wife more wary of those who offer a quick-buck scheme and they can put this behind them and write the loss of money off as tuition in life. Not to get political, and he never mentioned this but on a side note I hear stories of military families struggling financially all the time. In some cases it drives them to do desperate things. It's laughable, or would be if it didn't involve real people, that we term those in the military "professionals" yet treat them in the manner we do.