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icerasta2
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Posted - Jul 25 2012 : 9:29AM
My wife and I are both about 30, and last Friday when I got home from work she looks at me and says, "I want to watch a porno together". I didn't have as much time as I wanted to find something good for her, but we ended up watching the 2nd scene in The Craving 2 together. She seemed to like parts of it, but overall was disappointed that it didn't live up to what she imagined it would be.
Talked with her for a while about it, and a few things in particular bothered her a bit. She thought it was way too cheesy, not sexy enough, the guy's dick wasn't as big as she thought a porn star's should be, and she's convinced she could tell when the dude started to go limp because he had to try and drag it out to finish an entire scene.
She's willing to give it one more chance (but again, she doesn't have any interest in perusing sites or going to stores to pick herself), but I need to hit a home-run with this one or i'm out! I need just one scene from a porno that:
1) Has no story / cheesy costumes. Just sex.
2) Includes a build up. The anticipation of what was going to happen really riled her up. Something where they are fully clothed to begin (jeans / tshirt) and it goes from there. No cheesy school girl costumes.
3) One man, one woman. Woman needs to be shaved with large natural looking breasts (C or bigger).
4) Nothing too wild -- definitely no anal. Can't be too boring either though. After the last movie, she said "That wasn't any hotter than anything we do together..." And she was right -- the scene was pretty much a blow job and one position (at least all we watched of it). didn't have the passion / lust factor she was looking for.
5) Needs to have great chemistry... nobody going limp on us! No condom
6) Finally, her favorite actor is Robert Downey Jr... anyone who looks like him would be a winner. She doesn't get off on the bad-boy type look -- more the intellectual white collar look. But most importantly, the guy has to have a giant dick. The last one wasn't big enough. One of her fantasies is a guy who's so big no girl turns him down, because once they see it they all want it. That's what we need here!
Like I said, I don't need a whole film of scenes like this, just one to sell her on this new shared hobby! I'm new to porn also, and don't know where to begin. We may go down to our local DVD shop together and try and find something, but the things she's looking for might not be discernible from looking at the box and I only get one more chance!
Edited by - icerasta2 on Jul 25 2012
Edited by - icerasta2 on Jul 25 2012
Edited by - icerasta2 on Jul 25 2012
Peoples Temple
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People tell lies my friend. Some people like publicity. I don't like publicity.
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Posted - Jul 25 2012 : 1:07PM
You may do best to view one of the many John Holmes compilations. You are bound to find some of the scenes to your liking and a compilation will have just sex, no storyline. Most of the women will not be shaved as the scenes are from the 70s and 80s when shaving was not the norm.
Try the DVD adult rental sites and do an "Advanced" search for John Holmes and select compilation, then view any that are rated highly.

Edited by - Peoples Temple on 7/25/2012 1:16:20 PM

Dan
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Posted - Jul 25 2012 : 4:31PM
Most porn is made for men, which is why most women don't enjoy watching it. Porn made for men focuses on the woman's body in the film. Which means that a female watcher of the film needs to have lesbian inclinations to enjoy watching the film. Only a lesbian or a bi-sexual would enjoy watching another woman's body.
If you want your wife to enjoy watching a porn movie, then get her a porn movie made especially for women and not for men.

Edited by - Dan on 7/25/2012 4:33:13 PM

Peoples Temple
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Posted - Jul 25 2012 : 11:13PM
porn....most women don't enjoy watching it.
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Dan, I do not know that to be the case. I had girlfriends that did not have a porn collection (so they said) but they enjoyed watching adult content with me.
Women can be very sensitive to what others think about them and shy away from possible scorn/insults from the public or any form of criticism and so go into denial. Men care less about what the public thinks about them and are more likely to be honest about their interests.
I also see a lot of focus in porn on the male anatomy, even the titles to releases zero in on it so I do not think it is made or tailored for men.
Kezza
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Female porn lover
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6/12
Posted - Jul 26 2012 : 12:16AM
I agree with Dan get something that appeals to her and deals with a her sexual needs and wants.
As a woman I get frustrated at some of the men in porn sometimes, I don't care about the woman in it but look at the man in the film. Does he appeal to me sexually, does he treat the lady how I want to be treated, and how does he have sex with her the way I want him to. If he ticks all the boxes for me I picture myself as the porn lady having sex with him, and that really gets me stimulated and wet, and that is a great porn scene for me. Does not not matter if its rough or soft to me depending on the mood i am in and what I see.
The porn industry for me makes the mistake of thinking that a woman's friendly scene has to be soft and sugary. I suggest they read some of the erotic novels women read and love, and maybe a copy of Cleo too.
If any Male porn star can for fill a fantasy for men and at the same time a woman then his blood is worth bottling.
I would love it if there was ever a porn star who could perform so well for the guys and so talented enough to write best selling erotic novels for women. Now that would be some talent there.
 
Kezza
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Posted - Jul 26 2012 : 5:51AM
I found this site which is Australian base porn site and ezine that is aimed at women.
http://www.forthegirls.com/ it might be of a help to you and your wife.
icerasta2
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Posted - Jul 26 2012 : 8:12AM
Thanks for the advice. I talked with her a bit more about it and did some more searching on these forums and came up with a brief list of male actors who I think would fit the bill (based on look and *ahem* size). I've never seen any of them perform, so would appreciate it if anyone could weigh in before I spend some money! Julian Rios, Danny Mountain, and Scott Nails are the ones I thought fit the bill the most (in that order).
The problem I'm having now is that I can't find a good tool to search for male pornstars -- all the websites are set up to filter and search by female talent, so this is making it a bit harder to zero in on specific films and even more so specific scenes. I've seen these names show up in a few of the Playgirl movies -- do those come recommended?
CummingLinguist All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jul 26 2012 : 9:17AM
^ Earlier someone recommended John Holmes. I say "No" as he often performed at half-mast.
You said that the guy in that first scene was too small for her taste. Who was it? Most porn studs are pretty big, so I'm wondering whether she wants to see unusually-large-for-porn or if she'd be happy with average-for-a-porn-stud.
I don't know Julian Rios. Danny Mountain and Scott Nails didn't leap to mind when you stated her preferences. When you mentioned Robert Downey Jr., I instantly thought of James Deen. If she really likes Scott Nails, I would point you towards Digital Playground, especially their "Career" titles (like Babysitters, Teachers, etc.). They use Scott Nails a lot, and the Careers titles often have a lot of lead-up to the scene, without getting bogged down in story.
As for the sticking to one position: Modern porn is made with the fast-foward button in mind. The viewers can watch or skip as they want. The performers will stick with one position, go at it for a while, then switch, go at it that way, etc. I'm guessing that the couple you were watching switched after you turned it off, but she got bored with the monotony of the one position. One option would be too look into older porn, but the picture quality often suffers.
WardqueenJanine
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Posted - Jul 26 2012 : 12:06PM
I know what she means about the stupid storylines with the foolish costumes.
astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jul 26 2012 : 1:39PM
Take a look through a few movies by William H. from Elegant Angel, Jonni Darkko from Evil Angel, Chris Streams with Jules Jordan Video and Eddie Powell from Digital Sin / New Sensations. The first three can get into some harder things your wife might not like as much, but also do some really great stuff for couples. Eddie Powell can sometimes get a little artistic, but does a lot of very sexy all sex stuff...
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icerasta2
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Posted - Jul 26 2012 : 10:52PM
Thanks for the above suggestion... I think we've got a winner with James Deen. Any specific titles you think would fit the bill? I saw something with him and Nicole Ray on one of the tube sites... Amazingly hot! Unfortunately, I dont think my wife would like her all that much.... She described someone closer to your typical big chested blonde porn star, but the sex itself in that scene is exactly what im looking for. Natural, some build up, starts with clothes on, exciting but not demeaning.
Also saw a few scenes with Alexis Texas, which I think is more what shes looking for, but the sex wasn't as good as the scene described above. I need to combine the two!
CummingLinguist All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jul 27 2012 : 8:01AM
^ Bree Olson is another big boobed blonde beauty. She performs with a lot of intensity, but it might not seem natural. Sunny Lane has long dirty blonde hair, a great body, and also performed well. Offhand, I can't think of any scenes where James Deen performed with either of these Goddesses.
This is not what your wife asked for at all, but you should know that James Deen dated Joanna Angel for quite a while-- in fact, they may still be a couple. Joanna has big boobs, but she also has a lot of tattoos and is brunette. That said, there is a scene in "XOXO Joanna Angel" where a creepy neighbor peeks in on their private frolicking.
I haven't watched a lot of them, but you may also want to check out New Sensations' Romance Series.
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Posted - Jul 27 2012 : 9:15AM
michellec85
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Posted - Jul 27 2012 : 2:38PM
I was going to suggest James Deen as soon as I saw the title of this thread haha. He is in many digital playground movies, and a lot of the girls he has scenes with in those are blonde and big boobs. I would suggest:
-with jese jane in the 'masseuse 2'
-with kayden kross in 'bad girls 8'
-with riley steele in the 'masseuse' and 'the masseuse 4'
Other scenes that are personal favs that fit what she seems to be looking for:
-with madison ivy in 'the bombshells' from elegant angel
-with alexis texas in 'seduction' from elegant angel
-with lexi swallow in 'big wet tits 11' from elegant angel
-with kagney linn karter in 'performers of the year 2010' from elegant angel
-with Kaylee Hilton in 'downtown girls 3' from zero tolerance
Hope you find something you both like!
astroknight All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jul 27 2012 : 4:34PM
^ Great suggestions!!!
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icerasta2
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7/12
Posted - Jul 28 2012 : 12:52AM

Making some progress... I havent seen the whole thing yet, but the scene with Bree Olson in "Bree's beach partyy" looks pretty good. What's the best site to buy individual scenes from? I don't want recurring charges on my card or to worry about getting scammed.
I also really I liked the scene with Alexis Texas in Seduction, except I think she'll find the whole doctor outfit pretty cheesy (same goes fior some of those Masseuse scenes). Seriously I though, you'd think that out of the 1,000 or so scenes Deen has done there'd be no shortage that fit our criteria, Pickings are more slim than I'd have thought.
Thanks for the great help though, even if she's not interested, I've found plenty of good stuff to keep me busy for a while!
SUCKER4NICETITS
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Posted - Jul 28 2012 : 11:24AM
I would try puremature.com
Very sensual with beautiful performers.
CummingLinguist All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Jul 28 2012 : 2:59PM
^^ Adam & Eve isn't my favorite studio, so I didn't see a lot of Bree's work with them.
madscientist
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Female porn watcher.
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Posted - Jul 29 2012 : 3:27AM
I can't pick out any particular scenes for you to try out, but I would suggest trying out some of these movies: Cuties 1, Cuties 2, Cuties 3, Bush 1 & 2, The Bombshells 1 - 4. There maybe some anal and some unshaven-ness going on in them, but I think they meet most of your criteria over all. I'm curious to see how these go over with you.
Katvena
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Rocco & Nacho are the KINGS OF HARDCORE and yes I am a Red Blooded WOMAN
402 Posts
8/12
Posted - Oct 13 2012 : 11:47PM
I do that why I love the Spiegler Girls, because when they fuck it REAL. they don't FAKE it, unlike most women porn stars.
When I see scenes with male porns stars I like and when I see the women in them a faking it, it kills the scene for me and I can always tell if the woman in the scene is faking it.
Kezza
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Female porn lover
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6/12
Posted - Oct 14 2012 : 12:34AM
^^ I don't like fakers either but I don't go looking for the women's looks though.
Katvena
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Rocco & Nacho are the KINGS OF HARDCORE and yes I am a Red Blooded WOMAN
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Posted - Oct 14 2012 : 1:29AM
Women looks matters to me. I rather see Rocco Siffredi fuck a pretty woman than a old ugly woman anyday.
If the woman is not pretty it kills the scene for me.
Edited by - katvena on 10/14/2012 1:30:21 AM



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