I am not close to tenure... I've only been in for 6years... I've decided on the school I want to go to. I want to stick around but the more frequent the HIV/syphilis/hep c etc out breaks happen it just reminds me of why I need to leave. I know I've quit and come back 2x, the first time being for this exact reason. The last time because of an engagement so don't start with the "oh they all leave and come back" bullshit. Ultimately, my health is far more important than any amount of money. As a performer I really feel the condom law needs to be upheld for OUR safety, and directors need to step back and stop blaming "sales will diminish". They should be more concerned with fighting the free porn out there. But anyways.... that's my opinion, and in the grand scheme of it all holds no weight. "i live life with no regrets"
A mandatory condom mandate would actually help save the industry at this point. Each time there's a health scare in the biz they end up losing more and more people who don't ever come back, keeps ex-pornstars who might've come back from coming back, and keeps potenial new girls from entering the porn biz. At some point the talent pool is going to be substandard and small if things keep going the way they are. A condom mandate would probably keep the current girls around longer and make some girls feel it's safe to come back. Yeah, I know most viewers would rather no have condoms in the porn they watch but I get the feeling if everyone started using them and the alternative is they don't get to see their fav stars they'll put up with it and over time get used to it and it'll become the norm and won't think about it. The people who claim they'll stop watching more than likely won't if they don't have alternatives.
But why are you waiting on a law if this seems so important for you? You control your own body and the decisions on what type of scenes you will shoot. If you really think it is a legitimate risk, it sounds just crazy to me that you would still be performing. There are always other ways to make money. From the sound of it you need to make the decision and not wait to see how the laws play out. The law only affects LA county anyway for now, while San Fernando is the porn capital. If it is important to a director, they will have no problem scheduling shoots within a half hour drive to a location outside the county.
I didn't say I was waiting around on anything, I just wish directors would finally wake up and finally get behind mandatory condom use. Or at the very least genuinely let it be our decision to use them with out replacing us for a scene when we ask or not booking those who are condom only. I also don't need your fan boy advice on how to live my life. Too many fans have all these opinions or try and give advice when they aren't remotely close to the industry other than beating their meat to their fantasy girlfriend. If you haven't read up lately the condom law will more than likely be made state wide. Directors say their sale will go down with condoms,yet with budgets for shoots dwindling by and by, the moving production out of la county must have an impact on those budgets as well. I know this as a fact due to a few friend who work on the production end for companies who are in fact moving out of la county every Damn shoot.
And Mack is back to abusing fans for having opinions which she doesn't like and/or asking questions which she doesn't like. I'm 100% in favor of the moderators on this forum stepping in to keep fans (and trolls) from abusing the performers or other forum members, but it ought to work the other way, as well. No one, including performers, should be allowed to be abusive. I understand that, in the interest of continuing to encourage performer participation, the moderators might need to take a more tactful approach when a performer is the one being abusive, as in this case. Maybe sending a private message or something along those lines. But however it's done, it should be done. It's either okay for people to be abusive on this forum, or it's not okay. It needs to be a universal rule.
Please explain to me how this is abusive? Honestly, I dont see it. I didnt use foul language, call name( you guys are fan boys and thats not abusive). So many fans feel they give such sound advice or know everything because they spank the monkey to us... this has been stated by many many others before.
The problem with this line of thinking is that there will always be an alternative. From just going and watching older scenes, to watching porn made somewhere other than the USA (I seriously doubt the entirety of the world will adopt mandatory condom laws), to homemade porn shot without condoms (because you really can't regulate how people have sex in their own bedrooms), porn without condoms will always exist. Hell, even with the law that WAS in place (and the courts have now taken all the teeth out of), there was nothing stopping two performers from shooting a scene with each other without a condom, not paying each other (i.e. a content trade), and putting it up on their respective websites. And the state of California took one look at the amount of money needed to make the condom law statewide (I think it was quoted at somewhere around half a million dollars a year for enforcement) and that pretty much ended that discussion. They need to get their budget in order before they start talking about that again. Truthfully, I'm all for giving performers a legitimate choice in whether or not they can use condoms in a scene (instead of the pretending that they tend to do now), but as far as I see it, the only way that's going to happen is if people start new condom-only (or true condom-optional) companies and they actually succeed. Most currently running companies aren't going to change their ways unless they are dragged kicking and screaming, especially the bigger ones.
You make some very accute points. I guess I just wish like you stated we had a genuine option to shoot with them or with out. Alot of persomers wouldnt, I know I would. But on lighter note... How is everyone else's week going? Plans for Labor Day weekend? "i live life with no regrets"
Who was giving advice? I merely asked some questions to try and find out your thoughts on the issue because you seemed to make valid points, yet at the same time override your own logic by continuing to subject yourself to a dangerous work environment. You are the one who is affected by the laws, the industry practices, and most importantly your own decisions. You seem to be getting upset at the wrong person here. If anything, be upset with yourself for continuing to use poor judgement to work in an industry you clearly disagree with just for the money. Look, I'm not trying to make you upset or pick an argument as a "fan boy", I'd just like you to be safe and happy with what you do, that's it. Edited by - Piston Honda on 8/27/2013 10:01:58 PM
Yes, it's true that you didn't use foul language. But if that were all that made a post abusive, half of the posts which get deleted by moderators on this forum would still be around, if not more than half. I went back and read your post to which I objected a second time, just to be sure that I'm not jumping the gun and reading too much into your words, but it still looks quite rude to me. Maybe I'm wrong. I've been wrong before. But that's how it looks to me. You asked me to explain, so I'll give it a shot. First, there's your use of the term "fan boy." Maybe you weren't aware of this, but "fan boy" usually has a different connotation than the word "fan." While the term "fan" generally refers to someone who is enthusiastic about something and/or is an admirer of something or someone, a "fan boy" is someone who will get in line with whatever they're told or put up with anything, so long as you give them a taste of whatever it is they're a fan of. The term "fan boy" is also frequently used together with the "fat loser" and "you live in your mother's basement" type of insults. Secondly, when you say that "too many fans have opinions", you're basically saying that fans shouldn't have opinions. They should just shut up and watch porn. It seems a very condescending remark. Thirdly, how do you know how closely or how little connected this guy (or any other fan, such as myself, for example) is with the industry, and how much or how little they might know. Once again, maybe I'm reading too much into your post, but it certainly seemed to me that you were dismissing his opinion, and the opinions of other fans, as the ignorant nonsense of people whose only connection with (or knowledge of) the industry is "beating their meat to their fantasy girlfriend" - also a phrase which I think was intended to be insulting. Now, as I said, I may be wrong. Maybe you weren't aware of the different connotation which "fan boy" has. Maybe the rest of it was just an unfortunate choice of words. Or maybe I'm judging you on your past behavior, when you got belligerent and abusive with fans on another forum. If I am judging you on your past behavior, then I apologize. But I do always try not to judge people on what they've said or done in the past, so I don't think that's it. All of the point of your post which I quoted, when taken together, seemed to me to be very condescending and quite hostile, and that's what I objected to. If I was imagining it, then I'm sorry for calling you out.
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Posted - Aug 27 2013 : 11:17PM
I do not see her post as abusive. She is objecting to people who have little to no connections to the industry trying to decide how to live her life and judging on what she has decided to do with her body. That's her business and no one elses. You are, of course, entitled to your own opinions. Perhaps it was a bit hostile, but I am pretty sure you would object to someone trying to dictate how to live your life.
I did find her response as rude, but I could really care less that's why I didn't provoke a conflict. I'm not a keyboard gangster. Somebody will have to start writing me checks to fight with people I don't care about on the internet. If I did have a problem with her post, it would be that I wasn't even doing what she was accusing me of doing. I don't see anywhere in my post where I'm telling her what she should and shouldn't do with her body, or how she should view this issue. All I was trying to do was understand why she wasn't following her own seemingly well thought out stance on the issue and performs anyway in what she considers an unsafe workplace. This isn't like some random person complaining about laws or taxes or the economy but having no real control over the situation, so they just vent on the matter on the internet. Instead she has direct control and say in what type of industry and risks she is willing to work with, that's why I didn't understand what point she was trying to make. Edited by - Piston Honda on 8/28/2013 12:13:20 AM
If I was giving any advice in either post it was to follow her own advice. Both posts reiterate her own point of the industry being unsafe, and also her point that her health is most important to her. I was asking why she isn't following her own advice and setting a limit for herself regardless of what laws there is or isn't... or what directors or fan preferences are. Just do what is safe and healthy for herself, that's it. Either way, I am stepping out of this thread, but I will look out to see her response even if I won't be replying again. Like I said, I'm not looking for conflict at all, I really don't care for it at all. Edited by - Piston Honda on 8/28/2013 12:40:34 AM
Yes, it's true that you didn't use foul language. But if that were all that made a post abusive, half of the posts which get deleted by moderators on this forum would still be around, if not more than half. I went back and read your post to which I objected a second time, just to be sure that I'm not jumping the gun and reading too much into your words, but it still looks quite rude to me. Maybe I'm wrong. I've been wrong before. But that's how it looks to me. You asked me to explain, so I'll give it a shot. First, there's your use of the term "fan boy." Maybe you weren't aware of this, but "fan boy" usually has a different connotation than the word "fan." While the term "fan" generally refers to someone who is enthusiastic about something and/or is an admirer of something or someone, a "fan boy" is someone who will get in line with whatever they're told or put up with anything, so long as you give them a taste of whatever it is they're a fan of. The term "fan boy" is also frequently used together with the "fat loser" and "you live in your mother's basement" type of insults. Secondly, when you say that "too many fans have opinions", you're basically saying that fans shouldn't have opinions. They should just shut up and watch porn. It seems a very condescending remark. Thirdly, how do you know how closely or how little connected this guy (or any other fan, such as myself, for example) is with the industry, and how much or how little they might know. Once again, maybe I'm reading too much into your post, but it certainly seemed to me that you were dismissing his opinion, and the opinions of other fans, as the ignorant nonsense of people whose only connection with (or knowledge of) the industry is "beating their meat to their fantasy girlfriend" - also a phrase which I think was intended to be insulting. Now, as I said, I may be wrong. Maybe you weren't aware of the different connotation which "fan boy" has. Maybe the rest of it was just an unfortunate choice of words. Or maybe I'm judging you on your past behavior, when you got belligerent and abusive with fans on another forum. If I am judging you on your past behavior, then I apologize. But I do always try not to judge people on what they've said or done in the past, so I don't think that's it. All of the point of your post which I quoted, when taken together, seemed to me to be very condescending and quite hostile, and that's what I objected to. If I was imagining it, then I'm sorry for calling you out. [/quote] I really didnt know "fan boy" had a bad connotation. Was not how it was meant, I assumed it was just a term for fan(male fans). I can be very abrasive. However, in the more recent year(s) I have really toned that down. I also dont feel I was belligerent, defensive yes. In my statement or reply I said I would indeed like to stick around(maybe I should have explained why) and am really reevaluating what to do. I not once said I would or wouldnt. It was just me informing the community of whats been on my mind. So, I therefore didnt feel it was needed for ABOVE POSTER to go into an "advice giving speech". Thats all. My apologies if it was perceived as me being a bitch. But until those who want to give their advice or opinions on my choice to either stay in the biz or leave, join the industry and walk in the shoes of a performer when this shit happens you really dont understand the feelings and thoughts that go through our heads. And really shouldnt dictate what you think I should do. And setting the record straight: I am not fully decided on what I am going to do. That does not imply I am letting my logic and common sense to get out for my heath concerns go by the way side due to the money aspect. I will be real frank! I shoot if lucky 1-3 scenes a month or as of lately. Sure some months are better and some months I have 1 scene I dont see the check for from anywhere of 2-8 weeks. So the money obviously is NOT my deciding factor here. Sure its fast money but I have had to really learn to budget my income which is incredibly unsteady. I came back to rebuild savings for school, pay off debt/car, and support myself financially while doing the previous listed. That obviously IS NOT happening. I have no fear of leaving the fast cash behind because I have done it before and did ok financially, I just have certain monetary goals I set upon returning. Those goals may not be attained through this business but isnt clouding my judgment and or concern for putting my health first "i live life with no regrets"
Well maybe, and this is for sure an advice we fan can tell, you people on the other side of the screen should keep in mind that you are who you are thank to our money or at least this is what the industry wants us to believe, if you dont consider those companies who have billions of dollars and can do what they want without giving a fuck to anybody, including selling both legal and illegal ways
Well, every job has its risks. And how the future of porn will look like? So, male performer wears a condom during the act. Next, someone could pass the 'both condoms law' and both guy and female performer will have to wear condom. You just put enough lube and the actors can have 'double safe sex'. Next, the male is only allowed to shoot his cum into the condom and not on the actress. The imaginary law could order that after the cumshot in the condom, another man enters the scene, dressed in protective clothing, something like this: ...and removes the cum filled condom from the male performer and while doing that, he gives a lecture to the audience (the viewers) about safe sex for ten minutes. Every porn video ending with condom cumshot is ordered to have that 'warning scene'. Next, M & F performers have to be dressed in latex from head to toe (no openings allowed). Lesbian scenes have to be shoot with girls wearing female condoms and the next level would be wearing latex, as said above. Next (ordered by the law) can be that only faces of the actors are shown and they just simulate sex (the genitals are never shown).
Of course, it is your decision what you'll do and how long you'll stay in porn. Have you considered being a fetish/erotic model after porn? So, no sex involved - just you being sexy in front of the camera. So we can see you in latex, rubber, swimsuits... Showing your pretty feet and wearing pantyhose over your face, maybe some food play (bananas...), dancing (with close-up on your feet)etc.
Since we are on the subject i find this post to a "fan boy" extremely abusive. I agree with both lecher and piston honda that the rules must be enforced for both parties - the "fan boys" as well as the performer the posters who are not trolls and just enjoy porn do not deserve to be treated like this esp as we pay good money to keep this industry and its performers going.respect has to be a two way street.
What we are talking about? Things are very simple. Porn industry cannot survive without the money. We are consumers and we are paying this money! Do you know anyone, who is not buying videos because there are not condoms? I do not know anyone. How many people you know, who is not buying videos because of condoms? 99% of my friends, who are real porn fans. This is an answer! Sex with condoms is not porn. Condoms will lead American porn industry to bankruptcy! Everybody has rights to use condoms. No questions! The only question is about the choice. If someone is afraid to fuck without condoms, what he or she is doing in porn industry? Porn always will be risky occupation. Edited by - riograndeler on 8/28/2013 11:46:47 AM
And what study or factual backing do you have for this? Absolutely NONE. Where are your stats? Have you and your porn following/buying fans performed a study? If so please do post it. I would love to see it and be put in my place and proven I am wrong.
Why I need to lie? OK! Nobody will show you the study. But you can read this and other forums. How much posts you will find, where member says - I will not buy this video because there are not condom use? How much posts you can find with other opinion? You know. This is a time of internet. One of my friends said very serious thing. Only pirates do not care what they are downloading from the internet. Loading and deleting. For those fans, who pay their money, it is important, what products they buy. If industry want to increase the number of pirates, they can accept condoms in porn. No problem. Downloading and deleting! Just they need to know. Real porn fans are supporting industry with their own money. It is very easy to say - I have no problems with condoms ... but not to buy videos. This is most important. OK. Suppose that american industry will go condom-only. What I will do? This is a wrong opinion that fans will not have a choice if condoms becomes mandatory. We have our old collections. We can buy porn at Europa, Brazil, Japan. I am ready to buy porn even at Africa if this stuff will be condom-free. Look at this.
Youngsexparties Sellyourgf Firstanaldate Those are only few. The Russians are coming. You are very intelligent girl. This industry really has no choice. The only choice is to accept some risk. Porn is not work for everybody. It is true. But... I wrote already before. I can repeat it for you again. Porn star Jessica Darlin after HIV scare in 1998 (15 years ago): "I don't like condoms. I never have. I admit I will not use a condom until they become absolutely mandatory, and even then I would probably just quit. I love bareback sex, and I got into the business knowing the risk. I have always been willing to take the good with the bad. I got into this business because until lately there record regarding HIV was close to perfect. I believe that the fans are smarter than the industry gives them credit for being. The fans know that unprotected sex is a death sentence in today's society. We aren't immortal. We are fantasy. If we weren't providing fantasy a lot more cases of rape and AIDS would pop up due to sexual frustration. Sex can be fun, but sex can be dangerous. A lot of things are both of those things. If we stopped doing everything that was dangerous our lives wouldn't be worth living."
On a more positive note. I have decided to join in on the AIDS WALK LOS ANGELS this Oct. I have a webpage set up for donations to sponsor my walk. Its quite simple: click link, add donation amount, and submit. Any and all donations make a huge difference. If you would like to donate to my page for my walk please do. I have posted my link on twitter and now on here. On twitter I mentioned donations $50 and above will receive either a 15 min skype show or personal homemade video from yours truly. Here is the link: http://www.kintera.org/i.asp?id=1065403-390722697 It is in my real name so family/friends/their friends and co-work or whomever can donate and not feel weird. I have always been involved in charity work from a very early age. This is just a very relevant cause I want to participate in right now given the situation in the industry. So please donate it does go to a noble and worthy cause.
Fair enough. I clearly misunderstood you. I apologize for jumping down your throat when you weren't trying to be offensive. It's just that what you posted came off very differently than how you intended it.
Plans for Labour Day? Well, I would like to watch a video where you are doing gymnastic exercises, stretching, work out - dressed in leotard and gym slippers: Of course, there would be a nice close-up on your pretty little feet. Also, you could do some dancing... It doesn't even have to be a nude or a sex scene, just erotic and I would enjoy it. And that would make my Labour Day great & memorable. Edited by - real01 on 8/29/2013 11:36:15 AM
This is incredibly silly and inaccurate. I wont even give the time or energy to explain why.
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Oh, yes, it was written in ironical style and more as a mockery then a serious text. I was just joking & predicting (and you never know what can happen in next 50 or 100 years)... What if one day the cum is not allowed to be shown in porn? Edited by - real01 on 8/29/2013 1:11:00 PM
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Posted - Aug 29 2013 : 2:40PM
You know where you don't have this condom issue? Lesbian porn, do more of that please.
I completely agree with you. Now, maybe we're both wrong ;) But to be fair, it wasn't just Mackenzee's fault. We have fans here who are the definition of fanboys. They suck up to Mackenzee and turn the other cheek when she comes across as arrogant and condescending. When you let someone believe they're somehow superior to you and that they're doing you a favor just by talking to you, it's logical that we get a truckload of insults in return. I used to defend Mackenzee like crazy on other websites because I know how hard life can be for pornstars in general. People generaly are contemptuous when it comes to pornstars. They disrespect them, look down at them and think they are just insecure "whores" with no skills and are just polluting our society. We, fans, are defending our favorite pornstars against these people because we love them and we're not supporting just to "beat our meat" to them. It's not the first time that Mackenzee does it. She has done it multiple times and no matter how you spin it, no matter how you look at it, it's an insult. Let's not sugar coat or pretend she meant something else. I apologize if Im being too honest but that's how I feel and thought of her post and I think you were right, sir.
Oh you just know everything dont you? If you dont agree or like what I have to say leave the damn thread. Like yesterday. Dont let the door hit ya where the Lord split ya... "i live life with no regrets"
This threads been nuts with all these people who do t usually show up in this thread getting their 0.02 in. Damn. Personally if you decide to really be done, which would be understandable, or only do solo work here and there I've already sad what I would like to see in an earlier post. ----Dread----
And you could do something to help. I would like to see a compilation (CUMpilation, that is) of cumshots & facials with Miss Mackenzee in the main role. So, you go thru your filmography (or you give someone that task) and you choose - I don't know - 50 (or 100) 'ending scenes' (facials) and put it on one DVD. You add a bonus scene (new material never before seen) where you put pantyhose on your face and 10 guys cum on you. It could be called: Cum & me: Fierce Pierce. (fierce in sense: furiously active or determined) For every porn star in free porn there is a 'cumshot compilation' video - and it would be nice to see your official release of that material.
I will attempt to get this thread back on track. I am doing well. Thank you very much for asking. I am going to be doing a lot of outdoor activities this weekend. I will be mountain biking with some friends on Saturday. What are you doing for enjoyment over the upcoming holiday weekend Mackenzie?
Hey Mac... How much of a role do agents/agencies play in a the average pornstars career? Do most agencies offer advice to their girls one what type of movies/scenes/sex acts they should do? If a girl isn't getting booked that often or as often as they think she should do they offer advice like a makeover or to do certain sex acts? When there's a health scare happening in porn do they reach out to thier girls and make them aware or suggest they stop shooting for awhile?
I know I've not posted in a while but going through the last few pages, this forum has gone nuts haha! It's both refreshing and surprising that you even respond to some of the posts! Can't tell you whether or not to stay in the business but if you decide not to, it would be a big loss for the whole industry. I know I've not enjoyed the work of any others as much as I do yours so fingers crossed you'll stick around :) Loving your latest scenes btw, the curvy tanned look you have going at the moment is really working, you look great! It's probably been asked before, but would you be interested in working with Kink again? And if so is there any way that you know of where fans can get their voice heard to get their favourites in a new scene? Thanks in advance for the reply :)
This is dedicated to my favourite porn actress... Some thing Something in the way she jerks – Attracts me like no other pornstar. Something in the way she sluuurpsss... I cannot stop watching now - You know I don’t know even how... Somewhere in her smile is cum And she says: It’s yuuuummmm! Somewhere in her pose pu*sy shows... I cannot stop watching now - You know I don’t know even how... She’s looking at me while my di*k grows Wou wooo, wou wooo... Something sticky comes out after she blows And it shooows, yes it sho-o-o-ws! Something in her body and in the looks too - And all I have to do is jerk it to... Something between her legs she shows, too... I cannot stop watching now - You know I don’t know even how... Cum, cum, cum cum cum cuuuumnmmmm!
(You should recognize the song 'Something' /even if you are not a fan of the Beatles./) I hope you like it, Miss M! Edited by - real01 on 9/1/2013 4:32:08 AM
I've watched some Bangbros scenes that had condoms so its not a problem in my viewing habits. Hopefully companies don't give you shit for condom only like us fans have heard happens. ----Dread---- Edited by - dreadsynapse on 9/4/2013 8:34:37 PM
I've watched some Bangbros scenes that had condoms so its not a problem in my viewing habits. Hopefully companies don't give you shit for condom only like us Dana's have heard happens. ----Dread----
It's going to take both the companies and performers coming together to make the condom policy work. If they don't the porn biz is going to suffer for it. in the past when the porn biz had health scares it didn't have major impact because they were spaced years apart. Lately it's just been one after the other and it's chasing away the talent.