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| lexy New Member 3 Posts 9/09 |  Posted - Sep 5 2009 : 8:35AMHi all, I'm new here & found this site totally by accident. After looking through the forums I have really learnt/understood so much. Now I'm just looking for a bit of general advice/comments really. I' m female & have a really great sex life with my hb but have always had an issue with him looking at porn. I' m not sure why but it makes me feel insecure although he has always been open & honest with me about everything. I'm generally open minded about stuff so it upsets me that in this one area I am unable to let go. As I said we have a great sex life & I will try anything he wants & same with him. He is into anal, particularly receiving & its something I brought into the relationship. I suppose what I'm asking here is how do I get over this as I don't want to feel insecure about it. I would be interested in all of your advice/comments both male & female professionals or other. Thanks Lexy x [Link] |
| ma meeshka Iconoclastic Member 3939 Posts 4/06 | Posted - Sep 5 2009 : 9:32PM talk, talk, and talk some more. [Link] |
| fotomatt Member 78 Posts 8/08 | Posted - Sep 9 2009 : 6:01PM But I do like to watch porn. She also disapproves. She thinks it's degrading to women. Now one thing you have to remember is that guys are visually stimulated, and girls are mentally stimulated. My wife can be good in the sack, but if it were up to her sex would mostly be vanilla, and I want it to be more like a banana split with a cherry on top. What I mean is that I want sex that is wild and uninhibited - raw and dirty - multiple positions - and last a long time. But what I get is mostly very basic. So the reason I watch porn is because I want to see what I'm not getting - that is, the girls in the movies do all kinds of sex acts that I only dream of. I'm not talking about anything outrageous, but what I wouldn't give for my wife to ride me reverse cowgirl, then jump off and suck my cock, then plant her pussy on my face, then jump off and rub her clit, begging me to fuck her some more... Ok, I'm getting carried away. But for me, I primarily watch porn to get what I'm not getting in the sack. My best advice is try to be open with him about it, ask him to pick his favorite flick to watch together, and see if you can get a feel for what he's getting out of it. You could ask him what he gets out of it, but he may not feel comfortable telling you. Good luck. [Link] |
| ppchaser Member 30 Posts 9/09 | Posted - Sep 10 2009 : 2:32AM [Link] |
| RandomPrecision Senior Member Enjoy! 8175 Posts 3/06 | Posted - Sep 10 2009 : 8:54PM [Link] |
| poloprinz Member We didn't bring a compass 'cause we ain't got nowhere to go 173 Posts 4/09 | Posted - Sep 16 2009 : 4:57PM If you are not clear about your own issues, they will probably not be touched in a conversation. [Link] |
| lexy New Member 3 Posts 9/09 | Posted - Sep 29 2009 : 4:32AM [Link] |
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