Wow i thought i am the only freak anal loving freak here.. i use to watch porn alot, yet i miss alot of the stuff, so i just restricted myself to some fetish that drives me crazy and that is anal. vaginal porn doesn't do anything for me, that's why i haven't seen any scene from most of the top performers who don't do anal e.g riley reid yup that's true, if i have to masturbate then it definitely would be an anal scene. But yet there are some anal scenes which are much sensual and has no rough intensity then cut them off too...
The problem with beautiful women is that in real life, most of them are stuck-up. They reject most guys who approach them and try to make friends with them. This is something virtually every guy knows from his own experience. The more attractive the lady is, the harder it is for an average guy to make friends with her. Because she has so many guys to choose from that she usually chooses only the richest and the best-looking, rather than the average. The average guy has almost no chance with her. And this sad fact of life makes it hard for an average guy to fantasize sexually about beautiful women, including porn women. Because your fantasy doesn't work, if you can't imagine any circumstances where the beautiful woman would go for an average guy like you. You need some indication that the beautiful woman is such a dirty down-to-earth slut that she won't reject an average guy like you, the way most beautiful women would reject. And the lady's willingness to have anal sex with guys is exactly this indication. Because anal sex is extra dirty and extra slutty, compared to pussy sex. The more sexy and attractive the lady is, the more anal sex she needs to have with guys to make herself look like she is willing and available for every guy who might be watching her. Because it's hard for a guy to fantasize about a good-looking woman who he thinks might reject him. There is too much anxiety in such a fantasy to enjoy it well.
^ I don't like women who look too unattainable. Even in porn. Rather have an average girl with biggish tits (though still not a deal breaker if she hasn't) than a more modestly endowed facial stunner.
But don't underrate confidence. It's very, very cliche. But it's so true. Women detest insecurity in a man. No matter what they say about liking 'shy guys' or 'sensitive guys'. If you appear weak to a woman, no matter what She says, then you have no chance with her. You'll be friend-zone. Never ever exhibit weakness, insecurity, vulnerability etc to a woman. You can do that to your male friends or family members. Don't even do it to female family members. Remember you can be a 'Geek' or a Non-Macho male. But this does not equate to being week. My point is just never ever allow any female you're interested in sense that your insecure. It's a MAJOR turn off. Think of the reverse. Are you attracted to a Macho female? Or are you attracted to feminine woman? If you were a woman would you be attracted to an insecure male? Is that sexy to you? Never show weakness to any female. Ever.
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rtj2v0a Self-removed
Sports is to war as pornography is to sex. ― Jonathan Haidt 222 Posts 10/13
Posted - Mar 12 2014 : 4:40PM
Same here. I pass on the anal scenes; they do nothing for me.
I'd say that a lot of women also detest confidence that isn't based on reality, such as when an average guy acts as if he is the richest and the best-looking guy in the room. Acting confidently is the same as acting dominantly. It forces the other person to choose between either fighting with you for social dominance or acting submissively. It might work for a while with some women who don't want to fight with you. But there is no way either you or she can be happy in such a relationship. Because true love and friendship is between equals and not between the one who seeks to dominate and the one who is forced to submit. This kind of thing is also true for beautiful women, who act confidently because of their looks. They behave in a socially dominant way with guys, whom they reject and look down upon. There is no way a guy can be happy with a woman like this, even if he manages to have a relationship with her. Because her confident acting makes you feel less than equal with her. True love and friendship is between equals who respect each other and don't fight for dominance with each other. Because that's the kind of a relationship where both of you can relax and enjoy and be yourselves without any worries. Perhaps this is why many porn fans want to know if the beautiful porn star spreads her ass for guys or not, before they decide whether to become her fan or not. Beautiful women have pussy power. They often act so confidently with guys that they make many guys unhappy with them. But when the beautiful lady takes a guy in her ass for a ride, then there is no way she can dominate him with her ass. It shows her willingness to treat the guy as an equal and even submit to him. Which is what guys need to see to approach and be friends with a beautiful woman, who has a lot of pussy power over men. A woman, who has a lot of pussy power, scares off many guys. But if she chooses not to use her pussy power and spreads her ass for guys instead, then go for her ass the guys really do. Edited by - Dan on 3/13/2014 6:56:05 AM
I get all the stuff about 'acting confident' but I'm just not a braggart; never have been, never will be. That just isn't my personality. Frankly, I don't understand why women go for men like that. So I'll never be with a beauty queen, so what? (shrugs) There's always porn.
I don't trust men who don't like big tits. 1067 Posts 12/04
Posted - Mar 13 2014 : 4:52PM
Anal is an almost requirement for me. When I look at box/dvd covers I look for two things if the title doesn't give an indication of what to expect... 1.Big tits 2. Chicks taking it in the ass. if both? OMG I'm in heaven. If no anal and the girl is hot I can deal, it's no deal breaker. Just a lil disappointed and thinking "Man if she only did anal". I will say this though if a chick does a lot of anal it's sometimes hard for me(hehehe)to watch her vag only scenes. It's like I'm being cheated out of something. Say I'm watching a Sandra Romain scene and it's going on and on and with no anal I'm like "Where is the anal?" I get a lil bored/disappointed.
I'm like you I am VERY CRAZY for anal. I have done a membership with LP so I can see all days anal/DP scenes. Would be AMAZING if all the scenes were anal. I watch ALL, but hell.. the anal scenes have the priority!!
Anal Aficionado - All Things Anal - Anal Sex Lover 987 Posts 7/08
Posted - Jun 16 2014 : 7:01PM
^ So true. Anal Aficionado - All Things Anal - Anal Sex Lover
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dr_anal Deactivated User
Up the ass only 121 Posts 7/12
Posted - Jun 16 2014 : 8:27PM
As my username suggests, I am an anal sex/porn admirer. I understand that not every actress who has done anal previously has to have an output of 100% anal, they will have fans, who rightly so, have their own taste and that should be accounted for, absolutely. Whether that be vaginal sex, GG or whatever else. For me, to account for my personal taste, I only watch anal sex scenes. Unless their is an incredibly hot "teaser" to a non-anal scene!
How about "No Anal No Girlfriend". I think porn has raised the sexual expectations for females (which is a good thing for society). If she doesn't do anal whenever I want and is not also sexually submissive in other ways then she has to go... Who else here agrees?
Edited by - Cloudburst on 6/17/2014 3:26:56 AM
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JB_X Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 17 2014 : 4:27AM
^ Nobody with a conscience or even a semblance of respect for women.
No I hate anal in porn. I know some women can enjoy it, but most don't and them moaning like it's hitting their vaginal regions just looks too stupid and fake to me. And even if they really do enjoy it, I still don't like anal. But I agree with the condoms thing. Can't watch if there's one.
^ Pain, or discomfort, or even lack of pleasure for the woman is a legitimate reason for being turned off. But any kind of sex can be unpleasant for the woman, when it's poorly done. It makes no sense to discard a sex-act completely, just because some actors don't do it well. Because you can find poorly done oral sex, poorly done vaginal sex, and poorly done any kind of sex in porn movies. You might as well stop watching porn completely, if a few bad examples are enough to turn you off so much that you don't even want to watch the good examples either.
^ I said, even if they do really enjoy it, I still don't like it. Leya Falcon seems to actually enjoy anal from her posts, but I still don't find the sight of it appealing. To me, it's like the site of seeing a guy fuck a girl between the toes. Just doesn't have any sexual appeal to me.
^ The appeal of anal is that it debauches the lady a lot more than vaginal, oral, or any other kind of sex. If you want to see the pretty lady get truly and fully debauched, then anal lust is a must. But if your purpose for watching porn is something other than a desire to see the pretty lady get truly and fully debauched, then anal porn isn't for you.
^ "No anal, no watch" means that you want to see anal for the lady every time. Which makes this thread interesting for anal porn fans. Because anal porn is still something you need to search for. It's not as common as pussy sex. But porn is so saturated with pussy sex that you can find it in virtually any movie, including anal movie. Which makes it an un-interesting topic to discuss. Pussy porn is so common that it isn't special, the way anal porn is.
Anal Aficionado - All Things Anal - Anal Sex Lover 987 Posts 7/08
Posted - Jun 21 2014 : 9:34PM
It's great to hear a woman say that. I wish all women felt that way. Anal Aficionado - All Things Anal - Anal Sex Lover Edited by - My Dog Ziggy on 6/21/2014 9:35:38 PM
^ I've had more than one girlfriend, noticing that I liked doing everything to her ass, come at me saying "I bet you want to stick your dick up there, too..." Heh, not *she* wanted me too, but rather me. OK, whatever greases the rails. I never understood what the big deal was; I've freely admitted much worse.
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Corran7 Deactivated User
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Posted - Jul 1 2014 : 10:15PM
It's the opposite with me. Anal means no watch. I understand that guys are into it but I wish some of the companies would shoot more vag only scenes for guys like me.
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Bob Cobb Deactivated User
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Posted - Jul 1 2014 : 10:55PM
^ +1 I'm the guy who seeks out Taylor Rain, Trina Michaels, and Lauren Phoenix scenes where they DON'T do anal. Obviously, those are very short lists. :) Anal with a partner is cool as is ass play (rimming, finger) but seeing it in a movie is a whole other story. I can't for the life of me understand the obsession with gaping assholes and anal, in general. To each his own, I guess.
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Cloudburst Deactivated User
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Posted - Jul 2 2014 : 11:48AM
I'm confused... so did they let you fuck them in the ass??
It's not hard to understand - it's because it's nasty and dirty. Pussies are where babies come from - hence the expression 'doing her up the wrong 'un'. It never ceases to amaze me how many people on here just want to watch boring, vanilla, couples-oriented stuff. But, like you said, to each his own.
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Cloudburst Deactivated User
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Posted - Jul 2 2014 : 4:32PM
I also think it's the taboo aspect of anal sex. Vagina/penis is how human beings normally have sex, the other way is not the norm, therefore that's why so many guys like anal so much in porn and in real life.
Oh, sorry... my point was that she wanted to try it all along; She just needed for me to believe that she was just doing it for me even when, from the way she phrased it, it was obvious that she wanted to try it too. She who does *not* want to be ass fucked does not even ever bring the subject up, or only to say "You can go ahead and exhale, because it's never going to happen..." I just play along and act super-grateful, which I was anyway :)
No Anal No Watch are my words. If there's not HARD ANAL, I have an instant-pass. I prefer ANAL GAPING, however. It's so fantastic. Really never boring. Vag and lesbian soft porn have missed my interest.
This resonates with me too. I don't mind vaginal sex but when you see a gal with a nice ass over and over again, before long you really wish she'd take it in the buns. And when she doesn't, I get bored with her.
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Gapelover24x7 Deactivated User
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Posted - Jul 24 2015 : 12:30PM
If then.. one ANAL scene is without fucking pussy is again better. 30 minutes of only intense ANAL TREATMENT is my kind. God saves ANAL GAPING!!
Is there a porn term for constantly moving the goalposts? I thought of sensation creep or boundary creep, but creep implies something else in porn. I think we are near the absolute limits of what can be shot in porn. When there is nothing more that can be done with consenting adults, the viewers who need more goalpost moving could feel like addicts in withdrawal.
I'm not an actor, but I play one on TV 911 Posts 4/06
Posted - Jul 25 2015 : 9:48AM
^^ Definitely not at the limits yet. Things may periodically stagnate but the moves are generational. When it comes to sex, everyone always wants to one-up their parent's generation. But what simply never happened will become fringe. What was fringe will become uncommon, what was uncommon will become kinky, what was kinky will become mainstream and what was mainstream will become passé. But there are still tons of boundaries that haven't been crossed yet. Give it time.
^ And then things come around again. If you look at porn history (all of it, not just going back to the 1970s), you will discover there isn't a simple linear path getting more and more extreme. It's more like a cycle.