Hi all.I am pretty much ur normal average guy when it comes to sex and fantasies and such.Lately,I have been fantasizing about femdom sex and scenarios.Nothing extreme,just sexually aggressive girl(s) taking charge over me.No dildos or strap-ons coz I don't like toys when yu can use your hands and body ;).Maybe some handcuffs,trash talk and (occasionally) a slap.Now here's the problem : I don't mind the fantasies or doing such things but it has become the only thing that can get me going now.I'm serious,Nothing turns me on and I mean NOTHING except being dominated.I wanna be able to have variety : I dominate,she dominate,we both fuck each others brains out,make sweet love..etc.It's been almost a year and all that I can fantasize about or react to or desire is being dominated,anything else does nothing to me.I basically can't have sex with a girl unless she likes to take charge no matter how scorching hot she is and I don't want that nor do I want to limit myself to this type of fetish or whatever.Is this some sort of a phase? It's a really long phase and its ruining my sex life coz it takes out many options and even in a steady relationship she will eventually get bored.Has this occurred to any of you before? Is there sth I can do? Hope you guys take me seriously and thx.