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songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Feb 16 2010 : 1:04PM
Couldn't decide if this should go in 'The Porn Pool' or 'Sex Talk' so apologies if I chose incorrectly.
My better looking half has said she open to watching some blowjob related porn. Even a big a gagging. Sooooo, sounds good to me!
I just wanted to ask if anyone had any recommendations of oral movies to watch as a couple. I've got 'Gag on This 30' and was thinking about one of the Face Fucking Inc. movies.... but don't want to scare her!
Also, what is that position called in which the girl lies on her front, holds her heels with her hands and sucks away? I've seen it somewhere. Any movie titles with it in?
Thanks very much, folks!
seedfeeder
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Posted - Feb 16 2010 : 1:10PM
Gag Factor, make sure it's one of the ones where they swallow. I'd also recommend Feeding Frenzy series.
songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Feb 16 2010 : 1:23PM
Thanks very much!
Ohh, I've just checked out Gag Factor. Hmm, maybe. Although, I might end up sleeping on the sofa!
songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 3:29PM
Any others ideas, guys? I think I just purchase something a little less hardcore... just in case!
Oh, but I'd love something with that position I mention. I've tried to google, but no luck. It MUST have a name!
Thanks everyone!
charn
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 6:00PM
anything with Rebeca Linares. i like her technique.
 
Smut Without Subtext
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 7:30PM
Good luck with your relationship! I have a recommendation! For me, the best best all-blowjob movies come from Jonni Darkko, particularly the first two Sloppy Head flicks (as of now there are only two in this series) or maybe even some of his Suck It Dry movies (I like part 6 best, though I'm not sure I recall much gagging in that since it's not something I usually look for, sorry). Darkko, as far as I'm concerned, is a modern master of sensually presenting the blowjob as an art performed by the oral masters in the industry. It's worth watching as a couple just to marvel at the athletic prowess of the performers, I say.
I have more recommendations! I have them! As for sharing some specifically gagging-style blowjobs with her, I'll overstep my boundaries as complete stranger on the internet to suggest talking about this with your woman rather than submitting her to such specialized porn. Outside of those Darkko movies that I've already named (and even including them without a word of warning to one's wife), it's not easy to "ease" a person into the gagging act through the subtle suggestion of putting in some porn and saying "Hey, isn't this great?" if the other person's not already interested. Imagine someone's into something you're uninterested in and they sit you down and have you watch some documentary on it. It'd be uninteresting and no good without some prior discussion, I think. Like, if you're into fishing and you have her watch a fishing show and you say "Wow, look at that trout! Now, that's a large trout!" What does she care about the trout? So, that's something to keep in mind, only you should imagine that I presented a far more intelligent way to phrase my point. Anyway, I don't suppose you really need some some faceless voice telling you through the internet how to talk with her in the first place.
But seriously, since gagging can potentially seem degrading or weird, or something, to some women (I don't know your wife well enough to say how it is with her), I'd think you'd have to be pretty tactful in presenting it to her. Like, maybe by showing her Annette Schwarz's blowjobs in some of her tamer stuff, like in "Diaries of a Nanny" (featured in the DVD Naughty America 4 Her 4, I think) in which she chokes down a dick and balls, all the way down to the choad. It's sure to impress anyone, man or woman. That she does it without choking is enough to help a viewer appreciate the efforts of women choking in other scenes; they seem to be trying to emulate the feats performed by Annette Schwarz, I think. (But, as a completely unrelated and tangental sidenote: because Annette Schwarz inhales dick without gagging or choking at all, it makes me re-evaluate the whole scene in the first place. If you want to see a girl gag, well, what if she has overcome her gag reflex? Is that still hot then? For someone with a gagging fetish, would the most skillful deepthroat artist have any appeal? Should she be limited in her talents? At which point is swallowing a man's body whole cease being hot, until she swallows up his entire body, and digests him? Or is that hot?)
By the way, this was my first post on this site. Hi, everybody. I'm me.
In conclusion: Sloppy Head 1 & 2?
Those are good?
Edited by - Smut Without Subtext on 2/17/2010 7:33:45 PM
Edited by - Smut Without Subtext on 2/17/2010 7:38:09 PM
LubeNLuv
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 7:54PM
Seconding the Darko stuff....it has some gagging without puking and running mascara or face fucks that may make your softer half cringe. You likely need to work up to that if she's just now agreeing to watch "light" gagging.
You may also want to take a look at the Throated series, either via the website or one of their videos. Very light gagging/throat fucking, nothing harsh, the woman is in control the whole time.
songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 8:02PM
Thanks guys
Gentlemen, surely that post gets the 'Best First Post' Award by Smut!
Thanks for the recommendations and also the kind words! And, on the other subject, she suggested the whole gagging thing to me (which surprised me!). I asked her to tell me something that turns her on that I don't really know about. She said it is when I playfully (cos that's as far as we've got so far!), put her in that position (the one I haven't got a name for!) and stick my penis in her mouth (a teeny, weeny bit rougher than normal). So, she said she'd like to get into it a bit more. Try a bit rougher. And she wants to see if she can do what she sees on a film. She's ordered me to get her strong wine for the evening!
Sounds like fun!
(Although, I'm gonna end up screwing it up by showing her scenes like the one I just saw - Sasha Grey in Face Fucking Inc. Whoa, that was rough. Maybe I'll leave that one for a few weeks...!)
songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 8:03PM
Thanks LubeNLuv. Yeah, maybe I should start with something that kind of level (as Throated). Off to check out the website!
Smut Without Subtext
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 8:18PM
Holy Bones! Righteous, dude!
Holy Bones, fella, wow! You've got your own porn scene all set up for you. To hell with me and this discussion. I see I was wrong in suggesting to talk with her any more regarding my the concerns in my initial posts (since you've already had such discussion), which relegates my greatest first post here as useless.
Maybe it won't screw it up? She seems interested. I stand by my previous posts with its previous points. Ya might also wanna try to help her discover tips as to how to physically handle gagging herself. Go you.
LubeNLuv
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 8:20PM
My wife and I actively participate in BDSM. It hasn't always been this way, it took years (over a decade really) before we first tried anything beyond simply tying her up and ravishing her. But looking back over the early years of our relationship, I can easily pinpoint the tell-tale signs that she was sexually submissive. She's always gotten off on "taken" fantasy/role-play. She would get dripping wet if I'd talk dirty to her and "order" her around. The big tell-tale was when I first tried to force her to deepthroat me and she orgasmed without me touching her pussy at all. Call me dense but I just never made the connection (I wasn't always an attentive husband...I freely admit that) that she really REALLY enjoyed rough sex. Since discovering this and learning to unlock it...well, even approaching 44 all I can say is there is no such thing as "boring, routine sex" in our relationship. I mean that sincerely.
All I'm saying is you are doing well to pay attention to your wife's intimate desires. Do all you can to communicate with her, don't be afraid to experiment and LISTEN to not just her words but her body signals to what arouses her. You could be in for a wonderful sexual awakening that only a deep bond of trust and intimacy can unleash. Good luck and keep us posted!
Edited by - lubenluv on 2/17/2010 8:21:56 PM
songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Feb 17 2010 : 8:39PM
Thanks for the words of advice, guys!
i think i might put it on. But warn her to brace herself!
Yeh, she's great. Been with her for 5 years now.
which leads me onto....
Funny you should day that, because, it just the last 6 months or so, I've been teasing her about being 'secretly' very submissive.
Just little things here and there have given me the impression.
songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Feb 28 2010 : 1:26PM
Hey all,
Just wanted to say a big thanks to you all for your help. It all went well and was super fun.
She was a bit grossed out at some of the stuff on the porn at first, but she got over it. And she gave it a good go. She was annoyed with herself for not being able to get as far as some of the porn stars. Haha, it was fine. I had a great time. And there was a little bit of saliva and bloodshot eyes, so I thought she did really well, bless her.
We watched a few 'Throated' scenes, a 'Cum Glazed' scene (which I think we found more funny than sexy) and 'Private's Best of Extreme Blowjobs' (or something like that). We both enjoyed the latter because it had lots of different positions that were fun to try.
She was disappointed that the porn didn't have a 'story' So, that's my next task - find hardcore porn with a story. Even a cheesy one, she said she'd enjoy. Can't be hard to find that, I assume??
Thank you, again.
Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Feb 28 2010 : 2:05PM
^ You know, I haven't seen it, but I wonder if Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Advanced Fellatio might be something y'all will enjoy. From the description, it sounds like it might work - no story, but much more of an interactive and playful format. I really like the "guide" format, because you really get to know the people involved - it's more intimate and fun as a result.
charn
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Posted - Feb 28 2010 : 3:49PM
with story: any of the sweet sinner movies, but they're more fucking than oral. (sweet sinner is the studio, not a series title.)
mason, aka sam no, has directed some great oral scenes at elegant angel.
 
LubeNLuv
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Posted - Feb 28 2010 : 4:21PM
Tsk, tsk. You are addressing both of them. Therefore, the proper form here would be plural of y'all, which is of course "all y'all" ;-)
Edited by - lubenluv on 2/28/2010 4:22:16 PM
Gore Gore Girl All-Star Supporter
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Posted - Feb 28 2010 : 4:23PM
^ Hmm... Wouldn't it be grammatically correct to say "you all" to refer to the two of them? I dunno.
songsforpolarbears
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Posted - Mar 6 2010 : 1:13PM
Thanks for the suggestions, folks.
yeh, that 'Tristan Taormino's Expert Guide to Advanced Fellatio' might be fun.
Found that Brazzers is doing the sort of thing I'm looking for: hardcore (and very hardcore, if you want), with pornstars I know and with cheesy storylines.
It's gonna be fun...! (And the planning isn't any hardship either!) haha.
echoplex
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Posted - May 7 2010 : 12:43PM
Mmmm... desensitizing your SO to the degrading standard of modern "deep throat" porn. Classic. Train her well.
As I understand it, you're supposed to gag her while you're watching the gagging film yourself. At least, that's what I've read on the Internet.
You should try the hogtied or "heel grabbing" position, that's always a nice one. Sorry to say, most standard gagging flicks out there aren't exactly respectful towards women, then again, they're not supposed to be. I'm sure your SO will get over that soon enough, though. Good luck.



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