I'm just curious...other than some actresses in the industry who have invariably said, "My parents (mother, father)are aware of what I do and they are OK with it." or some variation of that, I have never seen anything where a parent of a pornstar was actually interviewed and commented on their daughter's choice of career. Even better would be if one of them had actually viewed one or more of her films. I've run a search on all of the forums on this one without success.
Obviously you don't listen to Howard Stern. He has had at least 3 porn starlets on there who have brought their parents or guardians and in one case has had him participate in whatever perverse thing that the porns tar has going on. Mary Cary has brought her mother in twice, but Mary claims that she is mentally retarded. Also is was a porn star who brought her step dad in who also happens to be her manager and he gave her a bikini wax on camera. He also claims that he oils her up for her various sex scenes. Sal and Richard go to the AVN awards and goof on many of the porn stars both male and female. One of the porn stars had both her mother and father there to support her, she also was on the show at some point. Sorry, I'm not so good with names but I know many of the people on this forum are and also listen to Howard so maybe they know who I'm talking about. So in short, I tend to believe the porn stars when they say that they have their family's support.
There are a lot of social taboos against sexual arousal and sexual attraction between close relatives. And for this reason most people don't feel comfortable talking about or witnessing the sexual activity of their close relatives. Porn is designed to arouse and excite people's sexual feelings. And having close relatives of a porn star get aroused like that would violate strong social taboos against such arousal. That's why for the most part, close relatives of porn stars try not to be aware too much of all the hot stuff that's going on in their daughter's or son's life.
I've heard about Julia Bond telling her mother about her profession on The Jerry Springer Show. I haven't seen it and I can't find the clip on YouTube at all. I am interested in seeing that. Julia Bond is an incredible girl. Her scenes in "Big Booty White Girls 4" and "This Butt's 4 U" (with Rita Foltyano) were flawless!
When I interview a porn star I often ask about how their family feels about what they do. You can read a lot of my interviews on LukeIsBack.com and Xcitement.com. But the most common answer is "My parents know, they don't like it, but they love me and we just don't talk about it" Often a family member helps the star as her (his) assistant, but it is not usually the parent. If you watched "Family Business" with Seymore Butts, they were a pretty functional family although many of them worked in porn. Seymore was ( and is still dating porn star Mari Possa) Seymore got his Uncle Stevie (who is married and in his 60's) into the biz and now Stevie shoots his own series. Seymore's Mom often discusses the biz with the family at the dinner table. Sunny Lane is the most visible example because her mom and dad work for her, booking her appointments, taking care of her paperwork, tracking her e-mail and even attending conventions and shoots with her. But her parents were always "showbiz" parents. Before porn, Sunny was an award winning ice skater and they assisted her with that career also. There are several sets of mother/daughters who live together and both do porn scenes. The most visible right now are Desi and Ellie Foxx. They have a blog you can read telling you all about their life and work. It's HTTP://www.porninthevalley.com/ Maritza Mendez and Silvia Loret, a Mexican mother-daughter porn team look a lot alike, but I have never seen one of their movies. http://www.spankwire.com/Mother-Daughter-Team-Charlee-and-Kylee/video99797/- Here is a blowjob scene where mom and daughter share one dick at the same time. To make a long story really short-Jewel De'Nyle's Mom and Dad came to work for her at her porn company. Eventually her Mom, De'bella started doing her own scenes. Dad was the PR guy. Then Mom and Dad split. Mom was doing scenes and Dad, Larry Schwartz, was doing the PR for Red LIght District. Then the rumors of incest came out ( things that happened in the past, not recently) and Dad has disappeared off the scene. So I guess there are some parents that are MORE than just accepting of it, but actually embrace their kid's career choice and sometimes enter the business themselves. I know quite a few Moms that work for their daughters who are in the adult biz, but they don't make it public knowledge so I can't name names. WQJ-I could probably write a thesis paper on this subject because it really interests me too.
I'd read that thesis. :) Not to sound off topic, but... I like promiscuous, young women. It's hot. But, I also dig it when the young woman's mother (in her 40s) is also "naughty". If the mom were to show up, on set, with a glint in her eye and make sexual innuendoes, that would turn me on. A naughty woman who almost brags about her daughter's promiscuity. Ok, ok, that's a filthy fantasy. Heck, just hire actors to play the roles. It's just a fantasy.
^^^But as Billy Joel told us, "Sometimes a fantasy is all you need." I have no problem fantasizing about hot mother-daughter duos--sometimes I find myself dwelling on Blondie and Cookie Bumstead, the hottest women on the comics page. _____________________________________________________
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Welcome to the year 2009. Where some parents of mostly female porn performers think its fine for the entire world to see their daughter get fucked and sometimes degraded on film. If this is the case, why knock these so-called suit-case pimps? If mommy and daddy don't give a shit, why should some stranger. Its sick, really.
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Posted - Feb 25 2009 : 10:47AM
I met the mother of a stripper once. She was extremely proud of the fact that her 19 year old daughter made $80 grand the previous year. I guess it comes down to as long as they are getting paid, the parents don't care what they do.
I heard Tory Lane's mother is very supportive of her career.I heard they attended a few functions together.
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Posted - Feb 26 2009 : 9:01PM
I watched this clip. It's just plain wrong on so many levels. Then there was a link to a scene featuring Cinnibunnz and Jayden Simone playing mother and daughter. Are they related?
Back in the day, when porn was more romantic, Jamie Summers' mother appeared in one of the Brat movies. Not performing, but played her mother, and did a couple of "reaction" shots in the video--looking out of a window, supposedly watching Jamie having sex. The way the scene was shot, I doubt if Jamie's mother was really watching her fuck.
Wrong????? I say, it's a hot, wicked fantasy! I'm not looking at it, saying, "Ew, a mom and daughter sharing a guy." I'm watching it saying, "That guy is screwing with that girl and her mom!" Or, "That guy is screwing with that woman and her daughter!" Lucky guy!!!! Wrong? Maybe. Taboo? Hell yeah! Has any young person here had eyes for your girlfriend's mom? Has any older guy here had eyes for your girlfriend's (legal) daughter? But having them both at the same time?! That's insane!!!
I don't care much for the "acting" in these scenes. I mean... it looks "staged." I suggest a reality-style... or gonzo style... scene of mother/daughter. No real mothers and daughters required. Just use actors. But, tell them to break the fourth wall, address the camera and pretend.
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Posted - Mar 1 2009 : 10:39AM
I believe that Cinnabunz/Jayden Simone scene is from Horny Black Mothers and Daughters 2. The performers--to my knowledge--aren't really mother and daughter.
http://www.spankwire.com/Mother-Daughter-Team-Charlee-and-Kylee/video99797/- I certainly got mixed reviews about posting this supposed mother/daugher blow job scene! Very interesting! xoxo, Cindi Lukeisback.com
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Posted - Mar 25 2009 : 11:15AM
LMAO. Point of reference, I never said I didn't watch it. I just said it was wrong. Kind of like watching the asian chicks in porn that look like 12 year olds. I still watch, but I feel like I'm going to hell for watching.
Some do work together, Missy Monroe and her dad as example (not porn i hope but behind scenes) and Sunny Lane's parents are quiet extreme example too. So, some do not have problems if their offspring does porn and sometimes even almost all the family is somehow involved porno industry. Edited by - aure232 on 1/13/2011 2:55:40 AM Edited by - aure232 on 1/13/2011 2:56:54 AM
Supporting the choices your children make is part of parenting. The real disappointment here would be if the child didn't have a choice. But, there's a big difference between supporting your child's choices and crossing the line and even then documenting it on film. No pun intended, but that can become a slippery slope. Children deserve more from a parent.
I'm pretty sure that one of the major news networks spoke with Belladonna's Mom about her daughter's new career. I'm guessing ABC or NBC and that story on the porn industry would have aired about 10 years ago.
^It's one thing for parents to accept the fact that their daughter has chosen a career in porn but another to help manage it. It's very creepy and discusting to realise that her parents are scheduling their daughter for a few nice shoots and help her make her mind about doing anal, blowbangs and so forth on screen.
I watch a documentary about the adult industry called A Journey through Porn. There was a newer girl (did not look familiar) and she was interviewed along with her parents in her parents' home. They were very matter-of-fact about it. Although the dad seemed a little uncomfortable discussing it. Something about parents being too comfortable with it is disturbing.
I'll go one more and say that seeing any parent moderally Okay with their daughter doing porn slightly disturbing. It's one thing to accept the reality but another to appear to be alright with it.
I don't have any kids, but I don't think I would be comfortable with my mother (who is way too old anyway) or my sister being in porn. Hypocritical, I know, but that is just the way I feel. I do enjoy watching nubile, unrelated young (legal) women get tied up and railed up the ass by Evan Stone and Matt Williams, though.
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Posted - Jan 14 2011 : 11:51PM
I once saw a cable TV documentary on porn in which Jesse Jane was interviewed. There was footage of her talking on the telephone to her mother about her porn career, even telling her mother the details about an upcoming scene she was preparing to shoot. The mother sounded OK about the whole thing. I thought the whole thing was weird. Even if your mother knows that you're a pornstar and has decided to accept it (likely because she realizes that she has no other choice), I would imagine that she probably still wouldn't want to be reminded that her daughter earns a living by doing porn. It just seemed weird that she would call her mother up to talk to her about it. But along with being weird, it can also be funny. I remember seeing a clip where a girl calls her mother while she's being fucked in the ass. The clip is here. At that same site, there's also another clip similar to that one here. Both clips are pretty funny.
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Posted - Jan 15 2011 : 12:14AM
I believe Jenna Jameson brought her dad to the AVN awards one year (back in the day). There was a whole show on her on VH1. And the dad was interviewed and not only did he acept her daughter's career choice, but seemed rather proud of her that she was #1 in what she chose to do. Tera Patrick also writes about her realtionship (& aceptance) w/ both of her parents in her book. Audrey Bitoni's #1 Fan
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Posted - Jan 15 2011 : 12:32AM
Yeah, he was on Stern along with Jenna and I don't recall if he was involved in her career at all, but he mentioned that Jenna would bring girls home for him.
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Posted - Jan 15 2011 : 1:17AM
^If there's any benefit to your offspring deciding to do porn, I'm guessing that would be it.