You know I was at exxxotica yesterday, and its funny I actually consider myself avergae looking guy, my 2 friends below average, but truth is even in porn movies most girls will only have sex with real good looking guys!!! and truth is I guess thats how life is unless your hot, you will never have a chance with any of those porn stars, or any girl out there as good looking as they are!!! and I guess we are stuck with masterbating or having a real ugly girl, cause espcially todays world they dont want anything to do with average or below average looking guys!!! alot of porn stars were great , but alot of others look at you like ewwwww and never give you time of the day attitude
I don't think going to exxxotica to meet and introduce yourself to a pornstar is a good idea. These girls are there to promote themselves and meet their fans to increase their popularity. They get to shake hands and take pictures with hundreds if not thousands of guys and girls. I think that porn girls are like all other girls abd they don't care so much about looks as they do about attitude. I'm not saying that they aren't affected by a good looking guy. As guys we are affected by good looking girls but our girlfriends aren't necessarily what you'd call amazing looking. For the most part they are average looking but to us they are beautiful and more importantly. They care about us.
What you say is true if you are looking for a long term relationship. If you are just talking sex you can always visit a brothel. Plenty of hot looking women there.
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Posted - Jul 11 2011 : 12:59PM
I used to think just like the OP when I was around age 16,17, or 18. As you get a bit older you will see this is not at all true. Guys that are heavy and out of shape are about the only ones with a Do Not Sleep With Him list unless they have money. Who a girl sleeps with has a lot to do with what you have in common and timing. One thing I never realized until I got a bit older is virtually all these relationships you see do not last. Nearly all of them end which makes both people available and eventually looking around for a mate, a friend, or simply a fun time.
Another big thing that people have to realise is that just because we think she's hot doesn't mean that she believes it herself. Women are notoriously bad judges when it comes to the way they look. It doesn't matter how often you tell someone she is beautiful. if one person says the opposite then she has doubts. I'd be willing to bet you that a large percentage of women think they are fat? That's not true but they still believe it.
well Pat I can agree with you, Kristina rose thinks she is a dork and a nerd, and I definately disgree, in person I think she is beautiful, I guess everyone can say they saw nerdy guy with hot girl before, but how often can that happen, you would like to see it more often to give other people hope in life
Porn Stars know how fucking hot they are. That's part of the reason they're so fucking hot. And while I know Porn Stars want you to believe they are just like every other woman, they're not. They are separate from the rest of the female race. In a good way. They project outward something so mysterious and sexy that I don't feel from other women. I have met, in person, three pornstars in my life: Stacey Valentine (I worked at a radio station in NYC where she one time came in for an interview), Melissa Hill (at Borders Books in Santa Monica), and Jenteal (at Guy's, a club in Los Angeles), and all three were dressed very casual and conservative, and the people who didn't know they were Porn Stars (like some of my coworkers at the radio station and a couple of my female friends who were at Guy's for the Bad Wives DVD signing party) couldn't stop staring at them and periodically saying (women included), as if against their will, "Jesus Christ that woman is hot." There's a reason what Charlie Sheen refers to Porn Stars as Goddesses; because they do seem to reside on some kind of higher plane than the rest of women. They are the embodiment of sex, i.e., the human manifestation of something that is ineffable. God bless them all.
Insecurity and lack of self esteem are their own rewards. You think you can't pick up a girl for sex, and guess what...you are right! I was there, dudes ugly as sin were walking out the door with gals that while maybe not runway models could still suck the chrome off your bumper.
first of all, you don't want a relationship with a pornstar. Secondly, what women are attracted to is confidence. Even if you're average looking, if you have confidence she'll wonder why an average looking guy is so self assured, and she'll be eager to find out. It's also important not to treat her like she's a rare diamond. She's used to being fawned over by men and has little respect for that. Trouble is confidence is a rare commodity
Many successful male pornstars aren't very good looking at all. Also, if you've seen pictures of pornstars with their boyfriends/husbands, you'd see that those guys aren't necessarily any better looking that most guys. I don't agree with your premise.
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Posted - Jul 11 2011 : 9:05PM
Perhaps the OP should broaden their horizons as to what their conception of beauty really is. I've worked alongside/ been friends with women who ,at first, I didn't really think of as being sexually attractive but then you start to notice certain things about their faces and bodies that catches your eye and you start appreciating their sexiness and pretty soon your dick starts dripping just thinking about them (see my thread on pre-cum leakage). Beauty and hotness don't always hit you over the head right away, you have to view a woman as an individual ( with uniquely sexy attributes), not as simply an object that does or does not conform to some preconceived archetype of "hotness." Pornstars are not the yardstick by which you should be measuring "real" women, IMHO.
hey I respect alot of your opinions and thoughts, I cant see many of those pornstars though dating average or below average looking guys, I am sure they all like a 9 or 10 in looks, but maybe cause porn star women look down to us guys
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Posted - Jul 12 2011 : 6:21AM
Maybe if you met the same porn chick when she was in an LA bar tipsy her reaction would be different. At a porn convention the girls should have their professional game faces on and be very friendly and polite, but not too personal.
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Posted - Jul 12 2011 : 6:42AM
Three things: 1. Most of these women have more psychological problems than the average woman because of their upbringings so you don't want a relationship with them, as someone already mentioned. 2. Most of these women are escorts, so just meet them that way. 3. Looks don't matter to women as much as they do to men. Money/Power matter to women more. Edited by - Solar4 on 7/12/2011 6:43:01 AM
yeah mandingo and dave hardman are real handsome lol and look at the girls they banged as far as porn chicks do you see the guys they date in real life
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Posted - Jul 12 2011 : 12:39PM
Reality check folks about porn stars. The girls don't hand pick every guy they sleep with. They are looking for work. There are plenty of guys that would not appeal sexually to most stars but they perform with them. I'm a big fan of old guys on young girls and you can't tell me the girls requested the older guys. They were offered work and they accepted. The below guys range in age from late 40s to 60s. To the viewer like myself it is entertainment, to the girls it is work. Dave Cummings Dick Nasty Dirty Harry Don Hollywood Jay Crew Kyle Stone Rod Fontana
^All true but that does nothing to help the OP's insecurities. You and others in this thread have provided supporting evidence to further develop his theory. The updated version goes something like: You can get with a "hot (porn) chick" only if you are: Good-looking Rich A paying customer A porn guy
Maybe the OP and the rest of his ilk that hang around this board should understand this: Hooking up with/fucking a pornstar isn't the be all, end all to life. It's rather sad and fucking pathetic to see so many posts just like this. Many who are in his boat don't understand that the reason that they don't have sex with/find themselves around beautiful women, even in every day life, is because they are depraved losers. Fact.
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Posted - Jul 12 2011 : 2:12PM
Pretty harsh comments calling people losers. I have zero interest in hanging around or having sex with a porn star but would never insult those who do. The OP has a desire to do so, so what. I would never attend a place like exxotica either, whatever floats his boat. Porn is simply entertainment. If you are entertained by it you are a loser?
Can't see the actual point , would any of you fuck an ugly girl instead of a good looking one if you have the chance to choose? It's not what the pornstars do or any girl will do, it is a given from the beginning of times we all for first would do the same. Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 7/12/2011 2:15:49 PM
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Posted - Jul 12 2011 : 4:10PM
You must never have been around a girl with an attitude problem have you? I tell you what, I've seen many very attractive, "YOUNG", cute girls that are so stuck up, snobbish, sarcastic and downright unfriendly I would not touch them if you paid me.
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Posted - Jul 12 2011 : 5:37PM
Pretty much, unless you are prepared to put in the hard yards like for any relationship. You have to be pretty damn suave to woo a porn sstar on a convention floor. So the boy wants to fuck a porn star. Good on him I say - it is great to have goals in life.
And this what has to do with my question? I have also known ugly girls who were perfect assholes I didn't asked about their attitudes besides we're talking about porn not how to make a proposal , which means : I don't give a fuck about who you are girl, you're just cute, now shut up and ride my pole. Ah Almost forgot the likes you described seem perfect for harsh anal sex to me Edited by - Laurie Cameron Fan on 7/12/2011 6:01:07 PM
first to strangewillybilly with that kind of name thats got to make for a loser, I actually have big money, great job, house in florida and chicago, I have great friends, So you should never say anything unless you really know someone, and this is not about porn star or fucking a porn star, I am just saying it shows in life that hot girls on scenes most of the times fuck good looking guys, like jules jordan, lee stone, rocco, Julian, then it gives you in life kind of a downer cause if you seen more ugly guys fucking porn stars it gives you more hope then all models fucking models most of the time
right but its still the truth, how many times you going to talk about fantasy on here, this is REAL, porn is fantasy!!! trust me I know there are alot of other guys on this board that get frustrated and down cause they cannot get women, and Porn is all they can get, yes maybe for me its cause I am really shy, and that holds me back, but at least I am stating the truth, Most people I know talk trash satying they pound girls all the time and they just full of bullshit!!
Truth or not, it's still the same topic you've started twice. I was thinking of moving this to Sex Talk anyway, but now that I see you've already got the same thread in Sex Talk, I'll just lock this one and refer everyone to the thread linked by shalalin above.
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