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iowagonzo
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Posted - Dec 21 2011 : 11:36AM
Bobbi Starr and a few other actresses claim that the reason they do not fully shave their bushes is so that the hair traps pheromones so their partners get more aroused. In Belladonna's movie "Dirty Panties" Kimberly Kane and Lilly Lebeau scene, Kimberly has her nose buried into Lilly's ass crack and Kimberly is aroused so heavily by the smell of Lilly's ass that is made me think of creating a topic around it.
So...anyone here find themselves aroused by the smells our sexual areas produce? I am not talking about unclean smells or funky smells from bodies that haven't met a bar of soap in some time. Speaking more of pheromones or arousing smells from a pussy, armpits, ass crack, balls, cock. A smell that is natural and not produced from soaps, perfumes and colognes. It can be a post work or post workout smell. I know that sweat and increased body heat create stronger pheromones which seemed to be the premise of Belladonna's "Dirty Panties." So where are your favorite smells on your partners body?
Not a poll just a discussion.
SunShowers
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Posted - Dec 21 2011 : 7:06PM
I've always loved the way a man's neck smells. I love to bury my face in there. That also tends to be a warm area, so that's nice.
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Dec 21 2011 : 7:22PM
I cannot wear perfum. I Don't know why....something about my body chemistry I guess.
Anyway, I pretty much stick to layering lotion nd body sprays and.....pheromones.
Most of the time when you buy them they come in a roller oil type form and they are usually so lightly scented that they won't clash with other lotions or body sprays. They do make some that are unscented that you can add to perfum as well. Most of the time they run around $20-$25 bottle.
I get ATTACKED by people telling me I smell so good. I shit you not. The other week I had on a spray we sell called Skinny Dip and sold out of it that night because everyone that asked me what I was wearing bought a bottle. I had used the Skinny Dip as my fragrance but dabbed on some pheromone oil with it.
Two weeks ago I had a friend stop by the shop on his way through town. I've known him for years, we both know the other is married, he has never said anything inappropriate or made a pass at me. I hugged him goodbye and he left. He texted me about an hour later asking me what I was wearing because when I hugged him he said he wanted to bite my neck!
So yes there are natural scents we give off but you can also kick them up a notch too.
Personally, I just like the smell of a good clean man.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 12/21/2011 7:23:14 PM
SunShowers
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Posted - Dec 21 2011 : 7:23PM
Wow! I'm getting what you got, SSG!
SunShowers
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Posted - Dec 21 2011 : 7:24PM
I've noticed that when I'm menstruating guys tend be extra touchy-feely and intimate. They won't keep their hands away.
 
SunShowers
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Posted - Dec 21 2011 : 7:27PM
Do you know which brand of pheromone oil you used? And which company makes the Skinny Dip?
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Dec 22 2011 : 12:00AM
^
Skinny Dip is made by Earthly Bodyand it smells similar to a designer called Pink Sugar. It makes me think of candy without being too sickly sweet.
The pheromone I wear is called Pure Instinct. It's an oil so I just rub some on behind my ears, between my boobs..ect.
I also have a lotion that I love mde by Adam & Eve called Ginger Pheromone Massage Cream. It smells so good I want to eat it.
Edited by - sexshopgrl on 12/22/2011 12:00:42 AM
UrbanDervesh
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Posted - Jan 17 2012 : 5:48PM
I can attest to the efficacy of pheromones first hand. A friend brought me some from Italy but I never tried it. One day, on a whim, I dabbed some on. It smelled like what I imagine pig sweat to be like. :) Anyhow, I covered it with some cologne as best as I could and went for dinner.
It was a few old friends from college, including this Greek girl Eleni who was a couple of years junior to me. She and I always had this weird sexual tension but nothing ever happened... That night, Eleni was particularly touchy feely and after a few drinks said to me that it sucked that she had such strong morals and that if she didn't know my gf personally she would take me home that night. She didn't but on one other drunken night many years later we made out. But she accused me of drugging her a few days later and that kinda ended our friendship.
Coming back to pheromones, there were several other cases like this where I hooked up or made out with friends, colleagues, friends's gfs/wives, etc. Several other guy friends who have tried this blend of two pheromones have also reported similar experiences.
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UrbanDervesh
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Posted - Jan 18 2012 : 1:00AM
That's always a possibility wahine. The problem is that I don't have a proper counterfactual to prove that pheromones work. But there have been enough randomized controlled trials which use the law of large numbers and randomization to simulate a counterfactual. Add to that the biochemical research behind pheromones, and you have a pretty compelling case. My personal situation just validates what is already pretty well established.
So the question really isn't whether pheromones work or not, but where to get them and how to best use them.
Cheers
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UrbanDervesh
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Posted - Jan 18 2012 : 6:14AM
I have no doubt they do! Only mortals like us need chemical help...
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Jan 20 2012 : 9:03AM
They use pheromones in animal breeding too. For example when collecting seamen artificially from horses, bulls and hogs.
Humns aren't that different.
SunShowers
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Posted - Feb 16 2012 : 1:35PM
I've been using the Pure Instict cologne for about a week, and am not impressed. It has a decent enough scent, but it wears off immediately. I've put it on my neck, behind my ears, on my throat, my wrists, and on my cleavage. Within twenty minutes, I can barely detect ANY scent whatsoever.
I also tested it around a couple of people, and they didn't seem to pick up on me either smelling better and they certainly weren't more attracted to me. Neither men nor women have commented or behaved any differently.
I also dislike that it arrived in a different container than the one advertised. I didn't get a bottle with a dropper, but a roll-on stick. The liquid is thicker than perfume, so unless I rub it in it glistens on my skin.
Disappointed! I read that salespeople who wear this get better business and so on, and I also wanted to attract people. This hasn't done a thing for me.

SexShopGrl
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Posted - Feb 16 2012 : 10:13PM
You're not supposed to be able to smell it. It's not meant to be your fragrance, it's meant to enhance your fragrance.
SunShowers
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Posted - Feb 17 2012 : 9:30AM
I see, but I read so many reviews of people raving about the smell and people liking it. I like the scent when I first apply it, I just wish it was stronger. It smells rather fruity.
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Feb 17 2012 : 11:52PM
Yes it does smell fruity but it won't clash with anything else you wear. The pheromones themselves don't really have much of a scent.
Another I've tried is called Bare Essence and Climax Factor. Climax Factor seems to be the one that works best for me. At first it kinda smells like vanilla and sweat until it dries. Bare Essence has a powdery scent. Believe it or not, when I use the Bare Essence, bi-women and lesbians try to motorboat me or give me lap dances.
Went to a munch the other week and one of the Dommes stuck her face in my cleavage because her nose was cold.
It was hilarious.
 
iowagonzo
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Posted - Feb 18 2012 : 9:21AM
Sexshopgirl...are you a Domme or sub? Just curious...my wife and I aren't 24/7 in the lifestyle but we occasionally play. I sub to her when we do. It gives me a break from my normal occupation in which a lot of the time I am telling others what to do...nice to give that up and let my wife tell me what to do...when I am shackled and wearing a collar and leash while on my knees. ;-)
SexShopGrl
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Posted - Feb 18 2012 : 11:50AM
More of a Kinkster/Switch really. I can top or bottom in all kinds of kink. But as for D/s, I don't care for all the protocol. Not really a "yes, sir" kinda gal.
budtugley
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Posted - Feb 28 2012 : 4:56PM
Personally, I never were cologne and I prefer ladies don't wear perfume either. Smell, odor, fragrance, whatever you might call it, stench even, is the way some insects attract each other. Many animals too. When a female dog or cat is in heat, the males come from miles around looking for the female hot to trot.
If a lady smells nice, I want to be close and intimate with her. If she doesn't, nothing good is ever going to happen. Some women, when they get aroused, smell like gardens, flowers of delight. Others smell like stale ashtrays or sewer pipes, really foul. There are those in-between too.
Sometimes when things first get going, a guy might get a ladies blouse open, her bra comes off, and he begins to kiss, nuzzle, caress and suck on her nipples. Usually, she'll have a little bit of perspiration on her breasts from the warmth of her body and the tightness of her bra. If he likes the way she smells, he'll go for it, if he's turned off by her perspiration odor, he's going to be repulsed. It might be OK, neither good nor bad, that works. His ball sack and boner will have his sweat or perspiration on it too, and either she's going to love the way he smells, she might say, it's OK, nothing great but not bad, or also be repulsed if he smells bad.
That's just the way it is. Smell is critical.



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