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skronker
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Posted - May 18 2003 : 1:53AM
Anyone find this is the best way to get laid?
Dare I say: "Works for me!"
Sir Noel Plum
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Posted - May 18 2003 : 5:26AM
Certainly not the cheapest. Even though beer is fairly cheap where I live I'm still looking at £50 for a night out (which must be about $80) not to mention that I know not to even try having sex after 9 or 10 pints!

SNP.

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Posted - May 18 2003 : 9:01AM
Well, I've had 2 or 3 happy occasions in as many years, and yes it's not so good to try and get happy hoppy after a ton of drinks. Sad yet true. Oh, so so so so sad. But the next morning can be blissful.
lindi
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Posted - May 18 2003 : 10:49AM
I haven't ever gone to a bar to pick up guys. I am certain that they would get 'the wrong idea.'

If I was looking now, I'd go up to the campgrounds at the state park to find guys for one-nighters.

Edited by - lindi on 5/18/2003 6:59:09 PM

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Posted - May 19 2003 : 12:35AM
I need to camp out more often then.
 
skronker
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Posted - May 19 2003 : 1:28AM
Then you could be a "Happy Camper."
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Posted - May 19 2003 : 6:29PM
holy crap skronker, that was pretty funny :)
Jim-A
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Posted - May 20 2003 : 12:16PM
So who's going camping this weekend?
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Posted - May 20 2003 : 12:24PM
With my luck, the only thing I'd meet would be a horny bear.
RobHammer
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Posted - May 24 2003 : 2:41PM
We're getting ready to pull out on another camping trip and I'm reminded about the last one. On our first night, my oldest son who is 15 didn't show up for dinner. When he finally arrived back at camp around 11PM we were quite worried. He had walked about three miles down the beach past two other camping areas. He hooked up with some local kids and spent some serious time with a 17 year old girl. The two lines of hickeys from each side of his neck to his waist had mom a bit concerned. I didn't get to see what was below the belt line.

Edited by - RobHammer on 5/26/2003 11:53:16 PM

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Posted - May 24 2003 : 3:38PM
At least your son is a 'happy camper'.

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lindi
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Posted - May 24 2003 : 4:09PM
The campground idea is a variation on what I did in high school, picking up guys at the lake who were passing through town. It ensured no reputation, no pressures, and no strings. The guy is gone in the morning.

Campgrounds are a relatively wholesome place to meet, with activities that I really enjoy, and I could take along my dog and my own camper van. One might think that for a married and monogamous woman I've given the whole thing rather too much thought.

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Posted - May 27 2003 : 12:19PM
Maybe ATD could plan a camping trip in beautiful Maine
T Mac
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Posted - May 29 2003 : 2:02AM
Skronker-I believe I have a viewpoint on your question, so here goes:

I just this past semester have graduated from college, so I've had many, many long nights at the bar over the past 4 years. When I was a freshman, I thought the answer was yes, that it was the best way to get laid. By the end of this past year, I found the bar scene to be somewhat annoying, but somewhat of a necessary evil, because in the college atmosphere, it is really the only way to go out and get laid. The worst thing about taking women home from the bars for me is really the drinking. Once upon a time, in my 2nd year at college, I went back to this extremely attractive girls dorm room(and no, I didn't have the beer goggles on. I actually knew this girl, b/c we lived in the same dorm). And man, I just could not get a hard on. I guess, seeing as how I'd downed 12-15 beers beforehand, I wouldn't have minded under normal circumstances, however I wanted to nail this girl so bad, and I just couldn't make it happen. And just to top it off, my good friend who lived next door started dating her a couple months later, and I got to hear him fuck her every fucking night for the rest of the year. So that how I feel about the bar scene!!!

shameless
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Posted - May 29 2003 : 5:34AM
Generally I think it is a very good idea. But of course you have to invest drinks into the girls (and yourself) first before you can cash in. Me, I have no problems getting a hard-on after a few glasses of beer or vodka. But certainly you have to get to know your limits.
Main problem I have with girls I pick up at bars is that many of them are not experienced in anal sex. Although maybe half of Moscows downtown bar girls (certainly in the more known places) are semi-professionals selling their body for fun, drinks, nice cloths and some extra-tip, booking real escort girls is normally just more effective and does not cost much more. And if I pick up a street-walker it is even cheaper...

Still, I do like the bar scene. Its lots of fun and it has always that surprise factor that you dont know exactly whom you will end up in bed with.

Edited by - Shameless on 5/29/2003 5:52:10 AM

 
shameless
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Posted - Jun 1 2003 : 4:27AM
Its amazing! 48 hours and nobody has written anything new in the sex talk section. Your sex life must be really dull...


...well, I picked up a girl at a bar yesterday night, but she turned out to be an escort. So, as closing-down-links-Lindi suggested I open a new link .

Cheers!


Edited by - Shameless on 6/1/2003 5:09:33 AM

RobHammer
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Posted - Jun 1 2003 : 4:27PM
The picking up chicks in bars thing never worked very well for me. Most of the women at bars that tried to pick me up were looking for money in exchange. That didn't work too well either, as I don't usually have an overabundance of cash to blow.

As for guys and bars, that's another story.

You know Shameless, some of us are actually having sex with people we love, and don't feel the need to post every little sexual encounter in detail.


shameless
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Posted - Jun 1 2003 : 6:34PM
You know Rob, I love women in general and am not willing to settle down for just one of them at the moment. And if I would write in every little sexual encounter here, I would stay at well over 1000 posts now.
On the other hand just let me say, that I really liked your posts about escorts in that threat asking me how much I spend on commercial sex. Those posts were well balanced and fair.


Edited by - Shameless on 6/1/2003 6:35:26 PM

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Posted - Jun 1 2003 : 6:41PM
Shameless,

In this thread you wrote:

In another thread you wrote:
and in this thread RobHammer wrote:
Some people want and need love and interpersonal sex coupled together, some people just want interpersonal sex (they don't feel that they want or need the love), and some people just want love (they don't feel that they want or need the interpersonal sex). Whether all three of these interpersonal "orientations" can actually work out happily for all of the participants in the long run is a question I can't answer. I certainly don't think that it's wrong or unhealthy either to pay for sex or to charge for sex under the right circumstances (including the presence of kindness, consideration, and basic human respect between the parties).

But if you think other people's sex lives are "boring" because they are not out "buying" any woman or man -- or any sex act -- that they want at any given moment, I think you'd better check on whether your head is screwed on straight (or whether, instead, it's only loosely connected to your neck and tucked tightly up an orifice of yours that you might put to better use).

Another thought: Although you may find it self-empowering and/or hilarious to think of every woman that you desire solely in terms of cash value, a lot of people around here (both women and men) find that incredibly offensive. If you know THAT fully and you're just childishly "acting out" in order to piss people off, give it a second thought; if you don't know that fully yet, get a clue, dude.

As for your calling our esteemed moderator, lindi, a "link closer" [sic], BITE ME! (I'm pretty large, but I think your mouth is big enough for the job.)


Sir Noel Plum
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Posted - Jun 1 2003 : 7:20PM
I agree with Bob.

It is totally out of order to call her 'closing-down-links-Lindi'. I'll have you know that closing-down-threads-Lindi might be quite upset to hearyou call her 'closing-down-links-Lindi'

Since you mention it though Shameless, my sex life has been a bit dull the last week or so as we've both been up to other stuff and maybe not so focused around sex as we often are.

SNP.

RobHammer
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Posted - Jun 2 2003 : 3:02AM
Shameless,

Not to derail this thread any further, but after reading your post about escort girls and bars I thought I would comment on my own experience.

My link in the previous thread was to show that many of our private sex lives are far from boring.

The last comment I made in my previous post was addressing the issue of no posts on Sex Talk in the last 48 hours. Lots of us have very exciting sex lives, but don't always feel the need to talk about the details.

shameless
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Moscow
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Posted - Jun 2 2003 : 4:13AM
Please, let me appologize if I hurt anybodies feelings about women (men). I never intended to do that. I do love women, I adore and honour them. True, I buy their sexual services sometimes (and I dont feel ashamed), their body has cash value for me and them, but thats just how life in my country is. All has cash value. Its capitalizm we imported from West. Its price of freedom. Maybe our Russian reality is too difficult for some of you to understand...but let me assure you, I do not want to offend anybody here. And certainly not those great girls that sell their body for our enjoyment (be it on film or in reality). And: of course I accept the concept of true love and passion. I just dont want that deep feelings at the moment. But thats just me.
So try to take it easy, please.


Edited by - Shameless on 6/2/2003 4:33:41 AM

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