One way to approach it would be to let her know how sexy you think she is. And if you spend a lot of time apart, let her know that you'd like to have some pictures of you two having sex because you'd like to use it to get yourself off when she isn't nearby. A lot of women are afraid to have a picture taken while having sex because they're worried about it ending up in the wrong hands. Assure her that you will keep the photos in a very secure place such as a heavy duty safe. And also put her at ease by telling her that if she ever wants the photos destroyed, that all she has to do is ask and you'll shred them. Tell her that one day, you'll both be old and wrinkly and not so attractive. So when you're both in your 70s, wouldn't it be nice to look at some pictures of the both of you when you were young and you had great sex? Kind of like watching old home movies and reliving the happy moments in your life. Just a tip - forget the photographs. Make a video instead. And if you make a video, experiment with lighting and positions before you are both ready to go.
A little hesitant or against it? If she's against it, forget it. If she is hesitant, tell her she can delete any pics she doesn't like, use her camera.
You want to 'take pictures' or 'have pictures to keep'? If you just want to take them, agree ahead of time that she can delete them ALL after you've both looked at them. After you've done this a few times, she may change her mind. In general, my recommendation is DON'T take pictures until you're both comfortable.
... and don´t "loose" the camera or have it stolen ... don´t upload these pictures to a "data safe" or vault system ... use your brain and common sense if available :) Cube
My recommendation is if you value the relationship, resist the urge to push this matter. There are billions of porn pics in the world and you can have as many of them as you want for a few lousy bucks.
It depends on what you mean by hesitant. My best advice is to be honest with her and ask tell her you want some pictures. She can say no, then okay. If she says yes, make sure you have the camera in arms reach and do it straight away. If you let her mull over it (if she is in the middle) she will probably favor towards no. Using my own advice: Ex: Got some nice snaps of her naked. Nothing overly naughty. Also got a quick video of using having sex doggy style. Current: Got lots of her naked, some with me dick in her mouth. One with cum in her mouth and a sex tape of her giving he head. And all this because I was honest with what I wanted and told her. If you dance around the issue in the hopes that she'll bring it up, it'll never happen. Good luck mate. But yeah, if she is dead against it, as the other poster said, leave it be.
Cannot help you on the ass stuff but when giving a blowjob it's great when your girl looks directly into the camera whilst sucking your cock with a smile on her face, best way is to make her laugh you really can't beat that.
I agree with Breeze and others. If she's totally against it, drop it. You're just gonna annoy her. Sex pics can be a turn on, but I do have a problem with any that include my face or the smallest inkling that it's me (ex. scars, moles, birthmarks, tattoos). If she's hesitant, give her power. After you take the pictures allow her to immediately review and delete any she finds potentially compromising. Let her decide what survives. That might destroy it a little for the OP, but it's better than nothing which is what you have right now. Just taking pics? I've done that once because he desperately wanted BJ pics and I was curious. Our compromise was that we used my phone so he got to take the pics; he got to see the pics; he did not get to keep the pics and in turn, I didn't have to worry about what might happen to the pics. They were mine and I deleted them the next day.
