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Posted - Jul 15 2000 : 1:36PM
I need some serious advice or suggestions. The girl I am dating now doesn't seem to be as "fresh" as others in the past. What I mean is, even after a shower, it's very difficult to perform oral sex on her. Now, I may be wrong to compare her to others but it's kind of difficult not to.
What causes this? What can she do? How would I go about making suggestions for her to try?
We have slightly touched on the subject in the past but I didn't push the issue. I have completely stopped the oral sex and now I am even finding it difficult to have intercourse with her.
Any help?
Evil_Rip
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Posted - Jul 15 2000 : 3:08PM
put some peppermints in your mouth or jolly ranchers before you go down. Lessens the taste.
I'm sure the others will have better advice for you soon.
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Posted - Jul 15 2000 : 3:27PM
de8212 - I was in a very similar sitution in a past relationship. It's not easy to say "I think your pussy stinks." I was lucky enough (or unlucky enough depending on your point of view) that the the smell got so bad that my face stunk for a while after going going down on her. (Even after wiping it off on the sheets or a towel.)
She suggested that we stop having sex so often and the smell soon disappeared. (We were having sex 3 - 5 times per day at the time.)
I'm no gynocologist but I think that a pungent aroma is a sign of problems. How long has it been since she's had a checkup?
de
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Posted - Jul 15 2000 : 4:18PM
Thanks Drew
last Check-Up was about a week ago. I have been contemplating asking this question to the forum for a while now but I was hoping the Dr. would find something. Well, either he didn't or she didn't say anything to me about it. ButI feel assure that she would have told me.
And we really don't have sex that often now (mainly because of this problem). Maybe once a week!!!
I welcome some of the female readers to give any advice as well. Thanks
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Posted - Jul 15 2000 : 5:33PM
Drew I kind of understand that. After one particular session with my EX.. the smell was trapped in my moustache. I shaved my mustache latter that night.
 
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Posted - Jul 15 2000 : 6:22PM
de8212
Stank is usually a sign of unhealthiness. What's her diet like? Does she wear nylon underwear (very bad)? Is there a discharge besides smell? Does she shave/ trim?
Let's start with those and then we can keep trying to deduce the problem. I'm out of town so I can only check the site once a day (so please don't be discouraged if I don't answer right away.)
For now - love her in other ways
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Posted - Jul 15 2000 : 8:10PM
Yes, bad or strong odor certainly is a good indication of a problem.
Womyn that eat a lot of fruits and vegies, tend to taste and smell fresher, less...aftertaste. So if she has a high carb diet, that may be contributing to the problem.
I am assuming hygiene is not a concern? Possibly her skin is reacting to a soap she is using?
Or, is she using a spermicide?
That is a sensitive subject, but it is important that you are comminicating that there is a problem, as obviously it is causing a rift in your sex life.
Be sensitive in the way you word it, tread lightly.
Is she taking any medications?
How close are you? Can you speak freely of such things w/ her?
Yikes..I hope we can help you resolve this.
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Posted - Jul 16 2000 : 3:58AM
Diet is not anything specific. No high-carb, low fat, etc.
As far as nylon underwear I guess you mean pantyhose. Yes she wears them Mon - Fri but not on weekends so it isn;t everyday. Could this actually contribute to the problem? I have never heard of it before.
She recently shaved and I almost thought it may have helped but it wasn't anything significant.
Hygenine isn't a problem with the rest of her so I don't think it's the prob down there.
No spermicide or anything similar.
She is on the pill but no other medicne except for vitmamins.
One thing that I forgot to mention is that she frequently wears panty liners (the really thin things kinda like a pad). I aksed her about it once and she said she always does this a few days before/after her period. But I have been paying attention and it's almost daily. However when I would go down there and check stuff out I have never seen any kind of discharge.
Thanks all, please keep giving suggestions.
We are pretty open about alot of things, I just don't think I can say "Hey, I've been talking to some people on the internet about your problem and here;s what they said to do". That may not go over too well but if this could be a unhealthy thing then I gotta do something soon. It really is affecting things.
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Posted - Jul 16 2000 : 11:42AM
Wow! Finally a question of some seriousness in this forum. The other women in the group are correct when saying that odor is usually a sign of some health concern... but not necessarily. The pantyhose thing... along with nylon undies (as opposed to cotton) is probably a contributor, but not the main concern. You mentioned something in your original post that stood out for me. You said "even after a shower" Is your woman a shower person, or does she takes baths as well??? There is really no way to thoroughly cleanse the inside of one's vagina in the shower... and, no matter who you are, or how healthy you may be, unless you take baths every 2 to 3 days, your twat will smell pretty ripe. If she is a shower type, a suggestion is to draw a bath (note: make sure if you use a bubble bath that it's one that is hypo allergenic), light the bathroom with candles, set the mood with your favorite sexy music and bathe eachother as foreplay. While in the tub, use your fingers on her (this is to make sure the water is getting inside her, as well as for heightening sexual desire in both of you). Let me know if this helps.
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Posted - Jul 16 2000 : 4:37PM
Thanks tina. Yes she primarily takes showers but I'll try to give your idea a try. Ummm, what exactly is meant by "health concerns"?. I mean, could this be some indication of a venerial(sp?) disease? Any other ideas?
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Posted - Jul 16 2000 : 7:40PM
Yes, we are referring to a vereneal disease.
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Posted - Jul 17 2000 : 5:37PM
I don't know about other women, but the pill lessens my period - I maybe get it for two days. It seems strange that she's wearing pads before and after while on the pill. Maybe she's not on the right pill for her. I went through about ten different ones that all did different things to my body (and emotions )
If you don't have a bath get her a hand held shower massager thingie - she'll like it anyway
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Posted - Jul 17 2000 : 5:38PM
Oh and I forgot - are you near an ocean? swimming in the ocean is great for health and cleanliness.
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Posted - Jul 18 2000 : 5:25AM
I have noticed that if my wife and I have sex on Monday and she does take a bath soon after, by Wednesday things are getting quite ordiferous. I believe this is from my love juices staying inside her and causing things to start getting ripe. Just a thought.
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Posted - Jul 20 2000 : 4:24AM
Just to add another thought, I would take a quick look at her diet. Why veggetables and fruit are definitely good for you, I have found that a couple really give things a bad taste.
Tomatoes are the real stinkers, and asparagus isn't a treat either. Try to avoid fruits and vegetables with a high acidic content. This is why high school kids throw tomatoes at cars. The tomato juice is so acidic that if you don't wash the car that day, the juice will eat into your paint and leave stains.
Guys, this goes for you, too. I used to have a girlfriend who could tell 100% of the time if I had been eating tomatoes or onions.
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