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sonic
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 2:27PM
Have you ever fantasized about another guy banging your girlfriend or wife and you in the corner just watching?
I have given it a small thought here and there..but it's all just thinking..and not willing to do so or make it happen. I just think about it..my wife has a such a fat juicy ass..and I just fantasize about a stud with a great body..just giving her long deep hot strokes in doggystyle while I watch her gorgeous horny facial expressions.
Am I the only one? Is this bad?
Drew Black
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 4:09PM
You aren't the only one. I've experienced it once when I was 21. It was my soon-to-be-ex-girlfriend (she dumped me) and a good friend of mine. It's a very stimulating, powerful sensation watching two attracktive people going at it 5 feet in front of you. I must admit that this is good fantasy-type material but it's not something that I would recommend for anyone involved in a serious relationship. I suspect that it could wreck most marriages.
Oneloa
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 4:54PM
Ever read Penthouse Letters? It's the subject of most of the stories. You can tell that a lot of them are made up from guys that fantasize about it. The guys always have 12 inch dicks and shoot tons of cum in the wife.
Personally, I think it would ruin the intimacy that a husband and wife have. However, if you're with a girlfriend that you want to dump anyways, then why not???
sonic
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 5:45PM
I would never do it since I'm married and my wife is not into stuff like that nor would I accept such behavior.
She doesn't even know I think about it. My thoughts of it are very minimal.
My deep thoughts and all I think about day by day is how anal sex must feel. I wanna fuck my wife up the ass so bad. But it's all good..I love her and I get the juicier part. Pie. So I cannot complain.
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Just wanted to hear what people thought about this kinky thinking fantasy..since I thought about this today and felt this can be a good topic for ADT.

Also..I strongly agree it can ruin marriages and relationships.
-sonic
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[This message has been edited by sonic (edited May 07, 2000).]
-lunacy-
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 7:26PM
Once upon a time a girl was involved with a boy for 2 years. For their 2 year anniversary she decided to gift the boy a 3 some with her long term best friend/some time lover.Both girls thought it would be kinda fun and were comfortable with the idea.
The experience for the boy was great because he was rather dense and was only concerned with the sex angle of things. However for the girl and her girlfriend, it was awkward and caused jealousy and nagging doubts. It took awhile for their relationship to heal.
So my opinion Sonic, is "heck yeah bebe!" like you said as a fantasy, and Oh, no no no as a reality.
"Drat, that reality thing really gets in the way sometimes."
 
krusty
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 9:25PM
My friend once had a 3-way with her husband and his best friend a while before they were married. She enjoyed it but during the act her husband started to freak out and wondered if he had in fact ruined his relationship with her. It's not a turn-on for me and I don't think I would risk it.
The funny thing is that he's pretty open and doesn't mind if she has sex outside of their marriage as long as she doesn't "fall in love". I've fooled around with her once and went down on her but we didn't have intercourse. I guess I just started feeling really guilty (I know that sounds stupid).
Do you guys think I'm crazy for not going through with it? I'm pretty sure that she'd still like to do it.
Jason Little
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 9:59PM
Krusty -
I personally wouldn't get involved in a situation like this. Regardless of the couples openess I feel that getting involved with someone in a relationship isn't worth the troubles that could be caused. And if they're friends of mine then its even more of a reason for me to stay away from it. Just too many things could go wrong and having sex isn't worth the possible headaches that could result.
But to each their own. Just don't try moving in on my blowup doll Brenda.
Drew Black
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 10:02PM
How is Brenda these days? The patches holding up well?
Jason Little
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 10:09PM
Drew -
Brenda is doing fine, she doesn't say much but she appears to be happy. The patches are holding up well but the one I had to put over her eye (Please don't ask) makes her look like a pirate but I still love her, she's quite the trooper. Oh wait a second, I hear a whining sound. BRB... OH NO SHE'S SPRUNG LEAK I'VE GOT TO PERFORM CPR (Cafeful Patch Replacement).
[This message has been edited by Jason Little (edited May 07, 2000).]
sonic
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Posted - May 7 2000 : 10:16PM
Mine popped.
I still remember the days.
The rainy days..funny how she never got wet. Odd.
I remember being at an alley...(yes, I filled her up and took her there..she wanted to be there! Damn..trust me..she spoke to me!!!)..I came really hard in her..and all of a sudden she flew off my damn hands because of a stupid ass windy moment. Her bush landed right on this homeless man's face who was taking a nap. He woke up..and said.."mama mia! where you been all my life!?!"
I went up to him and told him she's mine. He did not want to let go and we ended up pulling her by the arms..and that's when tragedy hit.
Sometimes life isn't fair.
zaxx
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Posted - May 8 2000 : 10:48AM
Back on track here (not that I don't appreciate the doll jokes ). WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH US? I have also had a 3 way with friends that could have turned out better. Everyone thought they could handle it, but afterward we all kind freaked out. We are still friends, but we all felt strange for a while. Why do we attach love and friendship so closely with sex? Sex really doesn't have anything to do with a relationship, but it seems like we can't separate the two.
Darkmage
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Posted - May 8 2000 : 6:32PM
Zaxx, we have trouble separating the two because above all else, sex is an expression of trust. Probably moreso for women then men, but it really boils down to trust. Some women are more trusting than others.
Consider this: Women have to trust someone enough to let them inside their own body. This is not a small act, no matter how frequently we see it flopping around on our DVD players. For a vast majority of people, this type of trust does not come easily. In order to trust someone like that, it helps to be very comfortable with them and who are we more comfortable with than the people we love?
Yeah, there are exceptions to every rule, but I think the averages will bear me out.
In the meantime... threesomes always add another layer of complexity to our admittedly complex relationships. Very few complex things last for very long. There is just so much that can go wrong, and so much has to go right in order for it to stay intact. I'm not saying it can't be done and I've had a couple no-impact threesomes myself. I personally think the reason they were so easy on my relationships was because they collapsed out of circumstances instead of collapsing out of complications.
Anyhow, the short answer is that no, you are not crazy.
The Cliff Note version of the answer is that the very complexity that made it so attractive is going to get in the way of what was (relatively) a simple set of relationships. Is it impossible to go on? Nope. But it will be more difficult.
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DGF
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Posted - May 8 2000 : 6:43PM
No way!
I'm more likely to kill the guy.
Drew Black and zaxx you're right. It doesn't matter if you think sex and relationship are separate for the vast majority of people they can't be totally separated. Some people like prostitues can but the majority, including most men, still can't mentally separate it. That's because sex is about reproduction. And when you have sex with a woman she could end up carrying your child and your genes. Thus you end up naturally and genetically caring at least a little for that woman as she may be the mother of your child. For women this effect is even stronger.
Janitor
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Posted - May 8 2000 : 7:13PM
there was a time in my life when i easily separated sex from emotion. but i was single, drinking enough (not quite a lot), and sewin my wild oats. i was involved in a threesome (two guys and me) - and had fun.
but a life-long or potentially so relationship is a whole different thing. sex is a part of the relationship. so if you want to watch your wife has sex Get A Video Camera!!!
-lunacy-
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Posted - May 8 2000 : 9:00PM
Wow! This has turned into a very interesting post. I must say I am pleasantly surprised by some of the men's reactions.
Darkmage, you really spoke some truth about trust and a womyn accepting a man into her body.
Overall, I think that 3 somes, if your single or just casually involved, great. However, in a committed relationship, unless you and your partner agree to be polyamorous it just dosn't work in real life.
I agree also with the being able to dis-associate sex and emotion. I can be that way with other womyn sometimes, I have been before, and happily so. A f***buddie is a grand thing.
But now that I am in a commited relationship emotion is very much a part of sex. Even when it's a quickey. (like those) There is a trust, and a bond there that cannot be ignored, or set aside.
 
torris
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Posted - May 10 2000 : 5:27PM
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Jason Little:
Drew -
Brenda is doing fine, she doesn't say much but she appears to be happy. The patches are holding up well but the one I had to put over her eye (Please don't ask) makes her look like a pirate but I still love her, she's quite the trooper. Oh wait a second, I hear a whining sound. BRB... OH NO SHE'S SPRUNG LEAK I'VE GOT TO PERFORM CPR (Cafeful Patch Replacement).
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Darkmage
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Posted - May 10 2000 : 9:15PM
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Morrigan
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Posted - May 10 2000 : 10:12PM
I say the hell with the threesomes. I get jealous just hearing about another woman. The last thing I wanna do is watch the guy I'm with pumping away inside someone else. Even if I am sitting there watching.
But then again, I'm a bitch like that.
LOL
zaxx
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Great White North
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Posted - May 11 2000 : 5:36AM
Darkmage, You have obviously discussed this in your philosophy class . Well thought out answer, thanks for the insight.
I agree that it is the complexity of a threesome is what interests most of us (me included). It seems the more sex you have and the older you get the simpler acts seem to loose their charm. I also agree that if you are in this situation with people that you are not seriously involved with (thus lowering the complexity) it is easier to deal with.
The trust thing I am not as sure about. I have met a lot of people I would "trust" with out even knowing their name . Good looks can really make a person trustworthy, don't you agree?
Oneloa
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Posted - May 12 2000 : 4:10PM
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