I was wondering how many people are watching porno and what are their preferences in sex.For example what do we see in a usual film?Men sitting on a couch with dead dicks waiting for a girl to suck them for 20 minutes,having some pathetic intercourse for 2-3 minutes and after they jerk by themselves on the girl as the focus is on his dick and his cum.Sometimes they don’t fuck at all (I don’t get this : why a man doesn’t fuck the women if he can?Is this a game?If it is,as far as I know in games we do what we like most!!).Oral only films:what is the purpose here?Not to fuck?They pay these girls from Asia and they pretend they like it.Ok,but what about the other people who watch porn occasionally ?The man does the game in sex,he suppose that he wants the women.But in all new films,(most of them) we see to much dicks,bj’s,cum,man jerking of by themselves..etc.Do you know how many forums,yahoo groups,sites and others are dedicated to other preferences like for example to cunnilingus?We don’t watch too much in porn,do we?No,it’s not a turn on!But why are so many people in these forums or clubs (maybe 4000-6000 members each!!) are talking for it but they don’t watch porn for the same reason? My point is this:Maybe this is something like weakness, MANY MEN ARE AFRAID OF THE PUSSY.Yes,they can have some sex but they don’t really enjoying it, otherwise what’s the point to watch an oral movie?Some others they don’t want the women naked too!!!!It is a turn of to them if she is nude… Some other sites having some poor girls and having oral by oral with them,they even ask money for you to watch it.Don’t get me wrong here,nothing wrong with oral, excuse me bj’s ,everything is fine since we have an intercourse after.The problem is that time by time we made the intercourse foreplay and oral (bj’s again) the main acting in sex.Is this our real life?Before you answer think about young teenagers that they behave like that everyday and more.Don’t tell me about porn and real life,the fantasies we have are representing our personality.I have come to this conclusion:People that don’ t watch porn almost everyday they talk about women’s body mostly and they have real sex, but most people I know into sex are always having in mind cumshots,Bj’s..etc and as far as I know from girls are really bad lovers..Where is the sex?Let the men become men again,and enjoy real life sex,since the porn doesn’t offer so many other things.Does it?I was looking for new releases and again 95% again with cumshots…etc!!But then again,what do I know? Best regards !!
I assume this is a rant. I definitely found myself unable to read through it all. Did your English teacher in high school teach you nothing about breaking things down to digestible bits? Paragraphs, look into the idea. Seriously, even the Unabomber used them and he had an entire manifesto. You have a main idea (a thesis) and several supporting points. Each point can constitute a separate (important element here) paragraph along with evidence or supporting thoughts. If it gets long, an idea may take up several paragraphs. I'm sure your local library has some fine texts on composition in writing.
Why is all this important? Because it can be the difference between screaming into the electronic void and communicating. After all, communication is two parts. It is both your expounding on your thoughts and somebody else listening & processing that information.
You did not understand that i don't speak English?All you had to say was about this?It is very difficult to express what you feel in another language indeed but i was expecting just an answer or an idea about my point of view..
Your post is extremely difficult - i.e. too time consuming - to read, because there are no paragraphs. Try hitting "return" sometimes.
Also interperse a blank line every now and then to structure your text, and leave a space after punctuation marks (commas, ponts, question marks and such). HTH
I'm sorry Pire, but I found that even after taking the considerable time to read and comprehend your post, I just did not have any response. Some of your ideas make no sense whatsoever to me - and the ones that I understood just maddened me...I dunno, maybe thats just me, but I always dislike when a writer assumes that he knows how I feel, think or live and obviously myreal-life and real-life sex is very different than your's
Ok,it is so simple:Time after time we see more bj’s and less intercourse in porn.All i am saying is that i read very often (from women mostly,on the web, articles from magazines,TV) that people ,especially teenagers, don’t fuck a lot.The last decades we have an increase to bj’s and a decrease to cunnilingus or intercourse. And I just asked:Is it from the porn? Because in porn we see lately more bj’s than ever. Search for a scene in any DVD and probably you will see a dick getting licked or a cumshot.Why a man needs to watch or to receive just oral and not after to fuck?Is it a matter of personal taste?Is there any men that don’t like to fuck?Where are some other dvd’s with cunnilingus or without to much bj’s or even cumshots for a change?I don’t see many of them. You search for oral and you only find bj’s..why?
I guess the simple answer is that it depends pretty much on the director. Most directors I've heard from say that they shoot what they find exciting.
If people are doing more than just intercourse in their real lives, maybe that is why there is more than just intercourse shown in porn. In other words, it could be porn copying real life, as opposed to your vice-versa view.
And I don't think its that there are men that don't want to fuck...its probably just that we are looking for diversity, a change of pace. I know there have been times that I was more interested in receiving oral than in a full-blown fuck session. The same rings true for cunnilingus: sometimes I'd rather just bring my partner off orally a couple times than go the whole distance intercourse-wise.
I do agree with you that the art of cunnilingus has become less and less appreciated in porn these days...I'd love to see more of a focus on that, as the most exciting part of any porn (to me) is the arousal, displays of pleasure and orgasm of the female!
Yes, I understood that. I assumed that English is your native language, however. Many just don't learn their own language well. I did try to read your initial post and assumed I could not make sense of it because of the density of information and presentation. Therefore I had no other answer. My recommendations stand, regardless, even in your own primary language. Let me compliment you on taking the time to learn another language though. Difficult.
Responding to your amended post - I think that porn has a part in breaking down social mores. Clinton may have had a part too. This is not just a jab or quirky reference. I have spoken to women/girls in their late teens/early twenties that do not consider oral sex to be sex. This gives a convenient solution - the guy gets to cum and the woman can say she didn't have sex right away. This last part goes back to some Victorian beliefs. It is also another way for a woman to impress a guy. Disease is another reason to have oral sex, as well as the prospect of unwanted pregnancy. Another reason is what JAGnLA said - variety. Guys like it, some even crave it. Which leads to porn. When oral only porn came out, it was new. They found or created a market niche that nobody had. People bought it, which means that imitators were soon to follow. So now we had oral/swallowing movies, all anal, all DP, all non-swallowing, etc. The wonders of capitalism.
