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scottprat
New Member

2 Posts
10/05
Posted - Oct 13 2005 : 12:21PM
Hi,

I love porn and have a large collection of all kinds of it. However, my wife is of the opinion that all my porn is the same (the undressing, the sucking, screwing and the facial). I was wondering whether there was anything specific that she (or other women) might like.

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Topic Moved by - DenverDon on Oct 13 2005

DenverDon
Benevolent

Firmly Embedded in Depravity
5914 Posts
7/02
Posted - Oct 13 2005 : 12:37PM
Welcome to the forums scottprat.

First off, what porn DO you own? Companies, or genre, etc. Sounds like you have mainly gonzo. This might help others point you in a different direction.

I've moved this to The Feature Side. The Feature Side has more porn that may have a story line, some 'acting', less facials, etc.

MASAMUNE
Senior Member

1452 Posts
12/04
Posted - Oct 13 2005 : 2:36PM
Try "Pirates"!!! Ya can't go wrong.
Guy Capo
DVSX

100 Posts
7/03
Posted - Oct 17 2005 : 3:45PM
A whole lot of the positive feedback I receive about my work comes from the female demographic. I think it's because most of what I do involves a reason for the sex...there's an explanation involved, a thin but effective connective tissue that stimulates an emotional interest in not only what is happening, but why as well. The "Why" is very important to women, even if only on a subconscious level.

My content is very hard for the couples market, because it is actually gonzo style sex with a well crafted and delivered explanation. The girls like it because it's not typical porn...It slips under their filth-radar with a little production value and theatrics...and yet the projects retain all the gonzo aspects that guys love.

NOTE: Prolonged exposure to Filth-Radar waves can cause blue balls, decreased libido, and eventually impotence. It is important to sheild yourself from Filth-Radar with periodic injections of guy capo product

I FEAR MY GOVT

Ryder7
Member

33 Posts
9/05
Posted - Oct 17 2005 : 6:59PM
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Twizted6
Senior Member

Good & Evil is merely a matter of perspective, I perfer to call myself... Determined
1229 Posts
7/05
Posted - Oct 18 2005 : 10:27PM
"Women On Top -Of Men" by Tall Goddess and Henri Pachard is a good start. More of a "women's point of view" towards getting what they want. No anal, except for a little licking.
smith
Arthur Again

29 Posts
8/05
Posted - Oct 19 2005 : 1:17PM
If your wife wants to see good-looking guys, buy some male-male porn for her. Actually, you'd be surprised by the number of women who like to watch guy-on-guy action. Where once it was taboo, now more and more women are saying they like it.
TonyC
Comstock Films

2523 Posts
8/03
Posted - Oct 19 2005 : 7:00PM
Easily a third of the purchases of our gay title are made by women.
rockerhard
Member

Music Fucking City
20 Posts
10/05
Posted - Oct 21 2005 : 7:51PM
Hey scottprat,

First of all, your wife's right.

Second, what does your wife like and fantasize about? Gangbangs? Facials? Threesomes? Interracial? Is she bi-sexual or show any bi-sexual tendencies?

Now of her favorite genres, which ones do you most share in common? I hope there are a few in there.

Knowing this info can go a long way in getting some kick ass recommendations that will have you two fucking like sex crazed maniacs.

Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Oct 25 2005 : 6:04PM
Damn Guy, you sound like my kind of filmmaker. I'm going to look up your movies and get one asap. You did Grudge Fuck, right? Selena Silver recommended that one. Maybe I'll start with that.

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Overall, I think it's best just to ask your wife what she wants to see. It's my experience that women are turned on by honest chemistry, no matter the setting or plot. If two people look like they are connecting mentally and emotionally during sex, they could do any sexual activity in on any set, and women will like it. Of course, the guy has to be physically appealing to your wife's tastes. The women have to meet her sexual ideal as well. Other than that, you might find that she's game to watch all kinds of stuff. JUST ASK HER.

Last bit of advice, let her explore it on her own. Help her pick out a handful of movies and give her some privacy to watch them without you around. This will help her pay real attention and define her own tastes without you breathing down her neck.

Kane
Member

PA
40 Posts
7/05
Posted - Oct 25 2005 : 7:53PM
Is this porn that you'd watch together as a couple? Because I'm not sure M/M porn will be the best solution.

I can picture the scene. Gay porn on the TV. A couple sitting on the sofa watching. The anxious guy watching his wife's reactions...

"You see the way that guy's sucking that dick? Yeah, he's working him over real good... Look at those tight stomachs. And those arms! Hard to believe I'm from the same species... Hey, that guy's hair looks good from the back. Maybe I'll get my hair cut like that."

I can't type any more. I'm cringing too much.

Kane

Aplus
Senior Member

1431 Posts
5/05
Posted - Oct 28 2005 : 2:02AM
I really agree about the part with women wanting to see some real chemistry and a sense of a real conection being made on film. A lot of porn is strictly about aesthetics and certain acts being shown, whether there is any real chemistry or not. So guys may have to research and look harder for more involved sex scenes.

I haven't seen that many of Guy's films, but he does seem to try to put people together who actually want to fuck each other, which I find rare among most wall-to-wall film directors nowadays.

Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Oct 28 2005 : 5:08AM
EVERY woman I know wants to see more wide shots. We want to see both performers from head to toe. We want to see what their hands are doing at all times. We want to see their faces. We want to see her face when she cums, and we want to see him watching her face. THAT is where the connection is made. Pure heat is what we want, and you can't see it if the camera's trained an inch from the talents' genitals the whole time. Back it up. Change the angle a bit, too. Shoot RCG at 45 degrees, so we can see both partners. We're sick of seeing a woman's body splayed out in all its beautiful glory and seeing nothing but the guy's knees and balls. He could be taking a nap back behind her for all we can see of him.

Contrary to what many think, there are a few very good looking guys in straight porn right now. AND, unlike men, women don't get bored with our favorite stars. We want to see our favorite stud do the same act with dozens of different girls because the chemistry is different with each partner. In fact, we'd like to see our favorite studs do multiple scenes with girls they really click with. There are certain girls and studs that are just magic together, and women would love to see them work together often, doing different kinds of scenes. If a guy and a girl hit it off and burn up the set, for God's sake, book them together as often as you can.

Let your performers laugh together. Show their transitions from position to position. Let us see them having sex with each other . Don't just show us anonymous cock A stroking in and out of anonymous ass B. Don't focus strictly on her mouth during the BJ. Pan up and let me see his face. Let me see her fingering herself while she blows him. Let me see him see her do it.

Lastly, women are very aural. We love to hear every hot breath. Turn down the porno music and turn up the boom. And let us hear them communicate to each other. Don't worry about spoiling the fantasy. We know we're watching 2 porn stars at work. But it sure is hot to hear two porn stars have a great time at work together.

I guess, regardless of the activity, be it anal, oral, whatever, and be it gentle or rough, women get off on the big picture. We like the little details. We like to see her knit her brow with concentration just before she comes, see her gripping the sheet in her fist, and see him gritting his teeth while she's clamping down on him. And we like to see that all in the same shot. That's lightning in a bottle, baby.

(Oops. Sorry for the rant. Must be tired.)

I've got a few really good movies that fit this bill, most of them made within the last couple years. I'll try to post a list asap after I look at what I've got.

Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Oct 28 2005 : 5:10AM
Totally agree. Perfect movie. I just recently told all my girlfriends that if they buy/rent one porno movie in their entire lives, make it Pirates.
Booji Boy
New Member

3 Posts
11/05
Posted - Nov 6 2005 : 5:09PM
Alright, I went to my movie club, intelliflix, and grabbed two of your films.
Ass factor 2 and Gothsend.

My wife got me into this porn thing and it's been grand. We're having a great time. I get to search out new movies and we keep a
few she really digs around in case I find lousy stuff. She's all about
Rocco.
So, I'm glad I found this forum and I'll be around.




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