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lonesomefool
Member

Little Falls, MN
6 Posts
6/06
Posted - Jul 30 2006 : 4:57PM
How common is it that Porn Girls date/marry/whatever with just regular, blue collar guys? DO they tend to "stick" to guys IN the industry?

Also for the porn stars that may browse this post, what do YOU look for in guys/girls that your dating or are interested in dating, and at what time do you have the "conversation" with the guy/girl about what you do for a living. Also, who do you find more accepting/supportive of your career, guys or girls.

Thanks for your responses.

DanaDeArmond
Porn Unicorn

TheInternetsGirlfriend.com
2786 Posts
1/06
Posted - Jul 30 2006 : 5:04PM
in my experience "regular dudes" tend to freak out about "their" girl fucking "other dudes"

i guess they think my career has something to do with them.
needless to say, i dont date much.

Lance
Member

My Life Sucks
386 Posts
4/05
Posted - Jul 31 2006 : 12:53AM
I think it'd be very difficult for a relationship to have only one person in the biz. I know of lots of couples that are both in, but only one or 2 that has one partner involved. And the couple I'm thinking of, the boyfriend is in a band touring all over right now so that must make it easier.

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bauer024
Senior Member

It is what it is
1345 Posts
12/05
Posted - Jul 31 2006 : 2:14AM
agreed i feel it takes a special couple to trust and respect each in and out of the bedroom and relationship.... i feel the men would have a harder problem but i think it can be done ....

Dan

JennaRulez2006
Member

The Best things In Life Are Chocolate
732 Posts
11/05
Posted - Jul 31 2006 : 3:33AM
I think too many men would have the problem with their gf doing it with other guys, and forget she is just acting out sex scenes on camera. Many guys' egos would kick into the jealousy stage for sure especially if he watched one of her movies and sees the guy has say a better physique than him and then would think that the way she is acting is she likes it better than at home.

Is like also guys who date strippers. I dated a couple of strippers in the past, never bothered me what she was doing. I knew beforehand so I knew what I was more or less getting myself into. Never got jealous.
But man alot of guys do.
Not sure what women may be like about their bf doing porn or being s stripper, don't know any who dated those.

 
croy
Platinum Member

Discovry
4574 Posts
3/04
Posted - Jul 31 2006 : 4:07AM
As said, the jealousy thing would be tough for most guys.
Add to that the insecurity of a Lex Steele/Mandingo DP.
I'm guessing a lot of argueing and acting out.

Escorts and strippers have a tough time finding balanced guys to date. I know, I've dated some.
Though it is strange to me that guys can't handle other men seeing their GF on stage and tipping them. That is me though.
For some there is also the aspect of guys who cross that professional line (getting too grabby with their gf) and wanting to beat the crap out of them.

I think that for many it is a fantasy that isn't well thought out. It goes from "wow, I'm dating a porn star[:p)]" to "oh, I'm dating a porn star." I say if you know that going in, you should learn to deal with it.

pornlaw
Member

578 Posts
10/05
Posted - Jul 31 2006 : 4:24AM
Ive done it. It isnt easy, but once you realize that the scene is nothing but work, it gets a little easier. Dating a girl in the biz isnt that hard if you both look at as work.

I dated strippers in the past and if you can hang with that idea, it takes a little getting use to, but the porn thing isnt that much different.

Its funny, but I usually catch a lot of grief because I rep a lot of girls and I am always on the phone with them or meeting up with them. Industry girls tend to be very jealous as well.

Michael

lee_11
Member

former industry insider
62 Posts
7/06
Posted - Jul 31 2006 : 8:02AM
Excellent point(s). I agree. If you know going in, you should be able to deal with it. If I knew that she loved me, then I think I could adjust, but it still wouldn't be easy.

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