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Pete Zaface
Senior Member


3064 Posts
8/03
Posted - Aug 4 2008 : 10:28AM
Is it just me, or is the porn industry's depiction of MILFs significantly different from reality?
My real-world MILFs are usually 5-6 and under. They don't have plastic tits. They wear baseball caps with pony tails sticking out the back and attire that's sexy because it's simple, not trashy. Porn MILFs almost universally have big tits, frequently augmented, seem to be on the tall side of 5-6, and typically look like has-been strippers. Some, despite that, are attractive, but not as attractive as the MILFs I see at the mall.
Now, granted, it's probably pretty difficult to get a woman who doesn't look like a stripper who can no longer compete with the younger girls in the clubs to fuck on camera for money. Nontheless, someone who could put together a MILF video or site with MILFs that look like real MILFs might be on to something.
RFrog
Member

396 Posts
10/07
Posted - Aug 10 2008 : 1:42AM
I agree.
Now "Milf" is just a label to sell videos.
I pretty much have to scour the amateur sites to find good realistic milfs.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Aug 10 2008 : 3:12AM
It isn't just you.
This has been a problem for a long time. And it isn't just the MILF genre.
As near as I can figure, the reason is that porn seems to be a world of it's own. Wherever the women come from doesn't matter. They eventually all look like the stereotypical porn chick.
I guess it's just culture clash. They go into the porn world and everyone they interact with looks, acts, dresses a certain way and rather than be the oddball, they change themselves to fit in.
RFrog
Member

396 Posts
10/07
Posted - Aug 10 2008 : 5:21PM
Where does the Milf fantasy come from?
I believe that it stems from the male teenage years. Most of the time, teenage boys are fantasizing about young teenage girls. Teen boys usually disregard 40 year old women. But, for many boys, they may have met a few exceptional older women. Usually somebody's mom. She may have looked good for her age. Nice figure. Friendly. A girlfriend's mom or a buddy's mom or a PTA mom. Hence the phrase Mother I'd like to Fuck.
It's not Mother I'd Like to Date. It's not Mother I'd Like to Love. It's Mother I'd Like to Fuck.
But... the image of "mother" varies from culture to culture. From time period to time period. From state to state.
I grew up in West Coast American Suburbia in the 1980's.
My idea of a Milf is a woman in her 40's who wears tight jeans and tight sweaters in the winter. Denim shorts and tank tops in the summer. Attends PTA meetings. She doesn't wear high heel stilettos and fishnet stockings to the local supermarket. She's a practical woman. She doesn't cake her face with makeup during the day just to run to Walmart or to run her teenage kid to the dentist office. And, no, she doesn't have HUGE silicon tits. If she does have implants, they tend to be average size.
But that's me.
I can't speak for a guy who grew up on the East Coast in the 70s.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Aug 10 2008 : 5:34PM
Actually, I guess "MILF" would be an inaccurate term for me. I'm older (in my 30s). Basically, my thing is that I just think older women can be as sexy and attractive as any 19 year old. I just want to see attractive older women. I don't really care if they're mothers or not. I don't need to see them fucking 20 year old college guys. It's not an old/young thing.
Basically, I just watch some MILF porn because that's where the older women are. I'd watch it under any label.
 
Johnothan Pedak
Senior Member

Catastrophe
1594 Posts
6/07
Posted - Aug 10 2008 : 9:39PM
I always find it interesting that the term MILF only refers to an older woman. Would we ever see Teagan Presley or Jesse Jane in a MILF themed video? They have children and are therefore mothers. Certainly Mothers I'd Like (to) Fuck.
Anadin
Member

307 Posts
4/05
Posted - Aug 10 2008 : 11:52PM
I'm glad porn MILFs look nothing like they do in reality cause they're never that hot.
I wish there were more chicks like Deauxma, Cathy Barry, Lisa Ann etc.
RFrog
Member

396 Posts
10/07
Posted - Aug 11 2008 : 12:27AM
Deauxma!!!
She has gorgeous eyes!
Good call, Anadin.
;)
Derek117
Senior Member

1605 Posts
1/06
Posted - Aug 11 2008 : 12:40AM
+1. The mainstream calls the older woman who bangs younger guys a "Cougar". And, I'm not sure where that comes from--must have something to do with being a "hunter." Whatever the reason, Cougar probably best describes what porn's "MILF" genre is about, otherwise we are talking about Teagan & Jesse because they have kids.
RFrog
Member

396 Posts
10/07
Posted - Aug 11 2008 : 12:54AM
Teagan Presley and Jesse Jane are in their 20s.
When I was a teenage boy, none of my buddies or girlfriends had moms who were in their 20s.
Technically, Teagan and Jesse may be "milfs". But, they don't "take me back" to my horny teenage years.
Or simple use the phrase cougar or mature to describe older women.
You say tomato, I say tomahto.
:)~
unsublimated
New Member

5 Posts
8/06
Posted - Aug 12 2008 : 11:43AM
Zoey Andrews - now there's a MILF !!
bennyprofane1973
Pirate Booty

55 Posts
12/04
Posted - Aug 12 2008 : 3:54PM
The milf porn genre makes me laugh, because I know a lot of porn actresses who actually have kids, but they are always cast as teenagers or innocent virgins or whatnot. Then I know a couple of actresses who are pretty much exclusively cast as milfs, and they are the last 2 women on earth who would ever, ever consider breeding.
JAGnLA All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

people pay me NOT to get naked
1944 Posts
2/04
Posted - Aug 12 2008 : 9:37PM
I just hate that certain performers are labeled MILFs just because they aren't skinny, barely pubescent 19 year olds. Its as if there is no middle ground in porn: you're either a "horny teen" or a "MILF slut."
The beauty lies in the middle.
"...just another JAG-off!"
ninja1
Senior Member

2939 Posts
1/08
Posted - Aug 12 2008 : 11:28PM
+1
I've always liked the "older" women in my porn. MILF is just the current industry terminology. Before that it was "mature", or "older", and the likes of Filmco and Totally Tasteless and Loretta Sterling were the only studios producing the genre.
They had series titles Older and Anal, Aged to Perfection, Golden Oldies, and others. I don't worry about authenticity; it's just porn after all.



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