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| Phallusee Deactivated User 61 Posts 9/01 | Hi, All! When I'm watching some of the nastier porn ('Gag Factor', 'Extreme Gangbang', Max Hardcore, etc. etc.) I often wonder if the fathers of these girls have knowledge of or have seen what their daughters do and have done to them. Have any of them gone insane, commited suicide, went on a murder spree in the San Fernando Valley, etc? I have to imagine it would be difficult to live with. Especially in the cases of 18 year old girls just off the bus who are clueless and get talked into doing very degrading things without thinking about it first. After you do it, it is out there forever. Long after the young lady has passed on creeps will be masturbating to those images. For all intents and purposes, that is your cosmic legacy. Those images will reverberate virtually forever, while those who knew and loved them will eventually pass on, leaving only those images of them to mark their existance. [Link] |
| wendy divine Member 116 Posts 7/01 | To answer it.. at least the only way I know how... I would say that a lot of parents don't know. But, there are plenty that do know. Some may not agree with what their children are doing and others may not care. But, either way when it comes to what someone does when they are an adult.. it's really noone else's business but, their own. I'm not saying you shouldn't ask this question.. I'm just saying that what anyone does once they are of age is really not up to the parents. I'm sure it must be hard but, the most they can do is offer advice or support in some way. That is if they don't want to push their kids away. There are plenty of parents that know what their daughters and sons do.. that are fine with it. And, some that may not be fine with it.. but, at least are still there for them if they are needed. As for me.. my real dad knows.. and my father-in-law knows.. as well as a few other members of the family. Since I've only known my real dad for a few years.. his opinion isn't extremely important to me. But, he told me when I met him to never let anyone tell me what I could or couldn't do no matter what it was. I'd say he was supportive.. but, I'm really not sure it matters to him. As for my father-in-law.. he really cares about us.. me and Eric. He cares about our health and our marriage. He wants us to be careful and take care of one another. That is what matters to him. He has said it's none of his business.. but, he lets us know he's there for us if we want to talk or share. And, he's always appreciative when we do. He just wants to know that we are ok. Eric and I may not do the degrading things.. or some of the more disgusting things.. but, regardless.. we still have people that care about us.. and don't judge us for what we do. That is what is important. At least for us. So, in answer to your question at least on my side.. no.. they haven't gone crazy killing people in the streets.. or anything else quite remarkable. They've just showed concern for our welfare. I'd say we are lucky. |
| Phallusee Deactivated User 61 Posts 9/01 | Good for you for having relatively supportive relatives. But I would wager that you are in a small minority. My initial post might have sounded like a sick joke, but the underlying sentiment was an honest one. Cheers
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| dumblonde Senior Member 2352 Posts 7/00 | That would be much more cause for concern I would think, so your post seems rather mean-spirited. Then again, consider Dave Hardman's mother - she doesn't look like suicide is on her mind, or any killing spree. Unless it's possible to gum someone to death! |
| tricia_devereaux Evil Angel DVD Patience is a virtue, but who wants to be virtuous? 4283 Posts 4/00 | Although there are a lot of "misguided" girls who do a few videos and then realize they shouldn't have, for their own personal reasons, I really believe that the majority of the girls in today's porn really know what they're getting into. In fact, many of them, (like me) probably researched it first, the same as any of you might research a new career choice. I'm always amazed at the intelligence of SO many of the girls who are the stars of porn today. Look at all the girls who have become business women within the industry, whether it's as a director, company owner, website owner, feature dancer (and yes, I consider that a business)... Anyway, to answer your question... My mother is the same - she would LOVE for me to "get a real job". When I first told her about me in porn, I had already been doing vids for 6 months. She "disowned me" for about 3 months, but still wrote to me telling me how much she loved me, she was just too shocked to be able to see me right then. Before the holidays that year, I called her and told her that if she wanted to see me, I'd fly her to LA. She accepted, and we've been friends again ever since. Most of her good friends even know what I do and just say, "Kids will be kids". Now I visit with her several times a year. In fact, after I got HIV, she let me stay with her for awhile to get out of the heat of things and just get myself together. I actually believe that Wendy and I are not in the minority when it comes to our parents. I've heard most girls and guys say "yeah, they know and they don't like it, but they still love me". Finally, I think that most of the parents who do have problems that they can't reconcile about their children being in porn can't get over it mostly because they don't want others to look at them as bad parents. Sure, there's lots of people out there who simply don't like porn and really wouldn't like their children to be doing it simply because of what it is. But social pressure is very influential even when it comes to family. |
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