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less_talk_more_work
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36 Posts
5/06
Posted - Jun 16 2008 : 2:21AM
I love watching porn (what a surprise ha? ) and I’ve been watching it for many years now. I watch it (and please myself naturally) no matter if I am single at that time (meaning having random real sex) or in a relationship (meaning constant sex).
Moreover when I have a girlfriend I tend to be much more horny and watch even more. I have noticed in the last years that my porn preferences and what turns me on is many times related to my real life sex. If it some kind of physical feature my girl has that I look for in the porn I watch, positions we have more than others and other things.
I learned that porn many times turns me on mostly when it reminds if of what I have in real life and not as a fantasy provider for stuff I don’t do or have in my sex life.
The best example is what I am going through in the last few months. I never was a big fan of anal sex porn. Even in my real sex life I never made a big deal of anal sex and that’s because the relatively few girls that I met who were really into it and enjoyed it all through and not as a once a year “birthday present”. I don’t like doing things that my partner isn’t really into it. In parallel, I never liked anal sex porn too much and it wasn’t such a turn on to me.
But lately the god of sex has sent me a sexy chick, which I found to be a real “back door” lover, and she is really into it and does it with an amazing ease and comfort.
The other bonuses she posses are a slim figure with full beautiful tits (a thing not easy to find) The result was that first I fell in love with her (it was inevitable as you must imagine..) and the other result was that I really began to looove anal sex scenes in my porn, especially with anal cream pies. It blows me a way to see it and think that it resembles so much my current sex life. Add to the porn scene nice tits on the chick and I in heaven
What do you think of it? Do most man (and women) like porn as a fantasy provider or stimulator or many also like it as a “mirror” to their real life sex.
I would like you to let me on your thoughts on the issue.
Have a great week everybody
Edited by - less_talk_more_work on Jun 16 2008
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 16 2008 : 5:54AM
Dude, it's a poll.
RandomPrecision
Senior Member

Enjoy!
8175 Posts
3/06
Posted - Jun 16 2008 : 5:57AM
Oh, and it's never the same thing from one day to the next with me. I try to avoid uniformity if at all possible. Otherwise, I'd be bored out of my mind as a human in a week.
Porn is mostly fantasy and as such, there are so many possibilities that it can actually be hard to make up your mind what to jerk off to this time.
less_talk_more_work
Member

36 Posts
5/06
Posted - Jun 17 2008 : 9:26AM
thanks for your comment.
I didn't mean it to sound like a poll. more interested in sharing my view and personal taste and hearing from others how their taste in porn "evolved" through the years.
i agree with you that taste in porn varies widely as you go a long, but as i said i found that my real life sex character is one major determinant for my taste in porn.
backdoorman
Senior Member

Shake for me girl... I wanna be your backdoorman !
2776 Posts
10/07
Posted - Jun 17 2008 : 10:34AM
I think a little of both for me. There are some things that I enjoy in porn that I like in my personal sex life and there are some things I like that I would never attempt in reality.
 
digital_funkster
self-removed

16 Posts
6/08
Posted - Jun 17 2008 : 11:09AM
The things I like in porn reflect what I do in my real life. HOwever, I think that is just a coincidence because my girlfriend has evolved into an extremely dirty girl. So basically I completely porno fuck my girlfriend. Whatever you see in the most raunchiest of porn i do with her...including golden showers. I'm a lucky guy.
DAF1740
Member

305 Posts
9/06
Posted - Jun 17 2008 : 4:50PM
In some respects, porn has had a big influence on my sex life. There are a lot of things that I was never interested in trying until I saw them in porn, liked them, and started watching them over and over again. Now, they've either become frequent aspects of my sex life, or are still in the "talking" phase (i.e., "so when can we. . .," etc.).
Other things I like in porn (like heavy S&M and rape) are just pure fantasy and I would never want to try them in reality.
For the most part, I like watching things that I don't do too often, haven't done yet, or would never even want to. Then again, it all depends on the performer, too.
Hardware All-Star Supporter
All-Star Member

Your other left
14595 Posts
3/02
Posted - Jun 17 2008 : 5:35PM
I approach porn as a visual fantasy, which is completely different from how I approach sex with a woman. I didn't get around to watching hardcore porn until I was sexually experienced, so I already knew what I liked and there really wasn't much porn could teach me.
Big Raider Fan
Member

Ready and willing
133 Posts
8/07
Posted - Jun 18 2008 : 12:51PM
+1.
Orthocyclen
Member

40 Posts
9/07
Posted - Jun 18 2008 : 7:56PM
I am blessed with a girlfriend who I not only love (and feels the same way in return :) ), but have extremely great sex with. A lot of what I love in real life reflects my porn tastes and vice versa.
1. girls in stockings and garter belts
2. great oral sex with dirty talk and great handwork
If porn has directly influenced my sex life, it's that my girlfriend now does my two favorite things in the world: 1. Jenna Haze's Swizzle Stick Stroke and 2. Aurora Snow's 2 Finger Corkscrew. Some of the best orgasm experiences ever.
gainsbarre
Member

You can be crazy or ugly, but not both.
122 Posts
6/04
Posted - Jun 18 2008 : 9:24PM
It's gone both ways for me. There are things I thought about doing way before I ever saw them in porn and things that didn't occur to me until I saw them in porn.
I can remember as a kid looking at the girls in Playboy and be turned on by, of all things, their feet. I wouldn't see a foot fetish flick until years later, but that particular kink was already there.
Conversely, I didn't start getting into rougher sex, until I saw it in a film.
So, porn has served as validation and inspiration to my kinks!
BTW, as an aside, the thing that really got me hot in those old Playboys wasn't the pictorials, but the Annie Fanny cartoons. That and repeated exposure to Carolyn Jones in Addams Family re-runs forever determined my taste in women.
Edited by - gainsbarre on 6/18/2008 9:25:54 PM



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