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ronkarkavice
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25 Posts
3/08
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 2:27AM
It is such a turn of for me when a star gets a boyfriend or husband. It just totally ruins the fantasy for me. Not like I am thinking of hooking up with them. But, I just like to think they meet a new guy every night and get pounded. This is why I just can't get into someone like Sasha Grey. Everytime I read an article or see something they show the boyfriend. Does anyone else share the same frustrations?
MrFuckinSunshine
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274 Posts
12/05
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 3:35AM
Hell I barely think about the guy they're in the scene with let alone some boyfriend or husband off-screen. It's just fantasy anyway.
Ramsey
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10332 Posts
10/02
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 4:30AM
Why should I worry about some boyfriend or husband? Why should I make a moral judgement about that?
elgringoviejo58
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1460 Posts
1/07
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 7:17AM
Agree with MrFuckinSunshine on this one.
wheat
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1131 Posts
4/06
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 8:52AM
I guess if you are actually deluded enough to think the girls screw these random guys for enjoyment rather than money then knowing they have a bf could upset you.
I find things like half the performers having one std or another much more disturbing than some chick having a bf.

 
sickguy
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736 Posts
9/06
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 9:46AM
Yeah I agree about the STD thing. I remember hearing Belladonna once say that almost everyone in the industry has something. I was like
I kind figured that was weeded out these days for the most part. I pretty wrong on that front.
Edited by - sickguy on 4/12/2008 2:23:27 PM
ninja1
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2939 Posts
1/08
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 10:02AM
How about changing reading sources, so as to avoid such articles that get into personal lives.
Leyden
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8757 Posts
1/04
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 10:05AM
What is a "turn of?"
HeyNow All-Star Supporter
Oblivious

Gold Star Hey!
5965 Posts
1/03
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 10:12AM
MrFuckin has never made so much sense!
+100! What would I care about husbands?
Dave_K99
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497 Posts
12/07
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 11:44AM
I always think it's nice when a performer doesn't fit the "porn star" stereotype and appears to have a stable and long term relationship.
I'm sure that purely fucking strangers for money would be a pretty lonely life for a lot of people. Good for them if they can find someone to share their life with, someone who doesn't mind what they do for a living.
Double Vag Lover
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306 Posts
2/07
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 12:40PM
True, no matter how hard to imagine your girl getting pounded by someone else on a weekly(?) basis. I read in a blog that Amy Ried's boyfriend was one of the load donors in her Baker's Dozen scene. No clue if true, not trying to start rumors.
Hannah Westxxx
Member

The classy side of shameless
506 Posts
8/07
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 1:20PM
I have a boyfriend. And I have never cared who's fantasy that ruins.. I would rather fail for my honesty than lie for my sucess.
Besides.. do you have any idea how hard it it for us to date 'normal' people? It's HARD.
I also don't post pictures about him.. but on occasion I do write about things we might be going through in a forum. He's never particapted in anything I do. He has never been to cali, to sets, or even shows. He's just a normal guy. I pretty much live a double life.
But we still toy with the idea of going ot random bars to see who could get pussy first. I love that game. I always win.
And as far as stds.. I appreciate AIM and all.. but I still go to my gyno once a month for a full pelvic. Hooking up with random, normal people is something I veiw as more of a threat. Most people walking down the street don't have papers. I'd rather go home to the boyfriend. (tho he's in Iraq right now).. so really, I go home to my toy box.
Hannah West ;)
Edited by - Hannah Westxxx on 4/12/2008 1:22:51 PM
Edited by - Hannah Westxxx on 4/15/2008 6:51:32 PM
Uppercut
Member

74 Posts
3/08
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 1:27PM
The only reason a porn star's boyfriend would bother me is if she will only do scenes with said boyfriend. This is especially annoying if said boyfriend has a small cock that cannot stay hard. (I'm looking at you, Stracy Stone.)
wheat
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You want a toe? I can get you a toe
1131 Posts
4/06
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 2:50PM
true, although in porn there is no protection.
Im no longer in the dating scene myself but when i was i always protected myself, i just can't imagine in this day and age how people would or could be stupid enough to have unprotected sex with people they just met.
That's assuming the average person isn't stark raving mad which of course is probably assuming a bit much.

killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
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18634 Posts
4/08
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 3:01PM
While I don't quite share his level of concern about it, I do understand what the OP is trying to say. Sometimes it's nice to keep the fantasy in your head that a particular star is there for you if you wanted her to be (as well as being there for every other cock & pussy that wants her too, LOL). Finding out she has a S.O. kind of brings the reality home that porn really is just her job, and she lives a 'normal' life just like the rest of us when not on camera (well, maybe a little bit more promiscuous in some cases, but still). I used to not understand this feeling, but recently I found out Dana DeArmond (one of my faves) has a boyfriend/husband/whatever, and for about 2 seconds, I was jealous. I got over it, of course, but I think that was the first time I actually FELT that feeling, and so now I guess I understand. I think part of it may have to do with the fact that I appreciate her for more than just her performances, but also for her personality (from what I know of it from interviews, etc.) and so there's that little bit more hope than for other stars that I don't know anything about.
Basically, it's the same when you meet someone in the 'real' world, and you think they're hot and interesting and whatever; you don't really KNOW them yet, but you like what you know about them so far, and so your imagination can't help but start to get rolling about what could happen, even if there's no chance (ex: a coworker in an office where dating employees isn't allowed). Even if you're not thinking about it in realistic terms of "I could date her", you still think about her a bit. And then if you find out she's dating someone, there's that little pang of jealousy. But if you're a relatively normal, well-adjusted person, that jealousy goes away pretty quickly because you knew there was never any chance anyway. Well, it was kinda like that for me with Dana. I didn't 'know' her, but I knew enough about her to know that I like her sense of humour, and I knew we both come from a similar punk rock background, both straight edge, etc. So it's only natural your head starts to roll with the idea of something more, even if you don't realize you're doing it. When I saw/read about/saw video clips of her boyfriend, and realized he seems like a pretty cool guy who's probably a bit like me/from a similar cultural background as me (although obviously much more lucky!), of course the first little thought is "oh man, that could have been me!" - but this only lasted a brief moment, and then I was back to enjoying her as an awesome pornstar who has given me lots of orgasms, and that's it. I'm sure tons of you can sympathize with this somewhat. It's just that the OP stated it in much stronger language than most of us would feel/use.
 
wheat
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You want a toe? I can get you a toe
1131 Posts
4/06
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 3:06PM

KIll i think ninja maybe said it right.
If the fantasy is so important then i would say the only way to maintain that is:
1. don't watch bts stuff.
2. don't try and find out too much about the real person behind the performance.
3. don't read forums like this as you are going to find out things which will seriously affect any fantasies you have about the girls.
Edited by - wheat on 4/12/2008 3:07:42 PM
killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
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18634 Posts
4/08
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 3:46PM
^True, fair enough wheat. The fantasy isn't THAT important to me, as I mentioned in my post - I guess I was just trying to say that the OP maybe isn't quite so out to lunch as some of the posters were making them seem.
jizzyjay
Member

914 Posts
10/07
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 6:12PM
Who the F&*k cares if they have a boyfriend or husband.The last thing I want to read on this board is some porno chic talking about her boyfriend or husband or whomever
SashaGrey
Member

472 Posts
7/06
Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 9:27PM
I love how "newer" members always use my name as reference. As far as I know, there aren't too many pictures or articles about Ian and I....I mean my boyfriend...I mean that one guy, never-mind!
the fuck junkie ♠
wcw43921
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Look Into My Eyes--
1252 Posts
4/08
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 12:03AM
The only way it would bother me about a female star having a husband/boyfriend--and mind you, it would only bother me a little bit, and only for a little while--is it the star in question would only do girls, or her husband/boyfriend on camera, because she wants to be "faithful." While I respect her right to make that choice, it just seems to me that if a woman is doing porn, she's already being "unfaithful," so she might as well do other men.
But like I said, this only bothers me a little bit. Heck, I didn't realize until after she left porn that Blondi Bee only did girls and her boyfriend Tony Montana.
Now women who will only do other women on camera and then escort--they're just being hypocritical.
"There can never be too many beautiful women Hypnotized for our pleasure."
Leyden
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8757 Posts
1/04
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 12:20AM
Hannah, I hope he comes home to you safe and sound.... and soon.
Nobody
Member

19 Posts
4/08
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 3:42AM
I love the idea of one of these girls in the business coming home to me after a scene.
Johnothan Pedak
Senior Member

Catastrophe
1594 Posts
6/07
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 4:45AM
Regular Guy: How was your day, sweetie?
Pornstar: I did a blowbang and swallowed all their loads. You?
Regular Guy: The copier ran out of paper.
Pornstar: Brutal.
Edited by - Johnothan Pedak on 4/13/2008 4:46:00 AM
satchman23
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1906 Posts
12/06
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 5:14AM
LOL!
Tony Soprano
Member

20 Posts
3/08
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 5:15AM
LOL!!!
Some people just don't know how to use their imagination when it comes to watching your various scenes.
 
xy
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9 Posts
4/08
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 5:24AM
I don't think the boyfriends and husbands who "love" these women ruin the fantasy at all, if I understand your fantasy right.
Texan
Member

167 Posts
3/04
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 8:26AM
It doesn't bother me at all for porn babe to have a boyfriend/husband. In fact, I think it's kind of a turn-on that she has a stable relationship and still does kinky stuff w/ groups of guys on film. I also like the idea of pornstars having stability and support in their lives -- maybe they'll be able to stay in the business longer.
Creampie Caper
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59 Posts
2/08
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 8:33AM
I can't even imagine the thought process of one's boyfriend in a combat zone who might not make it home and his girl is in the states in gonzo porn. WTF?
Creampie Caper
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59 Posts
2/08
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 10:04AM
Not to pass judgement, if the girl and b-friend.husband are happy good for them. I "watch" gonzo porn for one reason to see such lush babes like Ms. West to skip the plot and have her holes plowed by cocks, that's why is gonzo.
Ms. Grey stunning too, great gangbang.
Draxxx
Senior Member

3831 Posts
2/07
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 12:42PM
I could care less about a girl having a boyfriend or husband. Unless I know the girl in real life and have an attraction to her and trying to get into her pants I don't even think of such things. With porn especially I look at it as the boyfriend or hubby is just another guy other than me that's getting to bang her...or that she's already hooked up and she's still doing all thse other guys maybe I have a shot too.
Hannah Westxxx
Member

The classy side of shameless
506 Posts
8/07
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 3:55PM
I still play a damn good pen pal.. I always make time for him.. I got home on lock..
I wash his car.
I clean his things.
I get his mail and make sure his bills are paid. (through his accounts)
then.. I do me..
I live 3 lives to be technical.
and wtf
I'm 20...
a normal 20 yr old would be out clubbing and doing some off the wall shit. I come home and read the dictonary.
sounds better than the stories I hear about wifes that take all their husbands money.. or they come home on RandR to find the wife in HIS bed with some retard fuck.
He's number one. In our relationship, that's all that matters.
Hannah West ;)
backdoorman
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Shake for me girl... I wanna be your backdoorman !
2776 Posts
10/07
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 5:04PM
^ You definitely are the exception rather than the rule Hannah. Good for you.
Hypermastia
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These R The Buttocks Of Ryan Star: No Butt Can Compare
248 Posts
6/07
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 5:29PM
I Would Luuuuuuuv To Have A Woman Like Gianna or Brandy Talore (too many others to list) as a Wife Or Girlfriend...........
So long as we could always watch EVERY SINGLE LAST ONE OF HER SCENES TOGETHER.
Especially the facial movies.......In Slow Motion
DanaDeArmond
Porn Unicorn

TheInternetsGirlfriend.com
2786 Posts
1/06
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 9:06PM
im confused
backdoorman
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Shake for me girl... I wanna be your backdoorman !
2776 Posts
10/07
Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 9:16PM
Me too. Why watch when you have the real thing beside you?
 
DanaDeArmond
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TheInternetsGirlfriend.com
2786 Posts
1/06
Posted - Apr 14 2008 : 2:27AM
my boyfriend is cool and we are both in adult film.
i like having a nice stable home life and having a partner who understands my lifestyle and career from first hand experience.
and he's super cute too.
Draxxx
Senior Member

3831 Posts
2/07
Posted - Apr 14 2008 : 9:33PM
A girl's personal life doesn't affect my viewing in any real way except...there was title I watched that was a MILF movie and before every scene each girl did an interview and told how many kids she had and their ages. I guess there are people out there who need/want to know that type of stuff so they can accept the performers as real MILFs but I just found it to be a strange and unneeded turn off.
jehosafats
Member

25 Posts
9/07
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 7:33AM
More or less the scourge of the industry
Hypermastia
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These R The Buttocks Of Ryan Star: No Butt Can Compare
248 Posts
6/07
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 2:17PM
How Is Watching Your Porno Star Girlfriend's Movies Wrong?
I'm not talking about every day, or just getting a Handjob while you watch together.
I'm talking about doing it doggystyle in front of a Big TV so you can both watch and F at the same time.
wheat
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You want a toe? I can get you a toe
1131 Posts
4/06
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 3:14PM
hyper i have to ask which young lady is that in your avatar?
melaniescottxxx
Member

75 Posts
10/07
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 9:40PM
+1 To the above statement.
jrsl76
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Perfection
4024 Posts
8/07
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 9:50PM
Melanie Scott is back and with a fantastic avatar to boot. Hell yeah!
melaniescottxxx
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75 Posts
10/07
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 10:02PM
Thank you it's a cool booty shot.Your so sweet to notice.
killbillvol69 All-Star Supporter
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18634 Posts
4/08
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 10:31PM
^Hell YEAH it's a cool booty shot! Wow! Very sexy, Melanie.
backdoorman
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Shake for me girl... I wanna be your backdoorman !
2776 Posts
10/07
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 10:40PM
Cool? I don't think so. Very very hot !!!
jrsl76
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Perfection
4024 Posts
8/07
Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 11:18PM
Melanie has a FANTASTIC booty. BTW, I saw your Schoolgirl POV scene and it was great (I've actually liked all of your scenes I've viewed). Even better than the scene was the bts. You looked incredible in the little blazer. And that booty, very nice!
Hypermastia
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These R The Buttocks Of Ryan Star: No Butt Can Compare
248 Posts
6/07
Posted - Apr 16 2008 : 11:32AM
To answer your question, Wheat and MelanieXXX, those are the buttocks of none other than the all too briefly seen RYAN STAR. She made so few Sex Films. Luckily her perfect little 18-Year-Old ass is preserved on DVD for all time.
My god, her cover photo on Deep Throat This 14, alone.....
phatbasey
Senior Member

1390 Posts
1/05
Posted - Apr 16 2008 : 12:20PM
The bottom line for me is that I could care less if they have a boyfriend as long as he is not fucking up my good time. If he is the reason she is no longer doing men, blowjobs etc...then yes it does piss me off. Personally I think Nicole Sheridan's case is the craziest that she will only work with other men if Voodoo is in the scene...this type of shit makes me scratch my head.
Endless Loop
Senior Member

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1129 Posts
8/04
Posted - Apr 17 2008 : 5:32AM
My fantasy typically ends with the cumshots.
In fact, I often hope theres a special someone, waiting to comfort them at home after a brutal anal gangbang leaves her all gooey inside.
Aplus
Senior Member

1431 Posts
5/05
Posted - Apr 17 2008 : 2:46PM
I've seen Nicole in scenes without him, so that must not be an always steadfast rule with her. I saw her get fucked by Chris Cannon in a movie a while, and Voodoo wasn't in it.
I normally get tired of watching a woman fuck the same guy all the time, but Nicole would be an exception to most general rules with me.



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