It is such a turn of for me when a star gets a boyfriend or husband. It just totally ruins the fantasy for me. Not like I am thinking of hooking up with them. But, I just like to think they meet a new guy every night and get pounded. This is why I just can't get into someone like Sasha Grey. Everytime I read an article or see something they show the boyfriend. Does anyone else share the same frustrations?
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Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 8:52AM
I guess if you are actually deluded enough to think the girls screw these random guys for enjoyment rather than money then knowing they have a bf could upset you. I find things like half the performers having one std or another much more disturbing than some chick having a bf.
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Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 9:46AM
Yeah I agree about the STD thing. I remember hearing Belladonna once say that almost everyone in the industry has something. I was like I kind figured that was weeded out these days for the most part. I pretty wrong on that front. Edited by - sickguy on 4/12/2008 2:23:27 PM
I always think it's nice when a performer doesn't fit the "porn star" stereotype and appears to have a stable and long term relationship. I'm sure that purely fucking strangers for money would be a pretty lonely life for a lot of people. Good for them if they can find someone to share their life with, someone who doesn't mind what they do for a living.
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Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 12:40PM
True, no matter how hard to imagine your girl getting pounded by someone else on a weekly(?) basis. I read in a blog that Amy Ried's boyfriend was one of the load donors in her Baker's Dozen scene. No clue if true, not trying to start rumors.
I have a boyfriend. And I have never cared who's fantasy that ruins.. I would rather fail for my honesty than lie for my sucess. Besides.. do you have any idea how hard it it for us to date 'normal' people? It's HARD. I also don't post pictures about him.. but on occasion I do write about things we might be going through in a forum. He's never particapted in anything I do. He has never been to cali, to sets, or even shows. He's just a normal guy. I pretty much live a double life. But we still toy with the idea of going ot random bars to see who could get pussy first. I love that game. I always win. And as far as stds.. I appreciate AIM and all.. but I still go to my gyno once a month for a full pelvic. Hooking up with random, normal people is something I veiw as more of a threat. Most people walking down the street don't have papers. I'd rather go home to the boyfriend. (tho he's in Iraq right now).. so really, I go home to my toy box. Hannah West ;) Edited by - Hannah Westxxx on 4/12/2008 1:22:51 PM Edited by - Hannah Westxxx on 4/15/2008 6:51:32 PM
The only reason a porn star's boyfriend would bother me is if she will only do scenes with said boyfriend. This is especially annoying if said boyfriend has a small cock that cannot stay hard. (I'm looking at you, Stracy Stone.)
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Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 2:50PM
true, although in porn there is no protection. Im no longer in the dating scene myself but when i was i always protected myself, i just can't imagine in this day and age how people would or could be stupid enough to have unprotected sex with people they just met. That's assuming the average person isn't stark raving mad which of course is probably assuming a bit much.
While I don't quite share his level of concern about it, I do understand what the OP is trying to say. Sometimes it's nice to keep the fantasy in your head that a particular star is there for you if you wanted her to be (as well as being there for every other cock & pussy that wants her too, LOL). Finding out she has a S.O. kind of brings the reality home that porn really is just her job, and she lives a 'normal' life just like the rest of us when not on camera (well, maybe a little bit more promiscuous in some cases, but still). I used to not understand this feeling, but recently I found out Dana DeArmond (one of my faves) has a boyfriend/husband/whatever, and for about 2 seconds, I was jealous. I got over it, of course, but I think that was the first time I actually FELT that feeling, and so now I guess I understand. I think part of it may have to do with the fact that I appreciate her for more than just her performances, but also for her personality (from what I know of it from interviews, etc.) and so there's that little bit more hope than for other stars that I don't know anything about. Basically, it's the same when you meet someone in the 'real' world, and you think they're hot and interesting and whatever; you don't really KNOW them yet, but you like what you know about them so far, and so your imagination can't help but start to get rolling about what could happen, even if there's no chance (ex: a coworker in an office where dating employees isn't allowed). Even if you're not thinking about it in realistic terms of "I could date her", you still think about her a bit. And then if you find out she's dating someone, there's that little pang of jealousy. But if you're a relatively normal, well-adjusted person, that jealousy goes away pretty quickly because you knew there was never any chance anyway. Well, it was kinda like that for me with Dana. I didn't 'know' her, but I knew enough about her to know that I like her sense of humour, and I knew we both come from a similar punk rock background, both straight edge, etc. So it's only natural your head starts to roll with the idea of something more, even if you don't realize you're doing it. When I saw/read about/saw video clips of her boyfriend, and realized he seems like a pretty cool guy who's probably a bit like me/from a similar cultural background as me (although obviously much more lucky!), of course the first little thought is "oh man, that could have been me!" - but this only lasted a brief moment, and then I was back to enjoying her as an awesome pornstar who has given me lots of orgasms, and that's it. I'm sure tons of you can sympathize with this somewhat. It's just that the OP stated it in much stronger language than most of us would feel/use.
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Posted - Apr 12 2008 : 3:06PM
KIll i think ninja maybe said it right. If the fantasy is so important then i would say the only way to maintain that is: 1. don't watch bts stuff. 2. don't try and find out too much about the real person behind the performance. 3. don't read forums like this as you are going to find out things which will seriously affect any fantasies you have about the girls. Edited by - wheat on 4/12/2008 3:07:42 PM
^True, fair enough wheat. The fantasy isn't THAT important to me, as I mentioned in my post - I guess I was just trying to say that the OP maybe isn't quite so out to lunch as some of the posters were making them seem.
Who the F&*k cares if they have a boyfriend or husband.The last thing I want to read on this board is some porno chic talking about her boyfriend or husband or whomever
I love how "newer" members always use my name as reference. As far as I know, there aren't too many pictures or articles about Ian and I....I mean my boyfriend...I mean that one guy, never-mind! the fuck junkie ♠
The only way it would bother me about a female star having a husband/boyfriend--and mind you, it would only bother me a little bit, and only for a little while--is it the star in question would only do girls, or her husband/boyfriend on camera, because she wants to be "faithful." While I respect her right to make that choice, it just seems to me that if a woman is doing porn, she's already being "unfaithful," so she might as well do other men. But like I said, this only bothers me a little bit. Heck, I didn't realize until after she left porn that Blondi Bee only did girls and her boyfriend Tony Montana. Now women who will only do other women on camera and then escort--they're just being hypocritical. "There can never be too many beautiful women Hypnotized for our pleasure."
Regular Guy: How was your day, sweetie? Pornstar: I did a blowbang and swallowed all their loads. You? Regular Guy: The copier ran out of paper. Pornstar: Brutal. Edited by - Johnothan Pedak on 4/13/2008 4:46:00 AM
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It doesn't bother me at all for porn babe to have a boyfriend/husband. In fact, I think it's kind of a turn-on that she has a stable relationship and still does kinky stuff w/ groups of guys on film. I also like the idea of pornstars having stability and support in their lives -- maybe they'll be able to stay in the business longer.
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Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 8:33AM
I can't even imagine the thought process of one's boyfriend in a combat zone who might not make it home and his girl is in the states in gonzo porn. WTF?
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Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 10:04AM
Not to pass judgement, if the girl and b-friend.husband are happy good for them. I "watch" gonzo porn for one reason to see such lush babes like Ms. West to skip the plot and have her holes plowed by cocks, that's why is gonzo. Ms. Grey stunning too, great gangbang.
I could care less about a girl having a boyfriend or husband. Unless I know the girl in real life and have an attraction to her and trying to get into her pants I don't even think of such things. With porn especially I look at it as the boyfriend or hubby is just another guy other than me that's getting to bang her...or that she's already hooked up and she's still doing all thse other guys maybe I have a shot too.
I still play a damn good pen pal.. I always make time for him.. I got home on lock.. I wash his car. I clean his things. I get his mail and make sure his bills are paid. (through his accounts) then.. I do me.. I live 3 lives to be technical. and wtf I'm 20... a normal 20 yr old would be out clubbing and doing some off the wall shit. I come home and read the dictonary. sounds better than the stories I hear about wifes that take all their husbands money.. or they come home on RandR to find the wife in HIS bed with some retard fuck. He's number one. In our relationship, that's all that matters. Hannah West ;)
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Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 5:04PM
^ You definitely are the exception rather than the rule Hannah. Good for you.
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Posted - Apr 13 2008 : 5:29PM
I Would Luuuuuuuv To Have A Woman Like Gianna or Brandy Talore (too many others to list) as a Wife Or Girlfriend........... So long as we could always watch EVERY SINGLE LAST ONE OF HER SCENES TOGETHER. Especially the facial movies.......In Slow Motion
my boyfriend is cool and we are both in adult film. i like having a nice stable home life and having a partner who understands my lifestyle and career from first hand experience. and he's super cute too.
A girl's personal life doesn't affect my viewing in any real way except...there was title I watched that was a MILF movie and before every scene each girl did an interview and told how many kids she had and their ages. I guess there are people out there who need/want to know that type of stuff so they can accept the performers as real MILFs but I just found it to be a strange and unneeded turn off.
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Posted - Apr 15 2008 : 2:17PM
How Is Watching Your Porno Star Girlfriend's Movies Wrong? I'm not talking about every day, or just getting a Handjob while you watch together. I'm talking about doing it doggystyle in front of a Big TV so you can both watch and F at the same time.
Melanie has a FANTASTIC booty. BTW, I saw your Schoolgirl POV scene and it was great (I've actually liked all of your scenes I've viewed). Even better than the scene was the bts. You looked incredible in the little blazer. And that booty, very nice!
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Posted - Apr 16 2008 : 11:32AM
To answer your question, Wheat and MelanieXXX, those are the buttocks of none other than the all too briefly seen RYAN STAR. She made so few Sex Films. Luckily her perfect little 18-Year-Old ass is preserved on DVD for all time. My god, her cover photo on Deep Throat This 14, alone.....
The bottom line for me is that I could care less if they have a boyfriend as long as he is not fucking up my good time. If he is the reason she is no longer doing men, blowjobs etc...then yes it does piss me off. Personally I think Nicole Sheridan's case is the craziest that she will only work with other men if Voodoo is in the scene...this type of shit makes me scratch my head.
My fantasy typically ends with the cumshots. In fact, I often hope theres a special someone, waiting to comfort them at home after a brutal anal gangbang leaves her all gooey inside.
I've seen Nicole in scenes without him, so that must not be an always steadfast rule with her. I saw her get fucked by Chris Cannon in a movie a while, and Voodoo wasn't in it. I normally get tired of watching a woman fuck the same guy all the time, but Nicole would be an exception to most general rules with me.