This is a two questions i would like to ask all our awesome porn star members.
1) When you have friends that are also porn stars, are their times where you would have sex with them outside the business. (Ex: You (porn star) and a friend (another porn star) hang out and have a couple of drinks or whatever. Then take them back to the pad and just ravish them.)
2)Do you have any friends that are not in the porn business? And how is the relationships? Any fans the are friends too?
I have friends in the business that hang out with us at home and we all get together and play at times. We also have friends that are not in the business that we get together with and do other things with. We might go out to dinner or a movie. We do have friends that are not in the business that we have played with before. But, most of our playing comes from the people that are in the business. As for fans... well I do have a fan or two that I see here and there. But, I never play with them on a physical level. I may visit with my fans. I have fans that I consider friends that have come to visit me. But, I only play with my close friends that are either in the business or that I've known for a very long time. As for the relationship that we have with others that aren't in the business.. you could say that it's normal. We talk about other things that aren't even related to the industry and we do things that would be considered more geeky than anything. For instance: Eric and I both love to play Dungeons and Dragons on weekends. The people we play with know we are in the industry but, we don't really talk about it much. We are all usually talking about our characters or the last game.. or when we're going to go see the new Lord of the Rings movie.. or even whether we think the next episode of Star Wars is going to be any good. Eric and I go to the comic book store and game store every week. And, the people there know what we do. But, all in all we're just regular people. Sometimes we talk about the industry and other times it's mostly about what we're looking for that day. Usually some new figures or dice. I guess you could say we have our friends that we play with that are in the industry and we have our friends that we "play" with outside the industry. You would just have to be specific about what type of playing we're doing.
Wow, now I've heard everything. Everyone I know who plays D&D pretty much fits the stereotype of geek/pimple faced adolescent/social misfit, and most of all MALE. I used to play D&D as well, and I fit the stereotype to a certain extent. I've never met a girl who played, nevermind a gorgeous beauty like Wendy Divine ;) Personally I think I'd have a hard time concentrating on the game if she were in my group :P
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When I was single, there was one girl star that I played around with. We had been very good friends for about a year first. There was also a guy that I had lusted after before I even did my first video. After we finally worked together, we "dated" for a few weeks, but we both knew it was almost 100% physical.
Being a company owner's wife, I try not to have too many friends from the business (at least not performers) because it's too hard to tell who likes me and who likes the chance to work for Evil Angel.
John and I have some good friends who are not in the adult business at all. Sometimes we talk about work the same as anyone else would, but mostly we talk about sports or traveling, or stuff people consider everyday. I've had a couple friends who started out as fans, but now I spend most of my time working or at home.
Hey Tricia, wanna ask u something about John. Now being a husband and father, has he quit about watching porn tapes at home (I mean for fun, not for work) ?
It's like when watching Rocco late videos, he doesn't look like he is enjoying shooting anymore. It's more like he's doing his job than really having fun on set. Maybe it's marriage.
delijoe: I love to play fantasy role playing games. I've played D&D, Paladium, Star Wars and Rifts. It's fun for me. Gives me that opportunity to escape. It's also my day to just be bummy, wear sweat pants and a t-shirt with my hair pulled back. No makeup and eat junk food most of the day. hehehehe.. I do have to admit though I love playing the pretty races. I have a drow that is drop dead gorgeous.. and of course a wood elf too. Just can't help it.. I've even got a picture/poster of a drow drawn by Elmore that I've had framed and it sits on the wall above my desk. She's awesome. And, finally someone that knows how to draw the drow race. Thank you... !!!! I'm sure if you got to anyone of his sites you'll find the picture I'm referring to. delijoe: in case you are interested you might see a photo on this site of my character.. this site is our Game Master's site.. he updates it fairly regularly. It just has a few things about our campaign and our characters.. :) check it out if you like http://home.pacbell.net/ss2020/ Anyway, that is me.. the geeky side. I read fantasy books from the Forgotten Realms and from Dragon Lance. And, I also read books from other areas like Science and Metaphysics. I could go on but, I think I'm getting a little too thrilled about my geekiness.. hehehe But, to confirm... I have friends that are both in the business and out of the business.. it's nice to be able to have that. There is a nice balance for us that way. If we want to be extreme in either sense we have the outlets to do so. It really does make for a healthy, happy relationship in many ways. hugs
Well it's sort of a long story. I'll try to be brief. Eric and I met several times before we actually MET. It wasn't until we started talking to each other that we realised how many times we had met before dating. Basically, he and I both lived in Orlando Fl. This was about maybe 8-10years ago. At that time both of us were seeing other people. I was signing autographs at comic book conventions for my Hustler magazine layouts. I was signing trading cards that were taken from that layout. I had flown to Atlanta to do a signing and while I was there at the Diamond convention so was Eric and some of his friends. They were there because they used to work at a comic book store and they were of course "shopping" I guess. Apparently, one of Eric's friends came up to me and got an autograph at the time. But, Eric and I didn't talk while at that show. He just says that he saw me.. well I think he did say we spoke but, I don't remember that. Anyway, years go by and now Eric is head of security at the largest night club in downtown Orlando. During that time I use to go the club all the time. I went with friends and of course whoever I was dating. Eric used to see me come in all the time. He told me he even joked to his security guys about me. The idea behind these jokes of course was about sex... go figure. Well, Eric also owned his own security company which he was often hired for large 20,000 people raves. .. well because I was a club goer.. and because I knew all the DJ's and a lot of people at that time... I was always VIP at the raves.. got in for free.. and was always in the areas that noone else could go. That would be where Eric would be making sure that the private areas were kept private for those that were there spinning. So, I would see him escorting people out and I always got to stay because of who I knew. But, I remember seeing him do so. These type of things kept happening for a while... we'd see each other but, I never knew who he was because I was always dating someone else. He was too from what he says.. but, he was much more of a male slut.. heheheh.. After a while... he finally came into where I was working. I was dancing at a club just outside of Orlando. Totally nude club. I remember dancing on stage that night and when I looked up I saw him and two of his friends walk in and sit down. As he sat down he pointed to me directly and told a waitress that he wanted a dance from me. He didn't even have to ask. For some reason the minute he walked in I felt the need to talk to him. It was like I knew him and I had to know how. That minute froze for me. As soon as I got down from the stage I went directly over and told the waitress I was already heading there. When I got to the table his friend asked me if I was the Hustler girl.. did I ever attend a convention in Atlanta etc.... it was really funny.... and neat that I was meeting someone that had seen me there.. as we kept talking I think we realised that we had even taken the same polaroid from the show. You can take a photo with Wolverine and Captain America... we both have an identical photo with both of those characters. Proving that we were both there. It is really quite odd. Anyway, that night my boyfriend was there at the bar. I had even told Eric so.. he was also dating someone else. He told me that if I ever wanted to come to the club he'd let me in for free. Well I never did take him up on it .. so about two weeks later.. he showed up again.. this time we talked and I gave him my number. I told him when to call.. and then it started.. both of us started to see each other.. and we couldn't stop it. Eventually we both managed to break the hearts of the ones we were with. That is another long story. But, as time went on we just knew we wanted to be together. Things progressed and he became the general manager of the night club he was working at... and about two months after we were seeing each other he asked me to marry him... I didn't believe him for the longest time.. but, I said yes... two years after meeting we were married. And, quite happy ever since. The way I see it we were meant to be. Nothing could stop that. For us we see it as Fate. We were like two magnets that just couldn't resist the force. I've never been happier... more in love... more alive with someone... I've never felt like I do with him with anyone else. We are both individuals and very independant... we're both strong characters... and very much add to each other's personality. We can stand alone or together on something.. but, we tend to always be a great team. I've been blessed and quite lucky to find the one that completes me. What can I say more... I'm happy.
I would have to say that I am pretty sure that Eric and I are the only people in the business that play D&D. We play several fantasy realm games. But, I think we're pretty unique in this instance. If I find anyone else that does... I'll let you guys know. I really think it's fun.. and quite interesting.. and it's also still very popular. There is a new edition.. 3rd to be exact.. and the fantasy worlds grow every year. But, once again I'm getting a little excited about my geekiness. hugs
Wendy Divine played D&D... There's some great stuff in these old threads. Steph and Drew, we need an 'ADT Heritage Month' or something, where posters are encouraged to review the Board's history. Any other porn stars play fantasy role playing games these days? 'The Sims' don't count.
Wow, Wendy Divine... Why didn't any of my D&D loving college mates look like her? She really is any geek's dream girl. I wonder what she's up to these days?
I wanna know what was in the threads that got deleted across the years, or the ones from August/September 1999... There should be some sort of celebration in August 2009. The 10 Year gala. Any plans at this point Steph? I think we should petition to have you and Drew announce an award at the 2010 AVN Awards.
There weren't any posts between August and September 99. August was when I first installed the old UBB forum software on our original web server, a Cobalt RAQ2. At that point in time ADT was just a general concept and we weren't actively working on it.
