Well I feel like it's time to say goodbye to ADT as it's becoming to High School for me and I have a business to operate so for all of you who've been great thanks and to everyone else grow up already as it's getting to be a major turn off for us porn girls.
Well Jewel, I'm sorry to see that you won't be posting here, I have greatly enjoyed your posts telling us about the latest happenings at PXP and I'll still eagerly anticipate those dvds from you and hope that at some point you'll feel like coming back, I had no idea that you felt this way and I'm sorry to see you won't be around.
Jewel, I'd really hate to see you leave ADT over a little spat. As I said in that other thread, sometimes its best to take a break and cool off rather than to keep engaging in any more bickering. We're all here to have fun and socialize with other like-minded folks with an interest in pornography from around the globe. I know its easy to have feelings hurt and get into confrontations at forums like this but thats not really what ADT is about. I myself have engaged in not so civil behavior many times since I've been here but I've learned from this unpleasant experience and besides, its just not too healthy and very stressful for my well-being to harbor any ill-will from petty spats. ADT is about being open-minded to everyone's points of view and having respect for each other's thoughts and opinions, no matter how they may conflict with your own. Jewel, like I said before - relax, take a break and concentrate on other pressing matters going on in your life. As far as I'm concerned, you will always be welcome here and really would hate to see you leave permanently.
please don't let anyone run you away. you and the other adult film stars who post here give credence to the fact that intelligence is found all over the industry. so please don't let anyone who has questioned yours drive you off. hell, I don't even know what the arguement is about and I want you to stay.
Sorry to see you go Jewel. Sorry to see some people have problems treating porn stars in a respectful manner.
Now the sound of my voice is pumpin' in your chest More or less, I am here to tell u that I am the best --from Thieves in the Temple(remix) by Prince FREE THE WEED!!!
I apologize for the treatment you have received from one of the moderators here. That is not acceptable behavior for anyone on this site and especially not a moderator. I will deal with it on this end.
As for the porn vs. high school topic, I've been around this business since early 98 and have often compared it to high school when explaining it to non-industry folks.
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shoneshon Deactivated User
Los Angeles 25 Posts 5/03
Posted - Aug 22 2004 : 10:26PM
Are all of you losers or what? Jewel is dissing you guys on here saying its high school and you all need to grow up. She is even saying you guys are major turn offs for the porn girls! Then you all kiss her ass?? You guys are horrible, cant get girls in real life so you all fantasize about women who will never touch your greasy asses. Then they disrespect you and you take it with a smile. These girls are not to be put on pedestals, they are in porn, they are not stars, they are just there to watch them get banged. They cant do anything else thats why they do what they do.
I have no opinion about Jewel not posting hear anymore. Whether she deserves it or not, I have noticed that she's been getting attacked here lately.
Shoneshon, I agree to an extent. Some hear are constantly kissing ass and that's their choice. I don't believe the mods here expect us to do that. They do want us to treat the porn performers who come here with the same repect that we'd like to recieve. The same is expected of them. I don't think, or at least I hope, the pornstars who come here don't think they should be put on "pedestals" just because of the jobs they have. If so, they'll obviously be disappointed if they stick around long enough...
Seriously, don't go Jewel. I think I speak for the majority of us when I say it would be a travesty.
I do understand that the mood here at ADT has been changing, but really folks, it's just an online forum. I myself have been tempted to just say "fuck it" a few times now due to things said or done to me on the boards, but at the end of the day, who gives a shit?
People don't come here for emotional support (or at least they shouldn't), they come for the cornucopia of porn-related info and entertainment in general. Call me an asshat or remove my post from time to time - it's all part of participating in an online forum.
<Stick Neck Out Mode On>
That said, moderators are supposed to keep the boards in line, not flame the posters. Shame, shame dude. Somebody should apologize if they haven't already.
Jewel I think it is a mistake if you don't post here because I seriously believe if you don't sales of your PXP titles may drop. If you think about it PXP and Evil dominate ADT and it reflects on X-Rent DVD.com when every PXP or Evil title is released it is always rented out of copies the first day.
Good point, I rented lots of titles based on ADT news and opinions and I wouldn't even call myself a big member here. There gotta be hundreds of people here who post and follow more than me.
Man -- I guess I was dozing, I missed ALL the hubbub.
I hope Jewel will stick around. Porn is exactly like high school, and ADT does reflect that to some extent, but I'd enjoy it more if it didn't. Well, sometimes . Maybe we can all aspire to "freshman year in college."
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Spew Deactivated User
Bend over for the rod and staff of Jesus! 334 Posts 7/04
Posted - Aug 23 2004 : 1:41AM
i woudlnt stop buying a girls title simply because she made her free-choice not to come here. thats just stupid
Well I agree with Jewel but I think she should just take a break(let the dust settle and emotions cool). It happens a lot in forums were the people post and make trouble and forget to try and help people. I think if people post a problem they should at least do a little research as to possible solutions rather than thread crapping and running people off.
Jewel will be missed and hopefully it is a short break rather than forever.
Shoneshon, what exactly was kissing up in this thread? And she said that some are posters are great, but the ones who set a bad tone need to grow up, that the negativity is a turn-off. The rest was added by you.
That said, when producing a product some negative comments have to be expected. The whole six-sigma quality control thing as well as ISO9000 shows that errors will happen. I disagree with the way things were said in that thread, but the basic premise remains. People will take a faulty product personally. Getting personal about it will generally get a a persons back up. Bad things will probably ensue.
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Posted - Aug 23 2004 : 3:05AM
Edited by - John-O 76 on 8/23/2004 5:55:17 AM
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DIAMOND DOG Deactivated User
"Puff Daddy is crap." - Keith Richards 320 Posts 7/04
Posted - Aug 23 2004 : 5:43AM
Wow, that got bad fast for poor Jewel... And it was SERIOUSLY uncalled for. That was ugly behavior on some people's part. Very un-cool.
She had a problem with some DVD's? Okay, she (or her company) MAY have made a mistake and MAYBE it took a little while to fix it. Congratulations, they're human! They are still fledgling, it was bound to happen, now they have a handle on it and they'll move on.
Personally, I have no clue what a "halo" is. If I saw it, I didn't notice, and I have a huge fuckin' television.
E.A. has been around a LONG TIME. Christ, my ATF movie is from them, and it came out in like 1990 or something. I'm sure they have had alot more experience with damage control than PXP. PXP I'm sure will learn from this and know what to do in the future.
There's a reason PXP is already big business. They are a great company, putting out quality movies. They seem to be an unstoppable juggernaut. In fact, Luke Ford posted a company is going public soon and I have a sneaking suspicion that it may be PXP.
I obviously don't know Jewel or the other participants, but some of what was said or the attitude that was conveyed seemed deep... Deeper than ADT. Maybe there's something we don't know.
Anyway, I hope Jewel reconsiders. I likes knowing one of my ATF was posting here, and I looked forward to reading what she had to say. I feel bad for her. She came to participate between all the other stuff she has to do, and she pretty much was shit on a lambasted for a mistake that could have easily been addressed through a few emails or some other from of communication... NOT a public forum.
I have also noticed people taking shots at her too, and on top of this, I can't blame her for wanting to leave.
I don't think taking sides in this little flameup will be productive, and it's beside the point in this thread. I think we should all just remember that it's very easy to post in anger. Almost all of us have probably done it at one time or another, including some of our most respected authority figures here. They're human, too.
You just have to separate the wheat from the chaff, accept that a certain percentage of what you read in any online forum is going to piss you off, and keep trying to extract the positive. I know it can't be easy for industry types to make that balance work, so I've always respected Brandon for doing a good job of it, and Tom Byron back in the day. And I seriously believe that on balance they gained a lot of goodwill from the consumers here, as have others. The price is, they expose themselves to taking some shit, some of it justified, much of it not.
Life is about tradeoffs. We manage them as best we can.
The point I was trying to make is that she took full advantage of ADT to promote her movies. I'm pretty sure ADT helped their sales a lot, cool but also take the heat if customers complain about the quality. I mean that's why I respect Tricia as much as I do. I mean she always handles the complains about Evil Angel DVD's like a real professional while Jewel gets all in defence blaming the customer for having bad DVD players and stuff like that.
Jewel's responses were being "evasive", Bill was overly aggressive with his posts and Tricia walked into the middle of it at the wrong time and got a stinger in the eye.
I suggest people walk away from the message forum for a while and concentrate on their real issues. Sometimes the keyboard is like a loaded gun.
This is very P.C. of me, but this is a good time to remind everyone to read the Forum Etiquette
This forum is pretty cool, let's not ruin a good thing.
Concerning the "topic": Of course it's a pitty if a big porn star leaves this board. But my (technical and inside) knowledge does not suffice to decide whether Jewel, Tricia, Bill or someone else acted in a bad way.
I even don't have a "clue" (hehe) what these "halos" are? Have never seen them.
I think it's time to create a "Halo Forum" so we can discuss halos, types of halos, colors of halos, shape of halos to our heart's content. We can give them names, take screen caps of them and compare them. Then we can dress them up in cute little outfits and make up stories about them . I'm sure it will become the most popular forum on the board. Now I must rest.
Heh. Some of you people amuse me...getting so angry at an internet forum. People like that are the type to go and shoot up their local burger joint when things aren't going their way.
That halo thread Saki posted is huge, no wonder nerves are frayed. It must be a frustrating problem to track down. It must be even more frustrating if you are not a technician and don't understand the process. Nightmare!
As long as we have a separate thread for "Teagan DVDs with Halos." It would only seem fitting...
One of the special things about porn is the unique close relationship between fans, performers and the industry in general. Like it or not, Jewel is one of us. Sure, she benefits by promoting PXP and herself on ADT. But, she is also a porn-loving participant here. I'm sorry to see any valued participant (985 posts) get run off!
Let's ALL consider what a special place ADT is to those of us who care deeply about porn and NOT fuck it up!
Which is a logical and appropriate response, if one considers the customer-care in some burger joints.
:mode="yoda": to learn about people much grasshopper has. things happen nastier much on the net. Usenet, grasshopper try for experiencing Xtreme Flaming. This and this explore he will. :/mode:
Maybe one should set up a neverending "f1am3warZ"-thread (Put on your asbestos suits and start the FLAMING!), to bundle the bad energies, because sometimes everyone feels like this: "I am generally a VERY nice person to deal with. However, when posts like this come up, the good side of me does not come out."
"Never explain. Never apologise." -- Jacky Fisher (British Admiral) SCNR (even if I am a warmduscher, now)
If you're going to run from words on a computer screen I feel sorry for you. As for some ADT'ers being of high school age maturity, I would consider someone who flees from a porn message board the equivalent of running from the second grade bully. What do you do face to face in real life disagreements? Avoidance in this reguard will get you no where quick in the business end of the film world or in life for that matter.
I'm sorry to see Jewel go. And I'm not the only one. But I understand why she's leaving. I don't blame her.
Let's hope she changes her mind. And let's hope that shit like that won't happen again.
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Pocketcomb_Pimp Deactivated User
1921 Posts 7/03
Posted - Aug 23 2004 : 1:30PM
Ramsey,
You beat me to the punch. I thought that was a big headed, self centered statement. Is she telling me that her frustration is going to cost us female performer participation?
Based on what I read, I can tell you all this. Sounds to me like the issue that Bill had with Jewel went deeper than a single post about defective DVD's. It also sounds like The issue Jewel had with Tricia went deeper than a single DVD run.
It did not appear that this was the appropriate place for Bill to air his laundry, but Jewel could have taken the high road. Instead she lashed out at more than one person. At the same time, she should not have been name called from the jump.
Jewel has used this board, like 85% of the industry people to plug her works, and company, and I hate to say it, but nothing is free. If you post, and promote your business, sooner or later somebody is going to make a less than positive postabout you, your company or your business savy. Let's face it, there are always people waiting to see you stumble.
Jewel is a good performer, but those days appear to be long gone, either way I don't think that entitles a person to insult fans. My first interaction with Jewel was during the HIV scare earlier this year. In the main thread she insulted a large section of the board by "Name Calling" those of us that questioned Ms. Mitchel's ability, and qualifications to run AIM. Supporting some one is great, but insulting others is not cool. In lieu of that she came off as someone who is hot headed, and over acts. I'll leave you with this.
Here in Seattle Ken Griffey Jr. was a hero. He was the first person to be painted on the Niketown Building, and did comercials for the Boys Club, YMCA, Childrens Hospital, and United Way.
At the end of his career here in Seattle he was caught weekly in the media yelling, cursing, and insulting kids. Needless to say nobody missed him when he left, and his downhill career after Seattle was a welcome fate for all of us.
Jewel, you are in the public eye, and if you head a company, I'd have more respect for you for taking the high road. Many eyes are on you, and I'd hate to see you remembered for a heated exchange other than your body of work.
Porn is fantasy, this is reality, and the reality is this whole situation could have been handled with more class on more than one level by more than one person, and don't lower yourself.
The irony is "Ass" is the last half of Class. I know men in porn love to bring up the rear, but in this case it is not flattering.
Edited by - Pocketcomb_Pimp on 8/23/2004 4:08:29 PM
that is very easy for some one who isn't being attacked. having to constantly defend some thing that you have put your entire life into. not only has she been attacked but her work has, and it hurts.
Jewel has said once before that she does not have thick skin and wants it to stay that way. Jewel posts in a lot of threads and contributes to a ton of topics. she does not solely stck to press releases, like some do. She is a human being, and a girl and her feelings get hurt too.She has every right to react,even if she is in the public eye. I am sure every ones reactions were not only to the words you see posted. AdT is a great board and a great tool but Jewel had a great career before she ever came on here and I think what is arrogant is to say her lack of participation on the board is going to kill her business, the porn market is much bigger than our world.