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piercedpixie1
Member


uk
194 Posts
11/05
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 4:17PM
Anyone here enjoy things in porn they NEVER would in real life or vice versa are there things you love in bed (...or wherever) but NEVER want to see on film because it would be boring...or too gross?!

Just curious!

MisterNoGood
Member

195 Posts
2/04
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 6:38PM
Sometimes I like to watch blowjob movies that show one girl blowing a whole group of guys. In real life, I would never want to be in the same room with a group of naked guys.
TonyC
Comstock Films

2523 Posts
8/03
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 6:49PM
Don't knock it till you try it!

Comstock Films:Real Life, Real People, Real Sex

Outlaw Biker
Member

New York State
13 Posts
5/05
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 7:01PM
"LIFE IS SHORT"!..Enjoy all that it brings us sexually! ..Nothing on video "SHOCKS" or "INTIMIDATES"!..Enjoy with another and expand your pleasure and theirs!..ADULT ENTERTAINMENT when shared can be magical and educational as well as entertaining!.."THE OUTLAW BIKER".

Paul Martin

Joey Starr
Senior Member

Still wanking after all these years.
8082 Posts
10/00
Posted - Dec 2 2005 : 7:29PM
Is it a poll?
 
nh34
Member

13 Posts
9/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 1:43AM
I like to watch a girl recieve mutiple facials. But I would not want to be in the same room, with another guy while he cums on her face. I will only do one on one sex.
Bic
Member

You cant see 'em, but her boobs are lovely.
182 Posts
11/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 1:51AM
I've pretty much experienced anything I've seen and enjoyed in a pornmovie with my partners, in that way im lucky. Granted there are extreme movies that didnt make me excited and I never bothered to try the kind of action going on in those. Suck as bukkake, flushing the girls head and so forth.

BigBobxxx
Senior Member

2681 Posts
5/04
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 1:58AM
Porn sex is my sex life, so I'm not sure how to answer
Eric381
Deactivated User

What are you looking at? It
2452 Posts
3/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 2:00AM
I agree with Tony....granted, while I too haven't tried it, just think of the possible results...such as the gorgeous Alektra in BD#5!!

Bigbob....you lucky bastard!! :)

Eric

Edited by - eric381 on 12/3/2005 2:01:58 AM
KatjaKassin
Senior Member

1257 Posts
5/03
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 2:31AM
I like to shoot group sex scenes, b/b/g, dp or b/g/g but I would never do this at home. It's kinda weird to bring home extra people and share your loved one with somebody else.
parker29
Member

tennessee
171 Posts
7/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 2:47AM
I really don't mind an extra guy while I am having a 3-way. As long as he is servicing her....not me.
parker
Lance
Member

My Life Sucks
386 Posts
4/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 2:48AM
Agreed, mostly we just want time together after "work" (for lack of a better term)
However if we meet the right person or people then of course anything goes. Anything we've done on set we've done in our home life.

www.alexandrabelle.com / www.lance-strong.com

BigBobxxx
Senior Member

2681 Posts
5/04
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 2:54AM
I wrote:
Porn sex is my sex life, so I'm not sure how to answer
I thought the would be enough of a hint to you closeted serial masturbators, but what I was saying (between the lines) is that it's just me and my porn collection.
I'm not actually getting any.
Sorry to let you down, Eric
ShiWarrior
Senior Member

1170 Posts
8/01
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 4:04AM
i'm the same as most here. I could watch a scene where there is a guy or 2 in there, but in real life, I could not be in the same room
when i have sex in real life, i don't want another guy arround

- - Some one is watching over you

Captain Cock
Member

NL
172 Posts
2/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 8:52AM
I see porn and real sex as separate things, and in most ways they contradict each other. I love going down on my girl, but cant be bothered to watch it on screen, I like to see facials/DP/gangbangs/etc. yet never been tempted to try it out IRL.
 
TonyC
Comstock Films

2523 Posts
8/03
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 8:59AM
Katja, have you seen M&J?

We just had to re-order, so I took the opportunity to re-master the DVD, and have just watched for the first time in a year. Based your answers to this and other questions about performers' private sex lives, I think you'd really get a kick out of it!

Send me a note off list and we'll shoot out a copy to you!

Comstock Films:Real Life, Real People, Real Sex

piercedpixie1
Member

uk
194 Posts
11/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 9:44AM
hmmm interesting...was just wondering coz i love fully dressed people fingering girls and going down on them...don't like watching oral sex on a woman unless done by a girl for some strange reason in porn though. But love watching girls get fingered on film...pref by big hairy men! In real life i love men going down on me just dont wanna watch it.

Also i love that half asleep, sleepy slow sex you have when you are really sleepy but still horny...can't imagine it being fun to watch though!

a lot of foreplay is 10000 x better to do than watch...wonder why?

Don't know about vice versa think I have tried a lot of stuff from porn and enjoyed! : )

Though, I like reading about beasts ravaging women...like tigers/dragons/big dogs/wolves...don't think i really would enjoy it in real life....might just get my leg chewed off!! not sexy!

Thanks for answering x

T.L.Tycoon
Member

416 Posts
12/03
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 1:43PM
My real life experiences are what you see in your worst
Gonzo film. Female Pussy and Ass flys to me in mass
consumption so much that I have to slow myself down.There
are things I might do in my private life that you wont
see in Hardcore,like toungue fucking a gorgeous whore in
her nose,then French kissing her. I break these Hoes in,and
gobble them up like a Black Hole.If I do this stuff on
video and I aint owning shit,that would make me a Man bitch
and that is something Im not.Thats it.
Dick Froth
Member

293 Posts
11/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 4:00PM
Mostly everything I love to watch in porn I wouldn't fathom doing at home. I'm a fan of DAPs, gang bangs, etc. but wouldn't dare to bring home a couple guys to fuck my girl (although I'm sure she'd love it). Even anal is more dirtier in reality. Most porn babes probably douche and fast the day before a big anal creampie scene. The girls you pick up at the mall do neither.

Edited by - dick froth on 12/3/2005 4:01:11 PM

SneakFreak
New Member

2 Posts
12/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 9:29PM
I've been fortunate enough to experience some things in my personal life that I really enjoy in porn. M/M/F, F/F/M, rough sex, Giving DP, Participating in small SuckBangs and GangBangs are my favorite examples. I guess I think if it's "strokeworthy" in porn, its "pokeworthy" in life.

I think the reason for this is that I don't keep my enjoyment of porno a jealously guarded secret. It doesn't take a person (including a romantic interest) long to realize that I like porn and I make very little effort to hide it. It's not like I announce it, either. It's amazing how often porn slips into a seemingly innocent conversation. When it does, I usually don't hide that I'm a big fan. After all, sex is a huge part of my life, and porn is a pretty pervasive aspect of my sexuality. Isn't there enough repression in the world?

Consequently, the women I end up dating are the ones that do not react badly to my enjoyment of porno.

In my experience, women react to porn in one of three ways: Indifference ("that's just what guys do"), Disgust ("well now, this guy's a bit of a freak, next!), and Intrigue ("can we watch one?")

I think it's best to get her reaction, whatever it turns out to be, as early on in the game as possible. You know, it's that tired old openness and honesty thing about which self-proclaimed self-help gurus are always yammering.

Believe it or not, there have been a handful of occasions where a girl and I watched porno together before ever fucking each other (when fucking immediately follows, it's almost always amazing). It's also amazing what sharing porn can do for the sexual health of a relationship.

I believe the difference between the porn and real life versions of many of these acts is a simple matter of perspective. In porn films, a gangbang (for example) is typically conveyed as something that's being done TO the girl. In real life, it's something that's being done FOR the girl.

It's not every girl that can really enjoy these things. Hell, alot of porn actresses don't seem to enjoy them on screen. But girls that have fantasies beyond (sometimes miles beyond) the ordinary do exist, and they make excellent girlfriends for guys that can handle it.

As far as being in a room full of naked guys being a deal-breaker, I never had that problem. Straight guys change together in the locker room for the team. We should be able to be bare-assed around each other for the girl that's hot enough to want it.


Sorry to make my first post so long and rambly. This looks like a great forum and I look forward to getting to know y'all.


Recoil Therapy
Member

Deep in flyover country
194 Posts
10/04
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 10:43PM
SneakF, welcome.

For the most part the things I want to watch in porn are the things I enjoy in real life. It is probably the whole "hey, I can imagine myself doing this" fantasy. The more extreme/rough stuff doesn't interest me on my television nor in my bed.

RT

de25ge
Member

yes I'm virilis
954 Posts
11/05
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 11:38PM
Like I mentioned elsewhere I'm not ***, but that's not the point, I really liked Squirting 101 Vol.1.
Although the male actors tried to get their dicks sucked from the beginning.
I like when Cytheria says to someone" get that dick out of my face" , while she listens to the directors g-spot explanations.

Big hairy man fingering girls? Not my thing, you can clearly see how uncomfortable a girl gets, I've seen one attempt.
The 250 pound guys hand was so big he couldn't barely get his fingers in there.

half asleep: yeah I like when a girl has her eyes closed and enjoys, in real life and on celluloid.

Beasts and woman: I don't know, It's a old human fantasy tradition and sometimes.
Look into mythology of the ancient Greeks Minotaura creature half human and half bull created through sex with a woman.
I've seen a clip recently with a woman and tiger, looks nice but I can't believe its real. Especially when I think what happened to Siegfried and Roy(but I don't want know what they did at home with those animals)

gia jordan
Member

670 Posts
9/04
Posted - Dec 3 2005 : 11:39PM
The difference is that at home you don't have to worry if your positions are open to the camera.
London
Member

22 Posts
11/05
Posted - Dec 4 2005 : 1:01AM
Gia hit it right on the head!! I cannot tell you how much effort is spent in porn sex keeping bodies in positions that allow the camera to see. It is the biggest difference. I can tell you many times where it has nothing to do with great feeling and a hot girl, and everything to do with good positions. I love RAC for this reason!! Feels great (for me as the guy) and lokks great for the cam.

London

Pagoda
Senior Member

Thread Killer
1747 Posts
10/05
Posted - Dec 4 2005 : 5:49AM
Unless I can imagine it being physically arousing to me in real life, I don't enjoy it in porn. That's why I hate porn scenes that feature a girl fitting as many/as big as possible objects/cocks in her ass/pussy. I imagine how that would feel--to me--and it turns me way off. That's a sure-fire FF>> for me. Same goes for forced gagging. I hate the feeling, so I don't want to see a porn girl going through that. Kills any arousal I may have achieved prior to seeing/hearing that.

But, if I see something in a porno movie that looks intriguing, I'll try it with Mr. P. Most of the time it works out great. I take porn rather literally, and I don't separate my fantasies from my personal sex life very much. Except when it comes to additional partners--those stay fantasies. You got to save something for solo sex, right?

 
Captain Cock
Member

NL
172 Posts
2/05
Posted - Dec 4 2005 : 5:30PM
Yup. Also, some of the positions that look nice on camera are not at all comfortable when you try them out with your partner at home I noticed.
TonyC
Comstock Films

2523 Posts
8/03
Posted - Dec 4 2005 : 5:39PM
I would have thought that doing things that cause the actor and actess to worry while having sex be an impediment to capturing exciting looking sex.

Comstock Films:Real Life, Real People, Real Sex

JiminyChristmas
Member

54 Posts
10/05
Posted - Dec 4 2005 : 9:19PM
I can watch scenes with two guys, but there's no way in hell I'd ever want to be in a sexual situation with some other dude.

And it's hard enough pleasing one woman, I can't imagine how nerve wracking it would be to have to please more than one at once.


threesomebody
Official BlowBang Judge

Would you like my autograph?
2491 Posts
12/04
Posted - Dec 5 2005 : 9:04AM
Part of the fun is letting them please each other.
de25ge
Member

yes I'm virilis
954 Posts
11/05
Posted - Dec 5 2005 : 1:17PM
If you are in the middle you feel kind of awkward and getting elbows into your nose that was not my favorite.
And if they don't want to you have two sessions (calculate 4 hours).If you're working, it will be hard to keep the pace up.

I was feeling like Dustin Hoffman in Little Big Man
Where he has three widow squaws to please and after the second he can barely creep under the third bearskin.




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