Maybe it's just me who sees this but when I watch a scene
or a movie with porn-star couples (engaged/married) in it
the film is missing a lot of sexual tension.
I have seen several movies with porn-stars who had a
relationship with either the director, one of the other
members of the cast, or both and noticed that the sex
these people practiced was "different".
An example: Suppose two people Miss X and Mr Y have a
relationship. When I watch X & Y during sex, the way in
which they "perform" is totally unreal and in many cases
this "performance" looks rather clumsy and amateuristic.
Just like two young people who have sex for the first time.
It gets even worse when for example:
Miss M has to do a scene with Miss B or Miss S and lover
Mr G is also on the set. At that point Miss M no longer
seems to be able to fully enjoy what she is doing, reacts
hesitant in her love-making, shows a lot of restraint as if
she does not want her lover to see that she is having a
good time with the other person. Does the sex become better
when they have sex with their partner?
No! Here these people seem to have a kind of fear, of
showing their sex to other people. Quite logical when you
consider that you as a viewer are looking into their
"sex-life" and this results in a very normal but for porn
"very bad" response. These professionals react in just the
same way as we all would react:
"They feel watched in their most intimate moments.
Though porn-stars try to hide this for us and eachother...
this feeling of their "privacy being violated" is there!!!
Porn-star couples can actually ruin a good film.
Not just my own opinion but also a fact.
For instance: They tell you that they can act really
professional and that their love-life is not part of
their job nor does it affect their performance.
I say that's bullshit. When one of them sees the other
partner busy with a strange "(man or woman)...than there
is this aspect of jealousy in the backgorund. They will
always deny it and according to them the jealousy will not
be much...as they say that they are true professionals and
such feelings are totally unknown to them...yeah sure...but
I say that they are humans too and NOT made of ice...
So they will have these "negative" feelings just like anyone
of us! If not...they're not human!
It's perfectly normal when a couple has a little fight but
in porno this reflects immediately. Pornstars who fuck
with their partner on screen "react abnormal" during a sex
scene. A natural aspect of sex, the fun-aspect gets lost.
The worst thing for a movie is when these people bring their
little problems with them to the set. Though they seem to
react normal outside the set, once they are shooting the sex
scene, these people are less spontaneous, less inspired as
these problems are still in the back of their heads.
One good example: I have seen 6 movies with always the same
female porn star and the same male porn star. Believe it or
not...but you can actually see and tell precisely whether
their relationship was good at the day of the shooting or
that their was tension between them. They really did their
best to hide this for the viewer but the sex they brought
was dull, uninspired and soporofic. Guess their relationship
had stranded already at that time.
Which brings me to another point:
Another problem with these porn-star couples is that once
their relationship has reached the point of engagement or
marriage...they only want to work with eachother.
At this point they no longer are the true professional porn
stars they think they were but are normal humans with normal
feelings. Sorry... but when this happens...you should quit
with making pornos as you no longer are professional enough
to put your feelings aside for your partner while shooting
a sex-scene. May sound hard but porn is porn and not a bunch
of partners fucking eachother. Once this feeling of jealousy
comes up...Sorry...there is no place for you in porn
anymore. Fact is that when a porn-couple has a quarrel
/ or had a little fight at home...this affects their
overall sexual performance tremendously and therefore
also the quality of the movie.
I know this girl, who got into a very brief relationship,
with her porn partner, and after her divorce she continued
making movies. Movies in which she did not have sex with
her "ex" but where he only directed her scenes. From that
moment on her sexual performance became worse.
Her sex on screen never reached the class, which it had
only two years earlier and it "deteriorated" with every
new movie. In simple words: She lost the feeling for "it"
and the sex "she had to do" was nothing more than a job!
Porn-star couples? No thanks!
Like to hear your opinion!
Spetz
Edited by - spetz on Feb 12 2002
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