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Do you ever think about what pornstars might look in 10, 20, 30... years from now? What if time won't do your favorites any good and they age worse than other women? Wouldn't it be disgusting thinking that the pornstar you are fapping at right now could be really ugly some day? I think most of my favorites won't ever be considered ugly, most of them will look better than most women their age. But I can't know for sure, and the uncertainty is a porn and women turn-off in general. I know not many will share my opinion, and I am happy that is the case! I want to change my view on this and enjoy porn without thinking about it too much... Can you understand me? Do you have the same problem? And if not, can you help me?
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Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 25 2016 : 5:28PM
If you are disgusted at the concept of human beings aging I would suggest you abstain from any long term relationships, stick with fucking escorts under 30, and stick with porn. I mean, if you are looking at a beautiful woman and horrified that 30 years from now she might be old looking or saggy I feel bad for you. I hope the women that have sex with you don't run away worried about what you will look like in 30 years. Just imagine, you are getting a nice blowjob and the girls stops and says "i can't do this, gotta go".. and you ask why and she says "well, 30 years from now you might lose your hair, have a thicker mid section and I just cant stand that thought when being with you tonight". I don't think I have ever heard someone having sexual issues because he is worrying about what the woman is going to look like in 30 years (especially with porn because it is in the moment). Maybe that might come into play if you are getting married (and are really shallow and just marring the girl because she is hot), otherwise, this is a difficult approach. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 6/25/2016 5:32:18 PM
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jukka Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 25 2016 : 6:04PM
So what? Pornstars are human too.
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jukka Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 25 2016 : 6:06PM
would you enjoy she look younger than her age? 30 girl looking like she is 18? Edited by - jukka on 6/25/2016 6:07:25 PM
It's not about humans aging like humans. It's about a woman aging worse than most other women. And you don't know how someone will age. Imagine this: Would you fuck a hot girl if you knew she would die in a car accident the next day? It's like fucking an almost dead person.
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jukka Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 25 2016 : 6:31PM
Putting it that way, its quite scary to think that I must admit.
And taking it even further: You think it is scary if she dies 1 day later, but everyone dies. So when does it leave the scary territory? After 3 days? 1 week? 1 year? Never? Death is a scary thing now that I really think about it :D
I too am bothered when I watch pornography with humans, who will age and eventually die. I watch porn with statues, but even that isn't without its problems. David can't get it up, and Venus De Milo is incapable of giving a decent handjob.
I realize that time will not be kind to the women in porn, but it doesn't affect how I view their performances. After all, you and I both will look very different 30 years from now. The young ladies won't find us so handsome then, I promise you. What if time won't do your favorites any good and they age worse than other women? Wouldn't it be disgusting thinking that the pornstar you are fapping at right now could be really ugly some day?
I could name some performers who I know will not age well. It doesn't bother me at all, because I'm watching a fantasy play. I'm not sure what you think you're watching. Can you understand me? Do you have the same problem? And if not, can you help me? I understand that you have a problem, but it seems very childish to me. I don't know that I can help you with it, but I'm sure that time will sort if out for you.
What GGG said about what Cindy said. :) By that logic, how could a man every have sex with any woman at all, knowing that if she's 18, she's as close to being a 5 year old girl as she is being a 31 year old woman. Where do people get these fantastical, surreal ideas so incompatible with the real world?
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Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 25 2016 : 8:43PM
My friend, there is a far difference between knowing the woman is dying the next day and being unable to have sex with her due to being disgusted because you think she will be unattractive in the year 2046! (which you can basically extrapolate to any woman , as nobody can predict what 30 years of lifestyle and genetics and health will bring, so you really have a problem here with essentially everyone!). Also to your other quote "you don;t know how someone will age"... that is correct! And it is a factor of about 100 different things (which will have very little to do with whether they did porn in their youth or not) and you are thinking the worst case scenario and not enjoying your sexual pleasure. I honestly feel really bad for you because to be burdened with this concept anytime you are sexually interested in a porn girl or a girl in the real world is just crippling. It will be hard for you to get truly close to anyone if you are always thinking "I am not turned on here because she might be old and wrinkly in thirty years". You are certainly one of a kind or at least a very rare unicorn to think this way. I hope you can work it out. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 6/25/2016 8:48:41 PM
His arms are still almost the size of my legs. And maybe that picture was taken when he wasn't in training. I've seen his recent snaps and he looks awesome.
As far as I know we ALL will die , we don't know when and how but we surely will. Does it really matter whether it's tomorrow or 50 years from now? Furthermore if you're disturbed by the idea that a performer is going to die very soon , what about those performers who already died? Some of them you know, but many others you don't and yet you seek arousal from pictures of a died woman? Anyway if you're disturbed by women aging you should also consider that the scenes are forever young , you can watch at a 25 years old actress looking exactly that whenever you want , she will always look hot and young and willing. Anyway you don't have such luxury in real life , I mean would you see your bride as 80 years old or in a hospital bed in your first night , will you get nightmare thinking of her aging , getting sick, possibly fatter and maybe of you even fatter or skin and bones after a serious illness? Man you should take a cupcake pour some whiskey over it and enjoy the moment Carpe Diem
^ That's just him being fat, not being old. ^^ The thing about scenes being forever young always calms me down, I've been thinking about that too. But a question to everyone: When you see a scene with a nearly perfect 20 year old, but you also have a picture of her at her current age (80 / 90 whatever) and she aged horribly. Could you still fap to her scene where she was 20 years old?
That's rather academic since you can't possibly know that someone is going to have an accident. You say you have a problem with this, so rather than ask us unqualified forum members who, let's face it aren't always the most constructive or sympathetic commentators, seek professional advice.
Could you fap to her if you knew she would end up the ugliest human on earth? I always hear people say seeing their faves without makeup often ruined it for them, but with age it seems to be a different story
As I said, I find the question simply irrelevant. If you want to expend mental energy on that type of inane hypothetical, you're welcome to it, but I daresay nearly all other people have better things to do with their time.
Well It's difficult to get a hard-on if you think of a mummy , after all a couple millennia from now every woman would be in such condition, hell it's even more difficult to think about my own dick all dried out along with her. How can anybody be comfortable fapping with a future mummified dick? Or better then fucking a future corpse with a future rotten dick I wonder
If I'm using you logic than why not. It's not like my not fucking her is going to change what happens to her the next day. All it will do is that two people who were going to spend a couple of hours having fun won't. As to having to think about what a performer will look like in 10, 20 or 30 years. I don't even have to try because the first porn I watched was stuff made in the 70's and 80's and I know what many of those women look like today. Some have aged better than others but strangely enough many of them are still quite good looking.
Ha ha, this is one of the weirdest thread i have read on hear and that is saying something with how crazy this place is sometimes. I dated a girl at college many years ago, pretty face and a healthy curvy body and to this day its the best sex with a partner i have had, Last year i saw her again for the first time in over 10 years, she is now obese and has aged badly in the face. Do i now regret having sex with her?, did i pause mid way through sex and abandon it because she might be a mess in 10 years time?, the answer to both is no, same when fapping to hot pornstars as its best to live in the moment. They are hot now ( or at the time of filming whatever scene you watch) just enjoy it. Way over thinking this porn watching , fap to whatever turns you on.
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Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 26 2016 : 11:38PM
I am going to treat you like you are serious and not trolling... Seriously, if this is what goes through your head when you are having sex with someone or watching a porn scene I feel VERY sorry for you. This is a terrible burden to carry and I don't know or understand why you would view people this way during sexual experiences. It certainly sucks the joy out of sex, porn, and even relationships in your life. I just can't imagine having sex with someone so amazing and thinking "this is horrible because this person might be drooling in a rest home in 2046". Or "this sex is horrible because imagine what my partner would look like if he/she got burned in a fire next year.... I can't do this!". If you are serious and this is real, I honestly think you should get into some therapy and find out why your mind locks into such terrible thinking. I have never encountered this before(and likely nobody else here at ADT), so a professional may have seen this somewhere in a textbook and know what to do! Imagine if nobody wanted to be your friend, date you, or have sex with you... because they think "ah, this dude will be shitting in a rest home 50 years from now so I can't stand being around him". It really is a twisted way to view people. Edited by - Canadian_Cindy on 6/26/2016 11:40:42 PM
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Dragon Sign Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 27 2016 : 5:13AM
If you try and turn everything there's always this flip side. I don't watch porn to take that consideration. I watch to be blown away from females having the time of their life sexwise. It's more of a flowerpowersituation. To think of it as a fading system sounds more like black metal to me.
^^ I over-analyze everything. Example: I once doubted if anything in this world is actually real, I thought I was crazy, until I found out Rene Descartes stated the same thing. "The only thing we know for sure is that we think" (no word for word quote). Everything else could be a virtual reality. So I wasn't crazy, I was a genius (only in that regard, I don't consider myself a genius at most other things). And our instincts tell us to fuck women, but what if I beat my instincts by analyzing everything that could be? It would be a sad thing, but I guess that's what happened here.
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Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 27 2016 : 3:48PM
I am not sure claiming life is a fake virtual reality qualifies you as a genius because someone who happened to be brilliant said that at some point. :) I will close out by saying I feel sad for you. To be unable to enjoy sex with someone (real or porn viewing) because you conjure up worst case scenario images about what someone might look like in 30 years is sad to see. I hope you can work it out some day.
I'm not saying it is, but I'm saying it could be. And I am right, it could be. You can't prove it's not true. But reading someone else's post about someone burning their face in a fire - that's even worse than becoming ugly! Burned faces are such a sad thing to look at, and envisioning the most beautiful woman in the world with a face completely destroyed by a fire is terrible.
^ But you still haven't answered the most important question:One day your penis will be gross and mummified or worse, being eaten by maggots. How can you bear to touch it today? If you can find a way to touch your penis and not be grossed out to the point where it's possible to get an erection, then you will also be able to find a way to jerk off to women who are hot now, but might one day be ugly.
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Canadian_Cindy Deactivated User
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Posted - Jun 28 2016 : 3:09AM
I thought I had read it all at ADT... yet, like a surprise gift, something truly incredible pops out on the forum once in a while.
^^ The mummified penis question: I don't get aroused by myself, so I don't care that much about what happens to me in so many decades. I'd rather be dead than to shit myself. But I actually do get aroused by porn, even after the problems I talked about here. BUT during watching porn I think about the problems. And when I'm not hard, it gets worse because there is no hard penis to tell me I'm wrong.
You started this thread by saying :- "I want to change my view on this and enjoy porn without thinking about it too much... Can you understand me? Do you have the same problem? And if not, can you help me?" It's clear that none of us have the same problem and none of us can help you. You say that it puts you off porn and, more worryingly, women in general. I'm no expert in psychology or psychiatry but surely these thoughts you have go deeper that any of us here can dig out, let alone suggest any direct help. You must seek professional help; maybe a sexual therapist could point the way forward.
