Oh fuck no. For some reason this infuriates me, and I'm not even a Tera Patrick fan. Evan Seinfeld really is the type of guy who would insist on screwing his pornstar wife on camera.
I don't think I could be married to a woman who is in the adult industry. I would have nothing wrong with her going to work and doing her job, no matter who was with her that day as long as she was safe. there are a lot of really intelligent women, intelligence being a HUGE turn on for me, in the adult industry. no compliants there.
that being said I wouldn't want her involved in all the after hours parties which from what I hear from those I know in the industry aren't the best place to be sometimes.
by far my biggest concern would be one day buying a film with her in it and seeing her with whoever ... that would freak me out
I do believe she retired some years ago, but may still be married to the same man. last I heard she had a son, but recently have discovered she has a daughter now as well.
I said "seeing her with whoever," and that includes both make and female members of the human race. I would have to know that she's there with me in her heart 100%. if I knew that it wouldn't matter, male or female. I've done the threesome thing before and indulging in that fantasy or watching my woman with another girl isn't something I'm sweating to have happen anytime soon.