I'm looking for a bit of advice, as someone with very little experience.
What position is best for deep penetration and "pounding".
Also, in any position, what effect does the womans legs close together and wider apart have? I would have thought the closer the legs, the tighter the fit, the more the pleasure, but in porn the legs also seem to be wide apart?
Hmmm, it really should be a question of what position is best for both parties. That does tend to be an individual preference.Those wide apart shots in porn are so you, the viewer, can see what's going on, not because it feels better.
Oh yeah, lots and lots of things in porn are for the camera, not for pleasure. But try things. Don't be afraid to experiment with stuff and have it not work, and don't be afraid to laugh together about the things that don't work for you. Some people want their nipples twisted and some don't.
For the topic starter, knees-together does compress the vaginal walls somewhat, making for a tighter fit. Any position in which you can drive the head of your cock into the front of the vagina is good for her. Lastly, standing-doggie with the woman's knees together gives a tight fit, deep penetration, plus nice pressure on the perineum. Personally I like this, but each woman is different. Take Lindi's advice.
You know what else? Each position is not ONE position. It's a whole range of positions. Doggie, for example. Standing doggie, kneeling doggie with her up on her hands, her on her elbows, on her chest, and then both lowering yourselves down flat, for which you can also try with your legs straddling hers, as well as between hers, and in that position she can raise her ass a little or not, or raise it rhyhmically, or squeeze her butt muscles in rhythm, or whatever.
And it's a weird thing, but something that's a killer feel one day may feel different another day. You just kind of move through things and try them. Hit all the spots, and linger on the ones that you are both moaning in.
is there some kind of actual kama sutra out there on the market that you can pick up and that has images of lots and lots of positions with information about each. i would be interested in this. as long as it was, you know, innovative and informative.
If it is all for you doggy style with her shoulders down on the mattress arms stretched in front of her and ass as high as she can arch it. Pile driver. Her on top pressed against you with her arms inside yours for control and both of your hands spreading her cheeks so you have can thrust her against you while your penetrating her.