I always seem to get rock hard in the shower with my girl. We'd both love to have sex in the shower but can't figure out any decent positions. Is standing doggy easy?
It seems like it would be difficult to execute considering the fact that a girl's vagina is located closer to the front, as opposed to anal, which my girl doesn't want to try.
If you're going to try standing doggie, get a small plastic stool or something like it for her to put one foot up on. Beyond that, shower sex has worked much better as a fantasy than a reality...
"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling
Standing doggie has always worked the best for us. She bends over & grabs the faucet & I redirect the water stream to hit her lower/mid back. We are roughly the same height at the waist which helps immensely.
Face to face standing has usually resulted in one or the other of our feet's slipping & us crashing down. Amusing with the buffer of time but painful then.
Badly bruised. Hot water defeats natural lubrication, so try a siliicon based lube. Of course, that makes the shower slippery...best to separate cleaning and sex, I think.
+1 to this. Since water is my fetish we (my wife and I) have tried this many times and actual sex has never worked or been satisfying. We are resolved to put a wet room in our house when we finally get enough money to build!
We resolved (partially anyway) the issue by using "digital manipulation." As long as the water is not directly on the area receiving attention then hand jobs, blow jobs, and fingering need no extra lubrication. My wife comes faster with my fingers anyway. It is satisfying in its own way and quickly leads to a wet romp in the bedsheets (don't knock it till you try it!).
Hell, just aim the hand-held shower massager right at your woman's clit and watch her dissolve into a quivering pool of jelly. You might have to catch her if her knees give out, so still employ a non-slip mat.
Bit of advice I got from a friend, but haven't tried, so take this with a grain of salt. Standing doggie is the way to go, but the woman should put one foot up on the edge of the tub; her leg closest to you. Use oil-based or silicone lube, but be careful of slippage. Note that her hair will make a good (and erotic) handhold for you. Only problem with this is that you can't do it in a stall shower, and she has to bend partway out of the tub. Be sure your towel racks are secure, because she'll have the impulse to grab one for support.
After a little more research this weekend, I came to two thoughts. First, stall showers suck for sex (good thing there's a close bed). Second, there might be a market for 10" platform shower shoes...
"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling
Sitting down in the shower can work, man sitting down, woman astride - that one's not so hard or dangerous unless you stand up and crack your head on the very point tap handle..ow...Kneeling doggy is possible too - depends on the size of shower I guess.
This is the sort of thing Bob Villa or those on home make over shows never emphasize. "We are installing brand X shower stall because it gives nice traction, is easy on the knees, and has enough room for kneeling doggy." I'd love to watch Paige Davis mime that while explaining.