"Pre-ejaculatory fluid prepares the urethra for the passage of semen and neutralizes acidity due to any residual urine. It also lubricates the movement of the penis in the vagina and the foreskin over the glans."
I spent some time with a woman who adamently would not swallow cum, but she loved that clear pre-cum. She would suck and jack me until that pre-cum appeared, and she had no problems lapping that up.
But she broke camp at the idea of cumming in her mouth.
Strange are the things you learn about folks in bed.
Well they taste different. Precum is salty and smooth, and ejaculate has a hint of bitterness. Of course, I speak only of my man, but I figure it's the same for others. The texture is slightly different, too. And maybe she just had a mental image of all the little wiggly swimmers, and it freaked her out. No biggie. If a gal likes thoroughly polishing your knob for extended periods of time, who cares where your sperm ends up?
Many men care, that's who. Part of our psychology.
There's a reason why all these facial and swallowing movies fly off the shelves and sell like hotcakes. And why men all over the world are so thrilled when their personal sex partner does it.
Actually, I'm with Pagoda here. Polishing the knob is the important thing. Where it ends up afterwards is a very distant second. How many guys are going to tell a chick "Okay, I'll let you suck my cock, but only if when I finish my cum goes _________.". If a chick comes up and says "Hi, I'd gladly suck your cock if you promise to cum _________.", the only ones who are going to hear where she wants you to cum are the gay ones. The rest of us will be deafened by our zippers or our own whimpering because we're married and faithful.
"Vegetarianism for me is about saying ‘yes’ to things - even meat." - Coupling
I'm the first and only man in history to ever utter the words "please let me cum in your mouth", or "please let me cum on your face."
Okay.
Look, the blowjob is a given in the scenario we're discussing, and no man is gonna NOT want a blowjob just because a girl is uncomfortable or adament about the finish. So that hypothetical you presented is not really realistic. I've gotten hundreds of blowjobs in my life, all of them were nice, and most of them didn't end in swallowing, and even fewer ended in facials. The ones that did were memorable and heightened the eroticism for me. That don't mean I'm throwing the other ones back or I regret them.
I said "many men care" . I didn't say it was the be all, end all.
If you're not one of those many men, more power to you.
You know what's cool? When a guy is going down on you, and then by the time he crawls north, there's a big old spiderweb of precum strings all over the sheets, your legs, and whatever.
I don't know what other purpose a spiderweb of precum strings could serve than to be cool.
To beguile and entrap you like a succulent fly? I think I love the idea of a man virtually dripping with desire and the visuals are certainly good, big glossy beads and drips of pre-cum are just very sexy as are the spider webs that lindi describes. The slip factor is good too.
I remember from a LONG time ago (back in the adult theatre days!) seeing a trailer for a film, and the scene had a guy shackled and tied to a post. In front of him was a couple fucking their brains out. There was a long, thick rope of pre-cum hanging down from his cock practically reaching the floor. The image is burned into my brain. Probably one of the hottest things I'd seen to that point and I still remember it vividly.
So true what you said about the rarity of pre-cum play in porn. i think it has to do with the male talent leading the action in the all too predictable way of skull fucking too soon on the bj. yes, i'm hardcore, can swallow dicks longer than gary glitter's rap sheet, but let ME give the blowjob here. The girl should warm up to bj circus tricks after lots of bobby bliss-esque mouth treatment. Why? To create LOTS OF PRE-CUM TO ENTANGLE ALL OVER THE GIRL! Once that's captured, then we can get to the gagging, rapid deep throat if that's what the scene calls for. But first thing's first.
I would love to see more precum/precum play in movies too, esp. during a multi-cock bj. Even a precum bukkake would be hot - several pent up cocks drizzling onto one girl's face. I recently saw the kymmy tape - some great precum moments in it (review from the net):
I finally tracked down a copy of this tape and it is as awesome as I had heard. It is 5 1/2 hours of hot amateur sex. The precum scenes are plentiful - Almost every scene features tons of crystal juice being dripped/oozed all over the luscious Kymmy's face. Very attractive girl, huge cock, no inhibitions, and a TON of pre-squirt. At the start of some of these cumshots there are several big droplets, strands, and mini spurts of precum swaying down onto or splattering Kymmy's face as a precusor to what invariably turns out to be a monster shot of jizz. The shooter must have been on a desert island or something.
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Posted - Jun 17 2006 : 1:41PM
I'd read it was the director's choice, was this wrong?
I can only produce precum in a masturbation session when everhthing is "right". I get myself almost to cumming and then if I'm lucky and not going over the edge, some precum drips out. Not an easy task to accomplish... I guess I envy the guys who are just leaking ounces of it...
I with Gia that it is so much hotter to see a girl showing off her BJ skills rather than the forced stuff. And what's with the "no hands" order all the time. I like to see the hands working it too. Deep throats are cool, but when the girl is control of it. Final note,a little pre-cum flying around would be much hotter than saliva.
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Posted - Jun 16 2006 : 3:14AM
I think I love the idea of a man virtually dripping with desire and the visuals are certainly good, big glossy beads and drips of pre-cum are just very sexy as are the spider webs that lindi describes. The slip factor is good too.