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Froppy
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11/99
Posted - Nov 22 1999 : 6:29PM
Those of you with a passion for porn and SOs, that's significant others by the way, what do your SOs think of your hobby. Do they share in it? Do they tolerate it? Are they always threatening to divorce if you don't trash that stack of hustler mags in the garage?
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Posted - Nov 23 1999 : 11:14AM
all i can say -is that if she's (assuming it's mostly women who aren't porn fans) not happy with it -then include her. she probably just sees it as you fantasizing about other women.
watch a good couple flick with her, hold her, tell her she's beautiful, then shoot some cum in her face (kidding)
spayne
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11/99
Posted - Nov 23 1999 : 11:30AM
That whole jealousy factor was what kept me from watching porn in the past. Here's my SO with a raging hard on, watching other naked women. It made me feel pretty inadequate. I just knew he wanted to have sex with all those other women!
But I got over it, and actually found that watching the movies is quite to my advantage. We're more experimental now and we're both learning new techniques. It's educational for crying out loud! Who'd thunk it!
I would definitely talk to her about it, like Steph said. And certainly reassure her that you only want her, not the other women. Couples films would be best, at first. I had to ease into things before watching the hard hard core stuff.
Steph- shoot some cum on her face! Hahaha! Good one!
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Posted - Nov 23 1999 : 1:21PM
spayne
we should start a list of the most educational pornos -sex 101
spayne
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Posted - Nov 23 1999 : 2:32PM
Ah yes, I can see it all now... Observe this man remove his member from the woman's posterior and stick it in her mouth. Mmmm mmmm good? I think not!
Course there was that one move that Kobe Tai did in "Lotus" where the fellow flipped her upside down while standing that could either revolutionize some people's sex lives... or cause a few concussions and hernias! I guess that would be Extreme Sex 101... hehehe!
 
cohiba
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11/99
Posted - Nov 25 1999 : 6:01PM
Well, my SO will now watch the occasional movie with me, but it has been a long process. I warmed her up to the idea over time, and I finally got her to watch one, and then one more. I made some mistakes, but I learned from them. We now watch them together, and our sex life is the better for it.
I don't know if my situation is unusual or not, but here are some of the keys points that I would recommend to anyone wanting to involve their SO/wife:
- Specifically stayed away from movies that had a lot of huge (read fake) breasts. My wife has beautiful but petite breasts and all she could think is that I was lusting over those absurdly hard, stretchmarked things. Since I don't like 'em anyway, this was easy for me. It's impossible to totally stay away from it these days, but it's still a pretty safe bet to steer away from titles like "Big Busty Workout 6".
- Believe it or not, I would strongly suggest staying AWAY from the soft couples porn you can get from run-of-the-mill video stores or cable TV. I think the main turnoff for a lot of girls when watching porn is that they think the guy is having all the fun--and they're right! Most softcore stuff is just one big tittyshow. If she is going to feel a part of it, then she has to see some dick, plain and simple. Even if she doesn't think she likes it that much, it's the principle. I stay away from lesbian-oriented stuff for the same reason. And if a scene comes up, I skip to the next one. Yeah, this one is harder for me , but it's sure worth it.
- Give her plenty of attention. It's harder for her to not like porn if she really likes what happens when she watches it...
Anyway, my $.02
[This message has been edited by cohiba (edited November 25, 1999).]
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Posted - Nov 26 1999 : 11:25AM
spayne-
i almost died laughing when i saw that scene in lotus. i knew kobe was small -but that was ridiculous. just think about the rush of blood to the head.
cohiba-
good advice -especially the keep her happy while watching i should clarify what i meant by couple's flick. i've never seen any softcore (i watched a playboy for about ten minutes and thought it was a calendar on film.) by couple's i mean Insatiable, or Justine 2, or Country Comfort, or Ancient Secrets of the Kama Sutra, or Search for the Snow Leopard. All of those have some dick
actually the dick isn't what does it for me. i just like seeing a woman get pleasure.



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